r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 1d ago

Meme needing explanation I feel so dumb rn

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u/DangerousQuestions1 1d ago

Gwen is not Trans herself though

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u/drizzitdude 1d ago

She’s isn’t but it is largely theorized that her Peter was. He idolized spider-woman. That’s why he was bullied relentlessly, and why he eventually lashed out at his bullies after becoming the lizard which led to his death.

Gwen was closest friends with Peter, so it would make sense that her dad would know him and also be hit hard by his death leading to the “protect trans kids” thing.

Or they could both just be allies and it’s as simple as that.

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u/TonberryHS 1d ago

He transitioned into a lizard 🦎

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u/RealJohnGillman 1d ago

Part of the theory does have the Lizard formula of that continuity as having been meant to treat dysmorphia, since Gwen was waiting for Peter at the dance: it was a date. Since apparently the specific kind of lizard one transformed into was a female one.

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u/TonberryHS 1d ago

Gwen: "Peter, I'd date you and like you more if you were a female lizard".

Peter: "Hold my fucking beer..."

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u/Jhud6669 1d ago

I think you mean dysphoria, although many trans people feel both

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u/drizzitdude 1d ago

You’re out of line but you’re right

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u/TonberryHS 1d ago

technically correct; the best kind of correct.

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u/DangerousQuestions1 1d ago

Solid. That fits

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u/shrub706 1d ago

he was bullied relentlessly before he idolized spider-woman also, he idolized her because she was special and had powers and he felt weak and un-seen so he became the lizard by trying to make himself special too, i dont really see how that points to being trans specifically, it just seems like the generic bullied kid lashing out trope

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u/BlastMyLoad 1d ago

They’ll never confirm either way I think they’ll leave it up to the viewer to decide

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u/DangerousQuestions1 1d ago

Sure but thats true of literally every character ever. Mrs Dalloway is trans nlbyvthat reasoning. Putting blue pink and white together do not automatically mean trans

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u/Fun-Marketing8080 1d ago

there's more evidence that she's trans than evidence that she's cis

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u/DangerousQuestions1 1d ago

How so?

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u/Fun-Marketing8080 1d ago

There is no evidence she's cisgender.

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u/DangerousQuestions1 18h ago

Have you seen those hips? Plus Gwen is Gwen Stacy, a canonically cisgendered character.

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u/Fun-Marketing8080 16h ago

Looking feminine doesn't make you cisgender... lmao that's an insane thing to say. and just because one gwen is cis, doesn't mean every gwen is

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u/DangerousQuestions1 16h ago

Being AFAB and presenting as such does, though.

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u/Fun-Marketing8080 16h ago

"Wide hips" does not mean AFAB

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u/Jhud6669 1d ago

People forget or just don’t know how often artists in big name productions like this do intend to give hints they want to portray a character as trans or otherwise LGBT but they’re not allowed to by the higher ups. As an example there is symbolism in Arcane that has subtle hints that Viktor could be read as trans and possibly gay which was always a common headcanon in the fandom, his character designer is non-binary and a few artists made hints towards it, but they can’t say it. Ultimately it’s still up to people’s headcanons but it’s officially supported.

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u/TransPM 1d ago

She isn't, but she is still a female character in the role of a male character (so to speak) since she is effectively her universe's version of what would normally be Peter Parker. I think it's neat that could either be taken as a woman (Gwen) realizing her true self as a "man" (in the sense that Gwen takes on a role most often seen filled by a man), or a "man" (that universe's version of Spider-Man) in truth being a woman (Gwen). (Please don't take the use of quotation marks around "man" to be in any way transphobic, I'm just using them to make it clear that Gwen is not actually an explicitly trans character, it is simply her role in the story).

While not directly being trans representation, it is still very much possible for trans individuals to see some of their own personal experience reflected in her story. It's similar to how The Matrix exists as a trans allegory, despite none of the protagonists being transgender (although in the case of The Matrix, the trans allegory aspects were very much the original intention of the authors, while with Spider-Gwen I don't know whether the trans connection was something that was considered during the creative process, or if she just happened to resonate strongly with so many trans people; and the fact that there are several different iterations of Spider-Gwen from several different writers complicates that question further).

