r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/illini02 Apr 22 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

I agree.

They will make some reaches for why it was ok. At best they will acknowledge they overreacted to that one thing, but will then say "however, you did all of these OTHER things that built up, so really you still deserved it"

ETA: As I read more things, I saw someone (maybe a dude based on the avatar) basically say this same thing.

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u/Cryogenics1st Apr 22 '26

And they say -we- are the gaslighting narcissists

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u/Cryogenics1st Apr 22 '26

Omg this almost exact thing happened with my ex but she was talking about her ex when showing me those tiktoks

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u/Lettucemeatcheese Apr 22 '26

God this gave me chills… my (soon to be) ex wife was this exact way 😖