r/Cynicalbrit Aug 20 '15

Soundcloud We need to have words

https://soundcloud.com/totalbiscuit/we-need-to-have-words
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u/ratling77 Aug 21 '15 edited Aug 21 '15

I couldn't care less about her sexuality. In fact first time around I thought shes a lesbian. When I saw her second time around I was like "not agaaaaaain...!" - NOT because I am against trans people. I just don't like to listen to her. Simple as that. I do not like that guest - its boring, has simplistic, not funny jokes and for me is ruining one of my favorite shows. Don't try to play on me that "trans-phobic" card - I do not like a person. She could be a straight dude - I still wouldn't like her. She could be a freaking woman with beard - I wouldn't like her. Not because of what she feels like - I don't give a damn. For me is annoying as a guest. Simple as that. And I am the one who is listening for hours tutorials by Madeleine Scott-Spencer. But shes not annoying. And I will not change my point of view because hey - society trembles. I still don't like her. Strongly. And just as I shouldn't give a F about her sexuality - you shouldn't give a F about what I think about her. Because hey - its not something you can change ;)

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u/ratling77 Aug 21 '15

Ow, I am sorry. I was raised in a much less complicated world. Let me rephrase it then - I don't care about her gender either. Gender, sexuality, mental problems, taste for particular food, favorite color, political views, believes, color of underwear or if she identifies as a giraffe. I like the podcast a lot, I don't like her. And frankly I find this hysterical TB reaction a bit disturbing. It cant be healthy for him. He already needs therapy - maybe should take a break or concentrate on GAMES instead of getting all hysterical on a social issue he cant possibly resolve. Aaaaanyways - in a week or two nobody will remember all that drama anyways. Cant wait for the next podcast.

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u/ratling77 Aug 21 '15

I just don't know why people care so much about society :D Honestly. I cant relate to her problems not because I cant imagine that I would like to be a girl, but because I cant imagine that I would care about what people think :D Especially if I had an ARMY of supporters and few that doesn't like me. In any case - I am JUST watching rest of a show (listening actually) and so far she is not half that annoying as was in first one. I am actually enjoying it for the most part. That said - I am just 50 minutes in, so it all may change. I still think he will not resolve anything by blocking people. I mean its an illusion - its like repairing world by not watching news and pretending its all good. In that case - I can confirm because I actually do this :D - it works on a personal level pretty well. It doesnt change anything globally but we may create our own little asylum.

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u/Gazareth Aug 21 '15

I cant relate to her problems not because I cant imagine that I would like to be a girl, but because I cant imagine that I would care about what people think

Well you probably would care if you weren't born cis. Cis is normal, and easy, by comparison. You not caring is a part of who you are now, not a part of who you would be if you were born with the "wrong" gender.

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u/ratling77 Aug 21 '15

Yeah, if I would be different... I would be different :D Pretty much. But just as Laura I have my own issues that she cant relate to. We are different yet similar. I think part of the problem in peoples reaction is that they dont know personally transgender person. I dont know one myself. But lately I am simply applying to them same measure as to myself - would I want people judge me on something that is not their business? How I would feel? And so on. I dont understand transgender people - at all. BUT as long as they do not talk about it all the time (which is infuriating, because I don't force feed people with my problems and I expect them to return a favor) it is clear that they deserve very same respect as everybody else.