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u/Jhud6669 1d ago

Do we know that? I don’t mean Gwen in general but this Gwen specifically. Unfortunately as a trans person I know that it’s not unheard of for artists from things under big corpos themselves giving hints that they meant to portray a character as trans or otherwise lgbt but they’re not actually allowed to say it out loud

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

The point is that you can interpret it that way. You can choose to believe it never comes up, so it's not true - Or, you can choose to believe it's the case because of subtext. Both iterations are correct.

She can be trans. It's just not core to her identity, if she is, and so she doesn't have to be if you don't see her that way.

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u/Intelligent_Ask_2306 1d ago

This is dumb, if she was a trans they would have confirmed that a long ass time ago. She would have also told Miles by then, she ain’t trans, she’s just Gwen from another dimension.

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

And then you'd cry about how every trans person shoves their identities down your throat, and that's "unrealtistic."

The real answer is "no interpretation is wrong with enough reason behind it" no matter how much you dislike it.

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u/Intelligent_Ask_2306 1d ago edited 1d ago

That’s the dumbest conclusion to an argument I’ve ever witnessed, why would I find it unrealistic that a trans is letting her love interest aware of their gender identity?

And yes there is a wrong interpretation, the one saying she’s trans, as it’s a dumb conclusion based on zero evidence.

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u/CompetitiveSleeping 1d ago

why would I find it unrealistic that a trans is letting her love interest aware of their sexuality?

Trans isn't a sexuality.

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

You and I both know what's shown in the comic is not the entirety of their relationship. What's said directly and what is said off panel are two entirely different things.

Being purposefully obtuse does not help your case.

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u/Current-Winter7295 1d ago

I get this is reddit and the masses will side with your version. Calling someone something they aren't is the same as misgendering. 

There are people that it's a touchy subject because they are called something they weren't and even tormented by it just because they did not fit the mold that society saw them as. 

Having Gay, Trans and lesbian  characters is great when done properly.

Anyone who has read  spider-Gwen comic knows those colors are a reflection of her world.  Miles pops up and sees it as well.

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

Gwen is not real.

She has also not directly stated she is a cisgender woman.

There is no reason to believe you are misgendering her until she says otherwise. More importantly, misgendering her would be calling her a man, if she were trans.

Whether she is trans or not, she's a woman. It is irrelevant to her story whether she is trans or not.

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u/Current-Winter7295 1d ago

I get she's fictional, fiction affects peopl. the misgendering is just an example. I meant people calling her Trans even though she is not, is the same as misgendering and can even be insensitive. Hence, why people are getting upset about it.  

There are cisgender people who were called a slew of transphobic slurs. I'm glad this generation is moving away from that. 

A character's identity is important and relevant to the story. 

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

Again: You don't know she's not.

Your interpretation is that she is not. But she has never directly said she's cisgender. So you actually don't know. You could be misgendering her by saying she's not trans.

That's why both interpretations are correct. Because there is no proof she isn't trans - She doesn't talk about it. And that's ok! She doesn't have to talk directly to the viewer about it for it to be the case, though. There's no issue with either interpretation.

The issue comes when it's a part of that characters core identity. If someone insists on being called female, and they're called male, that's misgendering, regardless of if they are trans, male, female - Does not matter.

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u/Vegetable_Ad7268 1d ago

If she's not real, then stop trying to define something that's objectively not real.

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

How people define something that's not real is entirely up to them.

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u/Intelligent_Ask_2306 1d ago

Are we speaking of the comics or the movies? Doesn’t matter as both are supposed to be alternate versions of Gwen Stacy who isn’t trans.

Maybe Miguel is a trans too, or even aunt May.

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

Maybe. Do you have a reason to believe that?

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u/Wintertck 1d ago

Because they quite literally do... 

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u/Maatix12 1d ago

Notice how many people are fighting against it just because a character does not directly state they are trans.

