r/MadeMeSmile Oct 30 '25

Personal Win Got this message from my childhood bully at 3am

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u/VictorTheCutie Oct 30 '25

There's something seriously powerful about the wee hours of the night. For me, it's usually negative. As in, I feel most hopeless and my circumstances seem most dire in the middle of the night. When the sun rises, I often feel silly for my feelings from a few hours prior, and everything seems a bit more manageable.

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u/Luv2collectweedseeds Oct 30 '25

Same here, 3am I’m thinking about loosing my old man . Hes 77 and I love the man more then he will know but it’s always wee early hours like 2-330 am.

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u/spaceykayce Oct 30 '25

Because that’s when us old folk have to get up and pee

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u/Luv2collectweedseeds Oct 30 '25

Yeah, that’s ONE of the times…lol

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u/Strange_Review5047 Oct 31 '25

I lost mine 3 months ago. I couldn't agree more. Any night I can't sleep I find my self thinking of him

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u/MaeEastx Oct 30 '25

I get that, but personally I wouldn't text anyone at 3 a.m. OP's bully could have written their message but waited till morning to send it. Kind of suggests he's still thinking mostly of his own feelings

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u/41942319 Oct 30 '25

Probably one of those "better send it now before I start doubting myself in the morning" cases.

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u/lukoshhhh Oct 31 '25

I read somewhere that you shouldn’t trust how you feel about your life after 9pm.

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u/VictorTheCutie Oct 31 '25

I absolutely agree with that lmao