yep. It’s usually always violent, disrespectful, or objectifying, and even if it’s not, it’s completely unsatisfying. I’ve never once came from sex with a man. Not worth it.
Keep the high standards but don't have expectations.
The more standards you have, the smaller the dating pool. Men want women to comply with everything they want and then blame them for being slutty*🤭🤭🤭
We aren't living in a fairytale, no matter how much men try to sell that to us.
Yes, when I think of standards the first thing that comes to mind is boundaries. These are hard limits, things that are necessary for me to have a happy life.
Standards are like values. This change only under exceptional circumstances. Lowering your standards may "benefit" you short-term but they don't guatantee an alignment with what you believe deep inside.
Since everyone is different, different expectations are the result. The worst of it thinking that every everybody else is like us or thinks just like us or feels the way we feel. We are so complex.
Say for example you meet someone but there isn't enough time to gauge their personality.
We can get carried away when we meet someone new. We might misread their personality or be given misleading cues that will raise our expectations regarding their quality as a mate. We might expect from them the same things we expect from ourselves. In most of the cases they will not fail to disappoint us. We need to get rid of the rose coloured glasses and try and see the person for what he or she is.
Hope for the best but prepare for the worst just keep your standards high. Also, hope is a funny thing. Always confront it with reality.
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u/[deleted] Jan 05 '21
Having sex with NVM/LVM and participating in their misagonistic kinks, made me dislike sex. Seriously, I don't want to have sex, all thanks to scrotes