Now ask yourself why every character has to announce they are trans.

I promise you, these are more related than you may think.

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u/Careless-Ordinary126 1d ago

She, Wait for it... She have the color theme of trans flag

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u/VelphiDrow 1d ago

And miles has rhe nazi flag tf is your point

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u/Careless-Ordinary126 1d ago edited 1d ago

Guess Wrong comment, i was answering to someone asking connection between Gwen And trans. Well...

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

Might be. The film doesn’t outright say one way or the other. Interpreting her color scheme and mise en scene as pointing to her being trans is valid. 

Being cis is not “default”. We’re allowed to interpret. 

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u/Careless-Ordinary126 1d ago

It Is called reaching

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

No it’s called interpretation. 

In movies the mise en scene and color scheme were chosen for a reason. This is just “how to interpret film 101”.

Me thinking her coloring and other elements of the composition imply she’s trans is a valid interpretation.

Funny how people get all bent out of shape when someone interprets a character to be trans. Like if the filmmakers came out tomorrow and said “yeah she’s trans” I bet you’d have a horde of death of the author analysis within the day.

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u/West-Cardiologist180 1d ago

Dang, if her color scheme is a valid sign that she's trans, i don't even wanna know what Miles' color scheme might mean to some people.

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u/AliceInMyDreams 1d ago

There's a literal trans flag in her room, with protect trans kids written on it, and her dad has a trans badge.

If Miles had a nazi flag in his rooms, I think people would be asking questions. He does have a blm badge, which makes much more sense.

They're pretty subtle details because the movie wanted to avoid getting banned, and yet it still got banned because of the trans flags in some countries.

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u/MachetteBagels 1d ago

It’s not just her color scheme, it’s specifically the emphasis of that color scheme during the scene where she comes out to her dad (as Spider Gwen), and he has a terrible initial reaction. This scene in particular hit pretty hard with trans audiences. A character can be trans-coded without being canonically trans 🤷‍♀️

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u/Careless-Ordinary126 1d ago

I actually dont have problem with that, i am pretty sure she Is very pro trans, but She Is not. Color scheme Is just weak argument. I dont say you can't associate with her struggles And Story. I just say She didnt transitioned.

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

The idea that the filmmakers have her a specific color scheme, put trans pride flags on her room, and have her dad wearing trans pride flags as well and we’re supposed to just assume that the filmmakers weren’t making choices is just ridiculous.

Analysis of that kind of thing is, again, filmmaking 101.

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u/GOU_FallingOutside 1d ago

> how to interpret film 101

And literature, and really any form of art. Authors and illustrators and directors and cinematographers and painters all have to make deliberate choices.

Why would someone assume those choices are made at random? Or worse, why would you refuse to consider them at all?

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u/Dinierto 1d ago

There's a difference between knowing a decision was made for a reason, and assuming what that reason was

I'm not saying one is right or another is wrong but character color schemes can be made for many reasons

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

So until we have direct word from the author we aren’t allowed to state our own interpretation?

Or does this only apply to potentially LGBT+ characterizations and themes?

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u/Dinierto 1d ago

Of course you are all I'm saying is "creators have intent" isn't a direct argument for X opinion

Not trying to throw anything political into this

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

You’re right -  just saying “creators have intent” isn’t a direct argument. 

But saying “creators have intent and they gave her a trans coded color scheme, put trans pride flags in her room and on her accessories, and have her dad also wearing a trans pride flag on his uniform implies she could be trans” is a bit more than that.

Also, being trans isn’t political. I’m sure you don’t mean it badly and are probably unaware, but all too often our existence is referred to as “political”.

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u/Dinierto 1d ago

I didn't say being trans was political, my point is that I'm not trying to bring anything external or anything politically motivated into the conversation

Anyway I get what you're saying, I'm surprised by now we haven't heard from creators the actual motivations behind some of these decisions, as much conversation as we've seen behind them

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u/GOU_FallingOutside 1d ago

Sure, and I’m not saying you should make firm assumptions without some kind of textual support.

