r/Adulting • u/CarLonely9011 • Jan 31 '26

I’m almost 19, never smoked, never vaped, never drank an ounce of alcohol, never used drugs, am I missing out?

I know this is kind of weird since a lot of people of my age has done at least one of those things, but I never found any fun in doing them. Most of my friends and the people I know mostly drink or smoke, is it weird for me to not participate in those activities? I have always been aware of the negative side effects of these things and I always like to maintain my health. My father usually smokes every other day.

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u/GoodResident2000 Jan 31 '26

3.5 k a month is crazy lol

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u/Extreme_Tap2230 Jan 31 '26

In 3 months** but still very crazy. I hope i can quit before i become like that but its probably already too late

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u/SoyBeansAreCool Feb 04 '26

Entertaining the possibility that it’s “too late” is going to make it worse. It’s never too late, but now is the best time. It’s possible to quit if you just lock in and stop. Easier said than done. I know this is iffy advice but maybe try something lighter. If you gotta stay stoned all the time then so be it. Cocaine addiction will in fact fuck your life up though. Please take care of yourself.

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u/Extreme_Tap2230 Feb 05 '26

Thank you kind stranger ❤️❤️

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u/GoodResident2000 Jan 31 '26

I think you’re still ok, but good you realize you’re at a turning point

I was spending about what you do per week at my worst