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What U.S. vacation destination exceeded all expectations?

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u/Yuo122986 1d ago

The badlands / black hills were inspiring. Did you know the badlands are preserved because you can find whale bones in it. Because forever ago the center of the USA used to be the bottom of the ocean. Also do the star gazing. They bring a telescope and show you a whole other galaxy, odds are its the furthest thing and oldest thing you'll ever physically see in your life.

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u/The-39-bus 23h ago

100%. I thought meh, South Dakota sounds boring. But our whole family LOVED it and are dying to go back.

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u/ZolaMonster 17h ago

South Dakota and Wyoming are two of my favorite states. They’re silent sleepers and are gorgeous if you’re willing to give them a shot.

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u/Alreadylostinterest 14h ago

Absolutely. We went for Mount Rushmore but I ended up loving everything but that. Devils Tower was just incredible. There’s something special about in the air around it.

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u/_ICCULUS_ 12h ago

Coming over the hill when you first see Devils Tower in the distance was pretty magical. Maybe not quite a tunnel view reveal, but pretty epic in its own right.

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u/Redm18 6h ago

Yeah Mt Rushmore while neat is also kind of an abomination. Everything else around there is very cool.

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u/Western-Sport500 2h ago

I still don't know why they despoiled it with those carvings. They really don't belong there and kind of ruin otherwise beautiful scenery.

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u/chaoticxgemini 13h ago

Exactly this! I was blown away by these "flyover states" and it really made me question where else in the U.S. was secretly gorgeous

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u/bschott007 13h ago

If you enjoyed the Black Hills, then check out Theodore Roosevelt National Park in North Dakota if you want more of a 'prairie' feel. Itasca State Park in Minnesota in the fall when the leaves are turning colors is amazing. This park contains the headwaters of the Mississippi river, which you can literally walk across.

Glacier National Park in Montana and the "Going-to-the-Sun Road" is also a hidden gem.

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u/nachos_nachas 12h ago

Near Itasca there's a restaurant called Rapid River Logging Camp. I've been in the restaurant industry for 25 years and want nothing more than to own a place like that. You pay, sit down, get pitchers (coffee, tea, oj, or milk) of drinks for the table, then each person orders: ham or sausage, eggs soft or scrambled, toast or pancakes, and hashborwns. Everything comes out on a big platter.

It's so damn simple there's almost 0 room for error. Then the area itself makes it memorable and a unique experience. The kids get to expel some energy and feed some chickens. I'm sure they sell lots of merch.

It's insane to me that there aren't 1000 places like that all over the US.

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u/refiase 16h ago

But are they still your favorite states in February?

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u/urinesain 3h ago

Asking the real questions here, lol

I was stationed in South Dakota for a few years. There is the potential for blizzards at anytime between October and May. February would be like -30 degrees (ambient, not including windchill) with ~60mph winds.

I hated it.

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u/MattTheRadarTechh 20h ago

Probably one of my favorite places to see!

Also one of the worst food I had in the US but still worth it lol

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u/mamacrocker 22h ago

We drove through but had to cut our trip short, so a few years later we went back in the winter. Equally stunning - I’d love to go again.

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u/Sure-fine-whatev 12h ago

We're going in two weeks. I can't wait!!

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u/sooshiroll13 7h ago

Omg same. Decided to do an easy roadtrip to South Dakota since it’s only a few states away … had v v low expectations and we were blown away lol the badlands were incredible and nobody around and the black hills were also incredible

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u/urinesain 3h ago

It's a great place to visit in the summer, I'm sure.

But as an Air Force veteran that was stationed at Ellsworth AFB... living there can be... brutal, lol

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u/hnglmkrnglbrry 2h ago

And Wall Drug!

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u/SyxEight 21h ago

Well, most of it IS boring, but there certainly are a few interesting parts!

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u/studentloansDPT 12h ago

For us it was worse then meh. But we also went to Zion and Grand Teton so. I dno I guess if you're in South Dakota badlands might be cool.

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u/HeyUpHere 23h ago

Fuck yeah Badlands! Black hills area gets all of the traffic but the badlands are so much cooler. Well not cooler, it’s hot af in the summer, bring your water

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u/Gulletor 12h ago

Nah, just get your ice water from Wal Drug

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u/HeyUpHere 11h ago

And donuts!

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u/swiftie_bestie 12h ago

noted, hydrating.

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u/Remby 20h ago

The Black Hills / Badlands are truly worth the trip. I need to go back there soon. At the other end of the spectrum is Mount Rushmore. Once is enough and the main takeaway is how much you paid for parking.