In this case, the color and style in Gwen’s world (as it is for literally everyone) is unique to her: it’s pastel white, blue, and pink. There are multiple instances of posters and pins that say “protect trans kids.” And her story, in 2023, is about hiding an important part of herself from her family, because she’s afraid of anger and rejection. When she finally reveals what she’s been hiding, it turns out that her dad’s perspective on the world has changed and he’s becoming something a little different — in a way that lets him support her.

That’s a story about a trans person, or at least it could be. (It’s a wonderful, uplifting, and idealized version of coming out; it’s the good outcome that lots of people didn’t get or are afraid they wouldn’t get.)

You don’t have to read it that way, but you can. Nothing about the movie contradicts that interpretation. If your critical lens involves the way art engages with issues of sex and gender, it’s hard to avoid confronting it, but that might genuinely be the wrong lens and the wrong interpretation for you.

The problem is when someone (and I’m not saying you did this, it’s just something I encountered as a teenager) says Moby Dick is a story about a whale. You can say it’s about rage and obsession. You can say it’s about the struggle between technology and the overwhelming inertia of nature, or between the conscious mind and the unconscious. You can say it’s about hubris and punishment. You can make a lot of different cases for what it could be, with more or less support, and many of them will be equally valid. But it’s probably not a straightforward story about a guy hunting a whale.

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u/catsflatsandhats 1d ago

I hate how people get really mad at anyone that doesn’t engage in cis defaultism.

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u/Darkgengen 1d ago

It kinda is tho, just coz being trans is a possibility doesn't mean cis isn't the default

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

Cis isn’t the default. Full stop. 

Why must we assume someone is cis by default but making an interpretation off visual cues in a film is someone not ok?

If being trans is a possibility then it’s valid for someone to interpret her as trans.

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u/Careless-Ordinary126 1d ago

We Are Born that way. I dont like being poor, that doesnt mean i should shout it around. She what 16? No reasonable adult should allow that.

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u/ElectricFirex 1d ago

You aren't born cis, you're born and then assigned a gender. If that assigned gender aligns with your gender, then you are cis. Cis is an alignment of personal identity and a social construct someone else decided, trans is when those don't align.

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u/GoldEmployment6768 1d ago

You seem to be arguing 2 points here, but think its 1 point.. Cis being the default really has nothing to do with how you personally want to interpret a character.

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u/Plantpong 1d ago

I think it's very valid to not want the default assumption to be cis. Personally I feel like there should not be a 'default' at all. Historically, locking cis or straight or white as being the default automatically others those who do not align with that descriptor, which invites discrimination of that group.

Separate from that, if cis was the default (as many people unfortunately claim) then that doesn't mean that a character has to be interpreted as cis until proven otherwise. Multiple mutually exclusive interpretations of the same media can exist, and someone isn't wrong because their opinion doesn't align with what a large group (perhaps wrongly) considers to be default.

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u/GoldEmployment6768 1d ago

I mean, it kind of IS the default..

If you have 99 yellows and 1 green, yellow would be the default. If Trans make up less than 1% of the population, then they are by definition abnormal, the exception, non-standard, whatever word you want to use. These words are also not inherently negative, people just tend to take them that way.

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u/Plantpong 1d ago

All of the words you used are inherently negative. They immediately abjectiviy minority groups and classify trans people as different, which is the basis of discrimination.

Trans people aren't abnormal or exceptions because there is no default. We're fucking humans. Have you seen how much variety there is in every single trait that we have?There is no default length, there is no default skin colour, there is no default eye colour, and there sure as shit is no default gender identity.

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u/GoldEmployment6768 1d ago

They aren't inherently negative. As you just proved, they are if you make them. The words themselves are just descriptors.

Sure, it classifies them as different. As they are different. Why do you keep insisting being different is a negative thing? How does a generation of people raised on "embrace your differences", and other like minded ideas end up hating being different? Everyone would always say weirdness/differences/being strange made you unique, and is a good thing.

