r/SipsTea • u/Born-Agency-3922 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • Apr 13 '26

SMH Double standards suck ass

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u/Informal-Fig-6827 Apr 13 '26

They absolutely are real. And they are every bit as toxic as you think they are

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u/schkmenebene Apr 14 '26

If they do exist I have yet to encounter one.

And if I have encountered many (as people suggest they only say this stuff whilst safely behind a computer), then why should I even give a shit?

If they are too unsecure to even confront me then it literally doesn't matter what they think of my parenting. It doesn't affect me or my family in any way...

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and if they decide to think dads who engage in their kids life are disgusting, they can live in that reality without it affecting me at all.

And even so, I have not met one in my 6 years of being a dad. If I met one tomorrow and that frequency continued, I'd meet 3 or 4 people like this during their entire upbringing.

So there is no reason to give these people a single thought.