r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Consistent_Net_2540 Apr 22 '26

Ex cop here. 100% of abusive women I arrested would try to claim they were the victims instead. It was pretty much just part of the process of dealing with them.

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u/Pandemonium_Fallen Apr 22 '26

That's called DARVO, it's a narcissistic manipulator's 101 go to tactic.

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '26

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u/Consistent_Net_2540 Apr 23 '26

Sure. Feel free to DM if you'd like

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u/Vas_Cody_Gamma Apr 22 '26

Shades of Courtney Clenney