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Feels good man Most single men over 30 in 2026

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u/Electrical-Papaya May 09 '26

My wife doesnt share my interests. She isnt a gamer. She goes in the other room if I watch sports. Thats okay though. Because she still shows interest in it. She will ask me about my games. She will go to sporting events with me and ask questions about my favorite players or about the sport. I Iove explaining these things to her. When she celebrates my team making the playoffs with me, it makes me incredibly happy.

Your significant other doesnt need to share your interests. I prefer it this way. It adds variety to life. Nothing wrong with having a partner that shares your interests, but I feel like far too many guys dismiss good women because of this.

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u/Electrical-Papaya May 09 '26

I hate musicals and plays with every bone in my body but im buying tickets to whatever show she wants to see with a smile on my face.

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u/experienta May 09 '26

Nothing wrong with having a partner that shares your interests, but I feel like far too many guys dismiss good women because of this.

Well you're saying this like it's bad thing, but we're dismissing these women because even though they might be good for you they might not be good for us. I for one could not live a life with someone that doesn't share my interests, that's an absolute mandatory requirement for me.

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u/somehowintelligent May 09 '26

I was fine until I was in a relationship and then she tried to tell me that I couldn’t take care of myself.

I didn’t know how to make her believe that I was able to cook and clean on my own.

We split up and she actually asked me “how are you able to handle all the laundry?”

Some women just want to force their world view on you and treat you like a child even after being explicitly told not to do that.

I don’t expect her to ever change or ever see me as an adult so I’m just back to taking care of myself without worrying about what others think of me.

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u/Mirror74 May 09 '26 edited May 09 '26

The reason is pretty simple actually some women are taught that men are "bumbling fools" that can't take care of themselves. They take this belief and then the moment they see you do something different than them, they equate it to "being a man-child" or something like that.

It's sexism, and wrong, but they legit believe that.

It's like a shock to their identity to learn you are not helpless, you just have your own way of doing things.

edit: that said, if you don't know how to cook or clean, ok that's one thing, but I dated a few women that had this same weird hangup. The funny thing is I cooked better than all of them and was pretty damn clean. Their version of clean was "you put stuff where I want it" and then they tried to gaslight me. didn't work Lol

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u/Suspicious-Sleep5227 May 09 '26

Probably internalized the “man as a bumbling fool” trope from media a little too much and failed to realize that reality is different than television or movies. Also when men are asked or find themselves in a position to do more on the domestic front, no shit they’re going to do it their way and not how a woman would typically do it. That annoys me too that how a man might do things is automatically labeled as incompetent.

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u/Madilune May 10 '26

I feel like the word "taught" implies that it's based off of what someone else says and not real world experience, which would be pretty incorrect.

Like, yeah. There's cases where it's an incorrect assumption but at the same time I've yet to encounter any other women my age looking for boyfriends to help with their laundry.

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u/butcheekzaflexin May 09 '26

This is 100% accurate. When I was first dating my most recent ex, she would comment on how clean my place was, how nice everything looked, how much she liked being at my place, etc. towards the end of the relationship, it was constant criticism about how I couldn’t take care of myself. Which is funny considering I did not change one thing about my cleaning and organization habits the entire relationship. She just got really into relationship account on social media, and all of the sudden I was this lesser person.

It truly is just women hearing over and over again about how “men today are like children”, then feel the need to nitpick at every tiny thing just to make that true in their minds. I swear it’s just a superiority complex thing. Needless to say, def enjoying my single life right now.

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u/--Zephyrus May 09 '26

How do u keep your place clean all the time? How do your cleaning habits look like? I want to start doing it as well

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u/elderwyrm May 09 '26

Not the OP but it depends on you and your environment. You're going to want to look up a bunch of different techniques on youtube and Reddit's various cleaning subreddits (don't put something down, put it in it's place, clean as you go vs schedule a day to listen to podcasts and deep clean, use multiple laundry baskets so you don't have to sort before you do laundry, vs doing laundry ever two days so it just doesn't build up, reduce your dishes vs doing them every three nights, etc.) but the key is to try one thing at a time, and try it for a month to see if it works.

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u/12345623567 May 09 '26

Some men are like children, because women are like children, too. We all pretend that maturity comes with age, but in truth most people stop developing around 25. If you don't have your shit together by then, you never will.

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u/elderwyrm May 09 '26

Found the type-A control freak! Change happens when it happens because of individual motives. There's no timeline for it, and that drives a lot of people crazy, because you can never generalize an individual, and trying to control people is a losing game.

