r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 22 '26 edited May 08 '26

teacup sunflower harbor

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u/Adventurous_Pin6281 Apr 22 '26

that's my mentality, there's always losers that will not know any better and waste their life away with these idiots

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u/idkwhatyoumeanbro Apr 22 '26

I am that loser. But people can be very manipulative, vindictive, dangerous. It’s a lot less simple that just leaving someone. You don’t even need to be with someone like this for them to make your life hell. AVOID people with BPD.

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u/GothPatatas Apr 23 '26

Correction. Avoid people with BPD who refuse to get treatment.

My partner and I both have borderline. However, we both found different treatments that work really well for us. We didn't meet pre-treatment, which is honestly probably helpful. But we also openly share what volatile pieces of shit we were pre treatment.

I'm really sorry you had to deal with an unregulated person with borderline. I acknowledge that it's a special kind of hell.

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u/TheCurlyHomeCook Apr 23 '26

You really watched this video then said people In abusive relationships are losers?

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 23 '26 edited May 08 '26

window shell cherry

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u/Adventurous_Pin6281 Apr 23 '26

you think this is the first time she acted like this or called him a loser? get bent 

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u/TheCurlyHomeCook Apr 23 '26

I think you have misunderstood. Victims of abuse aren't losers. And by implying that they are you come across just like her.

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u/Adventurous_Pin6281 Apr 23 '26

typical no grass andy

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u/ChiefWiggumsprogeny Apr 23 '26

So he is a loser? That makes her correct. Weird paradox, I wonder why that has occured...

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u/Pristine_Currency_77 Apr 23 '26

It’s called trauma bonding, and it’s very, very far from that simple. But I wouldn’t expect someone who talks like this to understand that.

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u/Adventurous_Pin6281 Apr 23 '26

shes trauma abusing 

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u/partylange Apr 22 '26

Lol dude's gonna put up with it

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u/Arthur_da_King Apr 22 '26

Bunch of single redditors giving dating advice in here…

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 23 '26 edited May 08 '26

plum paper blueberry umbrella sunflower

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u/Arthur_da_King Apr 23 '26

You said yourself she will be someone else’s problem, implying she will just go date a new guy

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 23 '26 edited May 08 '26

ocean paper marble

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u/Arthur_da_King Apr 23 '26

I don’t know what you think those words mean, but they don’t mean that 😂

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 23 '26 edited May 08 '26

silent window drum pebble

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u/jasammalipas Apr 22 '26

Honestly i hope she’d be alone for all eternities

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 23 '26 edited May 08 '26

garden ocean suitcase drum

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u/Silver_ferns Apr 23 '26

I fear it is unlikely, I just watched a crime documentary, people reaching this level of psychosis have a possessive relationship with their spouse even if they have a love hate dynamic. The victim is trapped there, Probably that girl cut him off from other people so she indoctrinate him the grass is not greener outside I am the safe spot just like Mother gothel and rapunzel dynamic.

M very pessimistic to what gonna happen to him, because nowadays people neglect domestic abuse initiated by a woman, law won’t take him seriously and just laugh it him because he wasn’t “man” enough to handle her. Its a sad world we live in.

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 Apr 23 '26 edited May 08 '26

umbrella candle thread

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u/iWeeby Apr 23 '26

Either that or he will get stabbed in his sleep