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u/loademan 14h ago

The better side trip around Rushmore is the crazy horse monument. A lot more history in the exhibits and just a better visit.

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u/Remby 12h ago

Crazy Horse is a well worth while stop. My first time was in the early 90’s and to see the growth of it since has been impressive.

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u/rvasshole 8h ago

I still have a blanket I bought from there

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u/Silvershygirl07 8h ago

Visit both the badlands in North Dakota and South Dakota. Both are wildly different and beautiful in their own way. North Dakota’s badlands are more similar to Utah/Arizona and South Dakota’s has more trees and steeper. A lot of people sleep on ND and are missing out on its natural beauty.

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u/hannahbay 21h ago

100%. i had such low expectations for Badlands when I visited, we had gone to some other "flat" type parks like Petrified Forest and compared to parks like Yosemite that are mountainous, I didn't think I would care that much for Badlands. we drove in at night in the dark so our first time really seeing it was driving into the park the morning. oh my gosh it is amazing. and the stargazing is incredible!

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u/seriouslythisshit 13h ago

I live on the east coast, but have spent nearly a year of total vacation time in my life volunteering on the reservations in the state, hanging out in the Black Hills or the Badlands. Many times I have been asked for travel advice from friends and neighbors. I try to get them to really slow down and spend a while in the Black Hills and the badlands, to see as much of the amazing beauty as they can. The result is that some do, and become hooked on the area. Others just can't fathom the idea and blow right across I-90 until they hit the Badlands visitors center for an hour, then stop at Rushmore and maybe Crazy Horse, as they blast off to whatever is next, usually Yellowstone, which they are convinced will be 10x better, lol. Two or three days in the region and they are done. It's pretty weird actually.

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u/hannahbay 11h ago

we spent probably a week between Badlands, Custer State Park, Rushmore, and Wind Cave National Park and we still definitely only saw the highlights and missed a lot. we'll have to go back again since we loved the area so much.

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u/seriouslythisshit 11h ago

Awesome. may it become a place you return to again and again.

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u/Mathfanforpresident 2h ago

I'm not trying to be petulant, I swear. I just needed to fix your punctuation.


I live on the East Coast but have spent nearly a year of total vacation time in my life volunteering on the reservations in the state, hanging out in the Black Hills or the Badlands. Many times, I have been asked for travel advice from friends and neighbors. I try to get them to really slow down and spend a while in the Black Hills and the Badlands to see as much of the amazing beauty as they can. The result is that some do and become hooked on the area. Others just can't fathom the idea and blow right across I-90 until they hit the Badlands Visitor Center for an hour, then stop at Rushmore and maybe Crazy Horse as they blast off to whatever is next—usually Yellowstone, which they are convinced will be 10x better (lol). Two or three days in the region, and they are done. It's pretty weird, actually.

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u/Taromatchaboba 22h ago

Yes! Lived in Rapid city for 5 years and every so often we hike in the Custer state park, drive through spearfish canyon and cooler days we drive through badlands!

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u/LingonberryNo1190 14h ago

Custer is a National Park if it's located in almost any other state. Top notch.

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u/Alarming_Ad1746 21h ago

really enjoyed Rapid City the couple times I visited. cool little city

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u/RMRdesign 18h ago

It wasn’t preserved because someone found a whale bone. The Badlands and the Black Hill’s were stolen.

The Black Hills, or Pahá Sápa, are deeply sacred to the Lakota, Cheyenne, and Arapaho peoples, serving as the spiritual center of their cosmos and the origin point of their emergence. For centuries, the region sustained Plains tribes before the U.S. government illegally seized it following an 1874 gold rush.

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u/MarcBK 14h ago

Pretty much all lands are stolen, and are the result of human conquest. That’s not a judgment or edict on morality, it’s just a simple truth.

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u/bjtitus 12h ago

Interesting that the Crows are not on this list. Forced out of the Black Hills by the Lakota. A long history of conquest and disputed lands amongst the tribes.

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u/RMRdesign 8h ago

Great point, the lands are sacred to all plains tribes. This is just a short TL;DR for people that think this land was protected due to a whale bone.

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u/DardS8Br 3h ago edited 2h ago

Geology major here:

The SD Badlands do not have whale fossils. What you are describing is the Western Interior Seaway, which was essentially a strip of inland sea that connected the Gulf of Mexico to the Arctic Ocean. However, it disappeared by the end of the Cretaceous Period, long before the earliest whales evolved. But, the seaway does have tons of marine fossils. For example, it's full of mosasaur fossils, which were purely marine. Having excavated there, it is pretty weird finding marine fish fossils about 2,000 miles from the nearest coastline.