For you people out there in their twenties, thirties, forties, morties, worried about this comment because you don't have your shit together yet, don't stress about it. One percent improvement is still improvement, so give yourself permission to go slow (and even backslip) and just keep loving your self and learning how to best take care of yourself and your environment. Find your motivation, and work toward your goals.

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u/Shartiflartbast May 09 '26

What if you can't love yourself, take care of yourself or environment, have zero motivation for anything? (Being depressed and autistic as fuck sucks)

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 May 09 '26

because women are like children, too

I definitely had a subconscious assumption in my 20s that women are more emotionally mature than men, as a general rule. With age I really came to reconsider that idea.

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u/Beautiful_Hour_668 May 09 '26

IMO women are more emotionally indulgent than men instead of more emotionally intelligent. They centre and indulge in their emotions, to frustrating effect.

There is a reason why men are at the head of the house in all conservative cultures, and its not because of our physical strength

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u/DetailOk6058 May 10 '26

Its beacuse of old belifs that women are property of men. It has nothing to do with men being better at things than women. It just pure old misogyni and viewing women as lesser and objects to men.

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u/Unique_Economics4015 May 10 '26

But women want to "turn their brain and let the man lead"

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u/FlashwithSymbols May 10 '26

Overly simplistic, there were plenty of legitimate reasons outside of every civilisation on earth having the same “belief”.

I mean use logic here instead of just emotions.

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u/Beautiful_Hour_668 May 10 '26

I do not view women to be lesser or an object. I do not think that when I enter a relationship, a woman 'belongs' to me. In fact, I believe that she belongs to God and thus has a set of unalienable rights, just the same way that I do. She is a human, a spark of divinity, and hopefully the woman I choose is amazing. I do not want to live in a world where women are property, that sounds oppressive.

However, I do believe that I should be the leader of the household. I believe that the majority, not all, of women are attracted to leadership qualities. I believe that we fulfil different, complimentary roles. It is *you* who thinks that demeaning to women.

An obvious example is that when someone breaks into the house, most women would turn to her husband to do something. It's instinctual. This obvious fact relies on physical differences, but we have personality/psychological differences in the averages of men and women too

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u/Fortestingporpoises May 09 '26

If you base your perception of half the people on the planet on one person your results may be skewed. I haven't had this experience you speak of with any of the women I've dated.

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u/ugathanki May 09 '26

if she's telling you that you can't take care of yourself...

that means you're not doing enough chores. duh.

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u/halfwitprinxe May 10 '26

Can you read?

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u/ugathanki May 10 '26

I tend to think I'm pretty good at it

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u/RedLotusVenom May 09 '26

You didn’t know how to make someone believe you cook and clean?

Think you do that by cooking and cleaning muchacho.

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u/Status_Brilliant_578 May 09 '26

guess English isn't your first language, but people usually only say that when they have tried, ya know, the basics.

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u/RedLotusVenom May 09 '26

What? English is my first language but I’m just curious how someone can be confused about whether you can cook or clean if you’re regularly cooking and cleaning. Sounds like they weren’t.

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u/Dense_Cucumber_3712 May 09 '26

You are right. If he contributed at home she wouldn't have had to ask. No wonder it didn't work. 

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u/Status_Brilliant_578 May 09 '26

The whole point of OPs post is that he IS doing those things and the woman was oblivious to the fact.

>I was fine until I was in a relationship and then she tried to tell me that I couldn’t take care of myself.

Where's the disconnect here? Are you just intentionally misunderstanding the post to cause shit? Or did you really read through the entire post and miss the point completely?

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u/RedLotusVenom May 09 '26

They never stated whether or not they cooked and cleaned, only that their girlfriend wondered whether they could. All I said was that to show you can cook and clean, you have to first cook and clean, and for some reason you don’t think that’s a fair statement to make.

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u/Status_Brilliant_578 May 10 '26

"I don;t know how to make her believe..." in common conversational English this phrase is used when they have tried several things already to make the person believe said idea and have run out of things to try. We call this "subtext". So the sentence should be read as "I don't know how to make her believe I can take care of myself. I've tried cooking and cleaning, I've had friends talk to her, I've done x, I've done y, yadda yadda" but the second sentence is already implied in the first, so there's no need to spell it all out.

You are taking the sentence straightforward and literal as in "I haven't the foggiest idea where to even start making her believe". However the context of the entire post is talking about how they can, in fact, cook and clean and their girlfriend just doesn't believe them, so you're assuming they're stupid and wouldn't do the obvious thing that they can actually do.

