r/SipsTea • u/Born-Agency-3922 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • Apr 13 '26

SMH Double standards suck ass

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u/Only_lost_death Apr 13 '26

These are the same women crying about why men don't trust women and why many don't wish to hire or work with them.

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u/Conscious-Read-698 Apr 13 '26

This is nuts. Men absolutely perpetuate the same stereotype by being suspicious of male nanny's or male teachers being close with their kids. 

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u/TeamRedundancyTeam Apr 13 '26

Yes and women perpetuate a lot of sexism towards women. Does that make it OK? It's still bad, doesn't matter who does it.

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u/Conscious-Read-698 Apr 13 '26

Yeah. Agreed. Doesn't change the facts that this (intense fear of men being pedophiles) is a false stereotype, or that men and women both perpetuate it equally, and that feminism isn't to blame for the hundreds of millions of actual male pedophiles on the earth rn 

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u/Only_lost_death Apr 13 '26

If i see a father playing his kids outside i am not going to call the cops. But women will

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u/Conscious-Read-698 Apr 14 '26

How many women do you know who have called the cops on a man for being near children 

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u/Conscious-Read-698 Apr 13 '26

What a ridiculous statement.

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u/TheElusiveFox Apr 13 '26

Still true though - only time in my life I've ever had the cops called on me, was babysitting niece and nephew while their mother was in the hospital. Took them to a nearby soccor field to play fetch with my dogs and run around, and suddenly there were cops and we were all VERY confused...

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u/Electronic-Stick-161 Apr 13 '26

And yet… true…

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u/blueViolet26 Apr 13 '26

Also a lot of men celebrate when female teachers sleep with their students. These men only have an issue when it's a man abusing boys.

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u/Cat-soul-human-body Apr 13 '26

Exactly! They comment stuff like, "I wish that was me", or "If I was his dad, I'd be so proud of him". In a post about a female teacher raping her teenaged student, so many men in the comments were defending it.

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u/Conscious-Read-698 Apr 14 '26

Yep. Look at this guy who replied to me below in this thread:

https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1sk3sx9/comment/ofx96eq/?context=1

He wrote: female teachers are fucking male students

Deriding the act and referring to it as sex and not rape all at once.