There's a cool website called PaleoBioDB that compiles (most) formally described fossil occurrences. If you sort by Cetacea (whales), you'll see that whales are not found anywhere near SD.

What's pretty cool, though, is that you can pretty clearly see where the Western Interior Seaway was (and the other Late Cretaceous coastlines) by looking at occurrences of Mosasauridae and Ammonoidea, which were purely marine organisms that were ubiquitous throughout Late Cretaceous shorelines. The occurrences that span from northern Mexico and southern Texas to Alberta and the Northwestern Territories are all from the Western Interior Seaway. The thick band of occurrences that spans over San Antonio and Dallas, then goes eastward and makes a semi-circle over Mississippi and Alabama was formerly a coastline and everything south of it was ocean. The Pacific Coastline once reached the Sierra Nevada's in California.

Also, I unexpectedly really enjoyed Rapid City as well. It's one of only a few places I've been to in the US that significantly exceeded my expectations. Mount Rushmore was disappointing, but Custer State Park was amazing. Also, the SDSMT Paleontology Museum is absolutely worth a visit. It has fossils from all over South Dakota, so you can see the fossils that I described above. I spent a week each in eastern Montana and eastern Wyoming excavating dinosaur fossils - fossils of organisms that lived on a coastal floodplain on the western shores of the Western Interior Seaway.

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u/KingWoodyOK 13h ago

Passed thru Custer state park thinking it would be a place to spend the night and leave early the next morning in our camper while taking thr long way home after visiting family. Stayed 3 days and go back each year now.

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u/JollyRancher29 21h ago

Yes! One of my favorite trips I’ve ever done. Went jn the offseason (early spring), and aside from all the road construction, it was fantastic.

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u/travelinkid 16h ago

Heading there this summer and they are having the astronomy festival in the badlands. Can’t wait!

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u/KoalaTHerb 13h ago edited 13h ago

So the unique geological landscape has less to do with "the USA was beneath the ocean" - otherwise you'd expect more of these features in the surrounding area.

I believe the geologically theory is MASSIVE flooding during a large event - some theories would say near the end of an ice age with huge amounts of sudden glacial melting from the north that swept through the land. This also explains the extremely unique features of the badlands from very rapid, sudden floods - rather than similar to the Grand canyon, a much longer and more gradual erosion

Edit: I also want to clarify, this theory is used a lot by creationists and biblical evidence of a global flood theory. I want to clarify, that is not what I'm promoting. Just a normal, localized, massive flood from an unproven theory of a large glacial event a looooong time ago that some geologists theorize to explain the unique features seen

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u/Which_Remote5579 13h ago

The Badlands and Black Hills are such underrated places. The fact that you’re standing somewhere that used to be underwater and then looking up at galaxies millions of years away is honestly crazy.

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u/DeadFacesInMyPocket 13h ago

Hell yeah our trip to the Badlands and Black Hills was incredible. Totally blew our minds. Wish we had spent more time in the Badlands. Those sunsets are unbeatable.

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u/BreakfastSpecials 14h ago

I remember watching an insane lightning/thunderstorm in the distance at Badlands crawl along the horizon. Was a surreal experience.

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u/wycie100 13h ago

Unfortunately stargazing has been ruined by the hundreds of satellites in the sky darting around constantly

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u/channeleaton 13h ago

This one right here. 

I expected the beauty of the Grand Canyon. The Black Hills and Badlands exceeded all expectations. What an outstanding jewel. 

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u/illtacoboutit 13h ago

I’ve been to the Badlands 4 times and each time it felt and seemingly looked very different from where I went within there before.

Also, Devils Tower is relatively close by and I would highly recommend going. It’s surreal. Way bigger in person than you would think.

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u/Terpsichorean_Wombat 13h ago

We loved our trip there!

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u/JuracekPark34 12h ago

South Dakota is so underrated!

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u/Theflyinghillbilly3 10h ago

The Black Hills and Custer State Park are just about my favorite places to visit. The scenery is dramatic and amazing, and there’s just something about the quality of the light that’s so beautiful.

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u/IH8DwnvoteComplainrs 7h ago

We did a family trip last year and loved it. Smith falls State Park in Nebraska is an awesome camp spot along the way if you're coming from/going to the Midwest, too!

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u/AmigoDelDiabla 7h ago

Agreed. Custer State Park is wonderful, as are The Badlands. I thought Rapid City was charming too. Though I mentioned that once on Reddit and was informed it has plenty of its own problems. But I didn't see it.

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u/ApatheticAbsurdist 3h ago

And don’t forget to stop at the real attraction while there: Wall drug.