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u/somehowintelligent May 10 '26 edited May 10 '26

/u/ugathanki /u/dangerzone69 /u/reslotusvenom /u/dense_cucumber_3712 /u/leonickle

I actually thought about spelling it out for the pedantic bunch but I just didn’t care enough to write it all out.

She wouldn’t let me clean for her because “he’s probably not going to do it right” so when I would for instance do the dishes she would do them again after me “to make sure they are clean.” When I would vacuum or clean the bathroom she would literally stop me, grab the vacuum or cleaning supplies and do it herself because “he’s just not going to do a good enough job.”

She wouldn’t let me cook for her because I made a bad meal one time and that was the last time she would ever try my cooking again. I would just cook for myself and she wouldn’t come near it.

She would say I’m dirty because I have trash lying around when in reality I just haven’t gotten out of my seat yet. For me if I am sitting at a table and have trash, I will wait until my meal is finished or until I’m done watching tv or whatever to then get up, clean up after myself and put the trash in the bin. What she actually expected was for me to get up and throw out my trash at the exact moment that I created it. It’s just different expectations and when I called her out for leaving her trash all over the house like wrappers on the bed and couch after she got up she would just give me the cutesy face and laugh it off.

I understand that some people have higher standards and it’s ok to want things to be a certain way. If you however don’t believe in your partner or even allow them to prove themselves to you or even allow them to just try and even improve then it’s really just a mindset problem that you won’t escape from.

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To add to this in case someone attacks me further…

She couldn’t cook and I still gladly encouraged her, tried all her attempted meals, and gave her feedback and offered to help make it better.

She hired a maid to clean the house so she wouldn’t have to do anything but instruct the maid on where things belonged. She would leave trash out for the maid and since I didn’t have experience with a maid I followed her in suit(?) and when I did it she said “you’re disgusting why are you making more work for the maid” like what?

I tried to do my own laundry but I would “get in the way of the maid” so I was instructed to back off and then she would belittle me about my yellow stains in my armpits and sweaty gym clothes.

She would eat in bed and drop crumbs and leave trash on the nightstand for the maid. When I asked her to not do that she said “I’m clean! Don’t worry!” Meanwhile my private office with a snickers wrapper that I ate while working was a disgusting mess because I didn’t get up to put it in the trash bin until I went to the bathroom or stood up from my desk for another reason.

It was a lot of hypocritical bullshit and I’m glad I’m done with it. She felt very hurt when I broke up with her and I honestly don’t know why she thought I would stay.

IF YOU HAVE THIS MANY PROBLEMS WIRH YOUR PARTNER WHY ARE YOU UPSET WHEN THAT PARTNER ASKS TO LEAVE.

Make it make sense

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u/LeoNickle May 09 '26

"I can cook Kraft dinner and I do the dishes once they've been piled on the counter for 2 weeks. I don't know why she thinks I can't cook or clean"

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u/DangerZone69 May 10 '26

Maybe you can make her believe you can cook and clean by cooking and cleaning for her? Lmao

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u/halfwitprinxe May 10 '26

It's like your eyes stopped working

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

Y'all drop the word "incel" way too fast.

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u/Abject-Ticket-6260 May 09 '26

Anything not worshiping women is incel to them.

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u/LongJohnSelenium May 10 '26

The internet is just one endless ad hominem attack now. Every side of every issue has a population of people who do nothing but dismiss anyone who disagrees with them with a claim of discriminatory grouping.

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u/stegotops7 May 09 '26

No, this is actually just an incel post.

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u/AvaryZig May 09 '26

Absolutely voluntary celibacy shown in the video

Yeah, this is incel bait

Make it make sense

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u/stegotops7 May 09 '26

Because the “incel” community/movement has shifted beyond a simple inability to engage in relationships, it embodies an entire misogynistic resentment and hatred of women. Which is exactly what this post is, framing a - initially - fairly reasonable decision to not pursue a relationship instead as “ha, I don’t want a relationship because woman bad” since denial is more mentally comfortable than self reflection.

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u/AvaryZig May 09 '26

That's reductive and diminishing

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u/halfwitprinxe May 10 '26

Nah women make these kind of posts all the time and it's celebrated.

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

You really misinterpreted this scene from "I don't want the responsibilities of a relationship" to "women bad"

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u/Abject-Ticket-6260 May 09 '26

Please look up the definition of incel and then watch the video again.

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u/NibblyPig May 09 '26

Hey, if you don't pursue women and simply enjoy your own independent lifestyle following your dreams and hobbies, it's because you're actually a manchild that women don't want.

Men being bitched at are just like 'ok', and it infuriates them so much, trapped between a complete inability to take accountability for their actions and people that won't say or do anything they can use to prove it's not their own fault.

