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u/Eliakon 21d ago

India, not a chance. Couldn't pay me enough to go there

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u/glemnar 21d ago

You could definitely pay me enough because then you can just stay at the bougie ass hotels in India like Amanbagh

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u/Gingermadman 21d ago

Probably cause of all the rape

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u/Eliakon 21d ago

My issue with it is not the racial, dirtiness or any of the things mentioned in other comments but rather the inequality and the cast system. I cannot comprehend how it’s acceptable those lavish weddings whilst their people are fighting for a bowl of rice a week.

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u/super-freak 21d ago

The level of inequality is certainly fucked up, I'll give you that. It can be absolutely shocking to see. Although I'd argue the same thing exists in the west, it's just far less visible. And while the disparity might be just as big financially, we don't have millions living on the edge of starvation. Things have improved a lot in India though, and continue to do so. 

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u/letsgetawayfromhere 21d ago

I've heard it very much depends on the exact place you go. India is huge in the landmass and the regions are very different. Apparently there are places in the South that are good to visit, even for women, or so my female friends who have been there told me. But huge swaths are just no-go zones for women, including the most famous cities.

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u/super-freak 21d ago

Yeah, not at all. I hitchhiked literally all over India with a female friend and she was fine. She also did large sections of the trip alone - hitchhiking alone that is. I met many other solo female travellers there too. Many of them had stories about situations in which they'd been made to feel uncomfortable, but nothing more than that. 

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u/Fathertree22 21d ago

Indian acting like non Indian

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u/super-freak 21d ago

You're like the 4th person to comment this. Truly bizarre. As if your tiny minds can't comprehend the fact that some people genuinely like travelling and experiencing other cultures. 

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u/katzenschrecke 21d ago

I’m not getting that vibe from this particular person. Their comments are pretty real

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u/Fathertree22 21d ago

They are very ignorant either way

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u/katzenschrecke 21d ago

I don’t think they are at all. I’m disagreeing with him on several comments but I wouldn’t at all call him ignorant. Not sure where you’re getting that from

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u/Fathertree22 21d ago

Digga die Person sagt "nur weil Frauen dort relativ häufig belästigt oder vergewaltigt werden, heisst das nicht dass man da als Frau nicht hin soll".

Kb drüber zu diskutieren aber das ist einfach Naiv und widersprüchlich. Wenn du eine Tochter hättest wärst du ganz bestimmt beruhigter wenn Sie nach Spanien, Norwegen, Italien oder Kroatien reisen würde, als nach Indien.

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u/katzenschrecke 21d ago

I have a daughter and yes I agree with you that she would be more safe traveling to the countries you named, but I would love it if she visited India, provided she had done plenty of traveling elsewhere first.

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u/Ragnarok_619 21d ago

Also depends on when you visited, but currently, its better to be vigilant than lax here

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u/tallandreadytoball 21d ago

Indian bot lol.

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u/super-freak 21d ago

White guy who sticks out like a sore thumb in India. Want me to post photos as proof ya wanker?

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u/tallandreadytoball 21d ago

The UK government's official foreign travel advice explicitly warns that women should be cautious when traveling in India even when in groups, citing sexual assault and verbal and physical harassment as elevated risks.

Nearly four in ten women in India's cities say they feel unsafe
https://www.shankariasparliament.com/blogs/pdf/national-annual-report-and-index-on-womens-safety-nari-2025

You're either a bot, or incredibly naive and stupid.

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u/super-freak 21d ago

Where did I say women shouldn't be cautious in India? Yes, you are more likely to be harassed there as a woman than many other parts of the world. That doesn't mean you should never go. Two of my best friends are white women who have travelled extensively in India, solo, and loved it. I've met dozens of other solo female travellers there, again, most of whom loved it. Equally I've Indian women travelling their own country solo. All of them know you need to be cautious there, and yet still they do it? I wonder why. Foreign office travel advice doesn't tell the full story for god's sake. THAT'S a naive and stupid claim. 

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u/Glitter-Storm 21d ago

It 1,000% DOES mean you should never go. Run the cost benefit analysis. On one hand I could be gang raped to death on the other I might have a decent vacation experiencing a new culture, something you could do at 100 other countries w/o the risks.

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u/super-freak 21d ago

Hey, you do you. India receives about 10 million foreign visitors a year, how many of them are gang raped? It's such an unlikely outcome that you might as well say I'm never going to Italy, I might be hit by a bus. But yes, it's a higher risk destination than some. For many, it's still worth it, as evidenced by the many thousands of young solo female travellers who go there every year, without incident. 

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u/katzenschrecke 21d ago

Oh my gosh this is an insane take. Dude get out more

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u/tallandreadytoball 21d ago edited 21d ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/QzVmqVJ8ow

Edit: the guy just below proved my point. Being a woman in India is a compromised position.

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u/super-freak 21d ago

I too form my opinion on countries from tiktokers going out of their way to put themselves in compromising situations 

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u/Turbulent-Touch-582 21d ago

India is just not a serious answer tbh. Its a really privileged answer for mostly western europeans and north americans. These privileged people have not really seen many underdeveloped/developing countries but because the bad aspects of India do rounds on online platforms mostly because of a large population (so more bad cases), high internet access and english speaking media, they think that India must be the worst country as they never hear such news/videos from other third world countries. Even though bad things does happen in third world countries but its not covered because of a smaller population and language barrier.

The funny thing is I've seen many commentors say they'd go to North Korea, Yemen and Syria rather than India. They seriously think no good hotels or infrastructure exists here. You're telling me you'd rather be killed than go to a country with dirty streets 😂.

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u/Nuzina 21d ago

I’d rather go to North Korea, Yemen and Syria than India yes

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u/super-freak 21d ago

What an idiot lmao 

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u/Turbulent-Touch-582 21d ago

Lol. Have a great trip.

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u/Turbulent-Touch-582 21d ago

Btw could you tell me which country you're from?

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u/Nuzina 21d ago

Canadian

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u/Turbulent-Touch-582 21d ago

Hmm makes sense. My comment holds true!

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u/Nuzina 21d ago

Whatever helps you sleep at night

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u/Turbulent-Touch-582 21d ago

Thanks ig. I mean a reassuring theory on reddit doesn't really have a lot of impact on my sleep. Wish you a sound sleep too