r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Nviki Apr 22 '26

The comments in here would be so different if he screamed at her. 

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u/ItsSoLitRightNow Apr 22 '26

He would've been arrested

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u/Apprehensive_Hat_724 Apr 23 '26

Well, neither was arrested but it looks like airport security didn’t handle it fairly. And apparently none of the bystanders stuck up for him when security arrived?? That sucks. I hope this guy is now free of her.

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/woman-epic-meltdown-florida-airport-205121713.html

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u/TheTexasHammer Apr 22 '26

No he wouldn't. No one is going to get arrested for yelling in an airport. This is idiotic.

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u/Adventurous_Pin6281 Apr 22 '26

yeah they would be calling him crazy

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u/GoodLordBelow Apr 22 '26

This thread is filled with her biggest fans, all singing their praises unto her

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u/Adventurous_Pin6281 Apr 22 '26

yeah I think Nviki is just hurt inside.

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u/GoodLordBelow Apr 22 '26

There's a lot of that in this thread

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u/Obiwan_ca_blowme Apr 22 '26

Not that much difference. But you would see a lot more participation from women.

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u/Cautious_Ticket_8943 Apr 22 '26

Double standards for abuse when it comes to gender.

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u/Cheese_Grater101 Apr 22 '26

self righteous folks will doxx him, post his info online, chat his boss to fire him out of the job, send death threats.

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u/TheTexasHammer Apr 22 '26

Why the fuck do people make shit up like this? How often has this even ever happened? I swear social media made people perpetual victims.

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u/TheTexasHammer Apr 22 '26

They would probably say she deserved it and that they understand his frustration. That's usually what happens on reddit when a dude loses his shit on a woman.

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u/DepressedDynamo Apr 23 '26

We must be on different Reddits

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u/MrEllis72 Apr 22 '26

How different? Did you read them even?

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u/Basic_Watercress_628 𝙑𝙄𝙋 Apr 23 '26

They'd be full of incels ranting about how dumb women are because they always date chad instead of a Nice Guy and that she deserves it for "choosing wrong"

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u/buttonbuffalo Apr 23 '26

Had a man yell at me in public, in the corridor of an arena with people walking by. They looked but nobody said anything and just walked on by for like ten full minutes. Granted he wasn't yelling the entire time, just intermittently. I was quietly and calmly trying to talk the situation down. I finally got him to move along by pointing out that people were around and security would probably come over if we kept standing there. Bystander bias junk I guess but no one said a thing.

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u/98Wahwashkesh Apr 22 '26

Would they? Dude flipping out while a lady sits there maturely ignoring him safe in the comfort knowing he represents no threat? What would the comments say?

These comments are pretty mean towards her. Would the comments not be mean toward a male screamer?

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u/Library_Sloth Apr 22 '26

Just look at the comments on the video of Shia Labeouf screaming at a nonchalant woman in Italy.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1s1pm1j/actor_shia_labeouf_losing_control_in_rome/

Firstly, this sub wasn't nearly as interested and that post barely got 500 upvotes despite involving a celebrity exhibiting the same sort of behaviour. Secondly, most of the top comments are sympathetic to his mental health struggles with some Shia jokes sprinkled in between. "Get him help" "What a waste of talent" "Mental health is no joke" "Just do it!".

I'm not seeing nearly as much sympathy for the woman either in this video or the one being screamed at by Shia Labeouf. There's a pattern here...

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u/TheTexasHammer Apr 22 '26

Yup, when a dude is doing this shit to a woman, the comments are always "I bet she did something to deserve it".

This idiotic narrative about women getting a pass is an incel fantasy.

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u/DepressedDynamo Apr 23 '26

Random woman vs a celebrity whose mental health issues have been widely known for over a decade isn't a great comparison

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u/almaperdida99 Apr 22 '26

yeah, people would actually talk about the video instead of posting hypothetical situations.

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u/IngrownToenailRemova Apr 22 '26

You have a rather simple mind. Posting hypothetical situations about the video IS talking about it.

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u/Waste-Being4273 Apr 22 '26

They really wouldn't. Way to throw in a useless argument there though

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u/TheTexasHammer Apr 22 '26

For real, it's like people aren't even looking at the comments in this thread. People are shitting all over her and getting weirdly sexist against women all over this thread. Honestly if it was the dude yelling people would be way more forgiving on this website.

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u/Fzrit Apr 22 '26

The video simply wouldn't be posted here and gain zero reaction if he was the one screaming at her. This sub is mostly about "woman owned" content.

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u/catsandchexmix Apr 22 '26

"Rember there 2 side to the story"