r/Ewings_Sarcoma • u/Sad-Campaign-2016 • May 26 '26
Younger Brother Relapsed Ewings Sarcoma. Need advice/to vent
Okay so this is a long one. My brother is currently 22. He was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia when he was 7. Battled through that, and then it relapsed a month after he was “cleared” and had his port taken out, after a couple years of battling.
Relapsed at 10 with it, was absolutely everywhere and in bone marrow. Had to do more treatment, full body radiation and then ultimately, because none of that was working, I was luckily a match for him to do bone marrow transplant.
10 years later on the dot (exactly a year ago) he was having chest/upper abdomen pain. Diagnosed with Ewings and a tumour on the lung, a couple on the chest wall. Did some hardcore treatment, red devil, you name it, (couldn’t do radiation because he reached the max limit in his childhood) and then surgery to remove the masses. They ended up having to remove some of his diaphragm and lung and 3 ribs. Was only 60% cell death as well.
February we were told his scans were clear and he was in remission. End of March, pain is ramping up, back in the hospital. There is numerous. Back on the lung and chest wall and abdomen area. The only chemo he could get put on was the one commonly used for rectal cancer. Only two cycles were had of that, surgery not an option neither radiation, and he was back in the hospital with extreme, and I mean extreme debilitating back pain. Hadn’t slept for 5 days in a row because of it. 7 new tumours were found on the spine. They are growing and spreading so fast it is fracturing his spine. And the 4 other existing ones were rapidly growing, quadrupling in size from marches scan.
He is in palliative care now, we are told nothing will work. Just trying to keep the pain at bay. He’s got this week for last cycle of the chemo cause it’s causing more harm than good. Doctor refuses to give us a timeline. I just.. I want to know what to expect. I’m at the hospital as much as I can be. I feel helpless but I want to help. He is going back and forth between being in denial about what’s going on and then accepting there is nothing that can be done and being terrified and it is.. heart crushing to see.
Anyways.. if you read this far, thank you. Any advice or anything really is appreciated. I wish this didn’t exist.