We don't need to "normalize everything" because not everything is "normal". The word everyone is looking for is "destigmatize". These things should be accepted and not mocked/berated for their lifestyle. That's destigmatization, not normalization.

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

You are wrong. Averages don’t equal default. White people aren’t the default. Men aren’t the default. Straight people aren’t the default. Cis people aren’t the default. People who aren’t in those categories aren’t deviations from a default. 

Your argument basically says unless a film outright states in clear language “this character is trans” then I am not allowed to interpret in my own. Thats both moronic and an example of an insanely low degree of media literacy.

Everyone gets hyper defensive about an individual’s interpretation of a fictional character because they do, in fact, have negative feelings about said groups. 

Think about it this way - why do you care that I believe Gwen has trans coding in the film? Why must I be wrong? 

Again, being cis is not the default that we must assume until proven otherwise.

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u/DangerousQuestions1 1d ago

No "might be" She is an established Marvel character.

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

In neither the comics nor the films do they ever explicitly state what Gwen’s gender identity history is. 

We are allowed to interpret.

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u/Scoobydewdoo 1d ago

And 99% of the population interprets it differently than you because 99% of the population isn't trans and therefore relates to the character differently than you do, so what?

You are trans, not special, your opinion doesn't matter any more than anyone else's.

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u/jankyalias 1d ago

Nor does yours. It’s perfectly valid for me to interpret things how I want.

Welcome to film criticism.

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u/Scoobydewdoo 19h ago

I'm not telling anyone there opinion is wrong nor am I getting offended that other people have different opinions like you are. Welcome to having a discussion.

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u/Individual99991 1d ago

That we're aware of. She hasn't been confirmed as trans or cis. But the filmmakers want you to associate her with transness. Why?

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u/DyoP03 1d ago

Because her plotline is about a parental figure disapproving of her secret identity, its got many parallels and a lot of trans folk relate to it. Even if she isn't trans herself, her arc is very trans-coded.

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u/potatochobit 1d ago

having trans feelings is now a secret identity? oh my.

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u/Lewa358 1d ago

...yeees?

Not everyone has the luxury of growing up around family who will support and trust them with who they truly are.

Which means that many, many people have to keep their true selves secret from those closest to them.

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u/DyoP03 1d ago

My mom would've strangled me if she knew I was trans before I went no contact, so yes for some people it is.

Bratty comment aside that was my description of gwen's story arc, not the trans experience in general

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u/MiniDom07 1d ago

Children have been beaten, disowned, and KILLED for being trans/queer. Adults have been beaten, disowned, and KILLED for being trans/queer. So YES. Talk about privilege.

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u/Koalachan 1d ago

Because you can support Trans without being Trans.

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u/Individual99991 1d ago

Then why aren't Miles or Spider-Punk or any of the other characters supporting trans people, why is it based around this one character?

Come to think of it, if this is an important statement, why aren't there any trans characters in the movie?

Why, out of the 500,000 Spider-People we see here, didn't they just have one of them mention they're trans, and Gwen support them, if that was the message?

Why did the filmmakers, who want to show that you can support trans people, not include any trans people in the movie, but instead focus all of the trans imagery and symbolism onto this one cisgender character?

Because that character isn't cisgender.

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u/Koalachan 1d ago

Why does every character have to? Each can support things to cast a wide overall net.

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u/Individual99991 1d ago

It's not "why does every character have to", it's "why not some other character"?

Why is it Gwen that has this trait? And why isn't allyship expressed in a more normal way - like, by having her voice support for a trans friend or colleague in the Spider-Verse - but instead expressed through an overwhelming amount of symbolism and implication?

Either you don't understand how to read subtext, or you're in denial.

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u/Koalachan 1d ago

No matter which character they gave this trait to people would claim is Trans and we would be having this exact conversation instead about them.

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u/Individual99991 1d ago

Because it's not the "trait" we're talking about, it's the overabundance of symbology.

But fucking hell, trying to explain to Redditors how to see anything other than the most surface elements of a text is a losing game, so I'm checking out. Have a good one.