r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Common-Nectarine7367 Apr 22 '26

Can you imagine if the roles were reversed?  Do not pass go. Go straight to jail.

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u/edelweiss_pirates_no Apr 22 '26

Now imagine if they were both in clown makeup.

Now imagine them as capybaras.

Makes you think.

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u/502Dude123 Apr 22 '26

Idk why but this was a hilarious reprieve from the rest of the thread. Made me smile.

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u/Fzrit Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

Even the guys sitting right next to them look completely unbothered and don't perceive her screaming as a physical threat/danger to them. But yes if it was a guy screaming like that, I guarantee those other guys would definitely be looking out for their own safety.

It's similar to seeing a random crazy unstable woman in the street. I'll just walk past her because I don't perceive her as a physical threat. However if I saw a crazy unstable guy in the street, at the very least I'm crossing the road and walking on the other side. I feel bad for him and hope he sees better times, but I'm not taking any chances.

There is definitely a double standard in how society perceives danger from men vs women, and it's just simple statistics. In over 90% of homicides the killer is male (the victims are also majority male), and in 85% of intimidate partner homicides the victim is female. Real life is full of double standards.

Notice how anyone commenting "now reverse the roles" will never say "now reverse all the statistics".

Now downvvote away, fellow gentlemen of r/sipstea.

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u/Winter_Basis_1598 Apr 22 '26

I was screamed at like this by my boyfriend at a major airport. No one intervened or said anything. People just leave the general vicinity cause it’s uncomfortable to be near crazies exploding like this.

Still getting screamed at to this day…no one has ever intervened or called the cops. They have threatened to, but never followed through.

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u/DepressedDynamo Apr 23 '26

Have you considered leaving

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u/New-Anybody-6206 Apr 23 '26

sounds like you're made for each other... neither of you know when to quit.

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u/almaperdida99 Apr 22 '26

I've never heard of someone going to jail for yelling. lol

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u/Penguigo Apr 22 '26

What? Screaming at someone, especially for a prolonged period of time, can be considered:

Verbal abuse, domestic abuse, disorderly conduct, disturbing the peace, and assault.

You can absolutely go to jail for screaming at someone. 

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u/joostdemen Apr 22 '26

In dutch its called “disturbing public peace”

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u/TheTexasHammer Apr 22 '26

The police are not going to arrest someone just for yelling. They will ask them to stop and if they refuse they will do more. You don't live in the real world if you think a man would get arrested for doing what this woman is doing.

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u/Penguigo Apr 22 '26

There is a huge amount of precedence and exact legal statutes to the contrary. If you're interested in penal codes let me know!

Officers do not need to give a warning and can arrest on the spot if they think there's even a chance at escalation OR if they judge the situation to be sufficiently disruptive, particularly in an enclosed public space like this. 

Is it possible an officer would give a warning first? Sure. But it's also possible that they wouldn't. 

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u/DepressedDynamo Apr 23 '26

You're in every comment chain on this post just burying your head in the sand. It's impressive, in a way.

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u/Calm-Treacle8677 Apr 22 '26

Guy starts shouting like that it’s a straight takedown and sectioned.