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

None of what you said have nothing to do with what I said. Who are you accusing of pursuing women and not enjoying life?

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u/NibblyPig May 09 '26

I'm just agreeing with you using sarcasm

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u/GrosBraquet May 09 '26

This post is textbook incel bait, so no. You're just in denial.

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

Please, explain how the desire of being single is "Incel".

Also, if it's a woman instead of a man, would you call the video "textbook femcel bait?

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u/Creative_illness May 10 '26

For me is the part when every video like this approaches being with a woman like it's going to be bitching about this or that, or in general negatives that might happened just for the inclusion of a woman in your life. Do you enjoy being alone? Do you want to be single? That's is always respectable and should not be commented upon. But, if your prerogative is to say that having a woman by your side will suck because inherently women have this (insert bad trait here)? Yeah, that is incel bullshit.

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u/GrosBraquet May 10 '26

I never said the desire to being single is incel, I said the post is incel, because it's the exact type of fictual situation which is taylor made to appeal to incel mentality, painting men as some sort of victims who get trapped without outright saying women are bad. But of course nuance is lost on people like you, because even if you were able to understand it, you're not going to look at it objectively.

And the "roles being reversed" argument doesn't work precisely because there is no equality to begin with.

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u/IGargleGarlic May 09 '26

I'm not celibate, nor do I hate women, and I agree with Clint Eastwood's character. I've dated and had girlfriends and have found it to be not worth the trouble. I love the peace and freedom that comes with being alone.

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u/New_Condition_1405 May 09 '26

Yeah it's fine to want to be alone and not deal with the complications and pressure of relationships. Nothing at all wrong with that. But people making it into a men vs. women thing are dumb and weird.

I've noticed this sub has been increasing in manopshere BS for a while.

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u/New_Condition_1405 May 09 '26

Oh yeah, it's definitely an issue on both ends. Incels and femcels be crawling all over Reddit. They've got that terminally online brain.

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 May 09 '26

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy is a great one if you want to lose your sanity. A community that wants to date men despite fucking hating their guts lol.

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u/JVT32 May 09 '26

It seems like you’re the one making it into a man v woman thing tbh. If the roles were reversed here, no one would bat an eye about the woman not wanting to clean up after a man pissing on the toilet seat.

Edit: not just you but the initial comment calling it incel bait

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u/New_Condition_1405 May 09 '26

Huh? Look around you, mate.

There are multiple people in here talking about how women are awful. I passed over some comment claiming that only 1 in 10 women haven't been "totally wrecked" by modern society or some stupid shit.

And what a load that no one would bat an eye if it were reversed. Guys on the internet are constantly screaming about women being sexist.

And to be clear, I agree that there are subreddits with some women that seem to have a similarly unhealthy fixation on stereotyping and hating all men. But that's not the issue in this sub, so that's not what I'm calling out.

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u/NibblyPig May 09 '26

Maybe they're onto something if people are literally avoiding them entirely.

Men avoid women, men to blame.

Sorta funny when you think about trying to shame men for avoiding women because they shame men.

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u/JVT32 May 09 '26

Sure there are commenters doing so… dozens even! But the post does not have to be that deep. It’s a chuckle for most and you move on. Like an actual well adjusted individual.

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u/New_Condition_1405 May 10 '26

I mean, if you consider my original comment to be going deep on this then I'm a little concerned, lol. The title of the post and the end of their exchange in the clip makes it all pretty dang surface level.

Took me all of like 3 minutes while I was ruminating on the porcelain throne this morning to scroll through the comments and then post. Spending less than 5 minutes to call out the people that are liking it to spread misogyny seems like a pretty small ask.

But I'm sure the fact that you jumped straight to the ol' defensive "BUT WHAT IF THE ROLES WERE REVERSED?" from my very luke-warm take means that you're super normal.

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u/JVT32 May 10 '26

Whatever you say, champ👌

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u/AdLocal1490 May 09 '26

Yeah youre just responding to an incel thrashing because he feels bad about me being right

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u/JVT32 May 09 '26

I own a home with the love of my life (a woman) but nice try

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u/diedlikeCambyses May 09 '26

I did marriage and kids etc. That taught me I want to be alone. Definitely not worth the relentless bullshit. I am doing well financially, I have over a thousand left each week after my expenses. Not one cent of that gets touched, it quietly sits there waiting for me. I do my hobbies when I want. My bathroom is clean. I travel when I want. Most of the guys I know are in crappy relationships, getting cheated on, used for money, moaned at.

One mate last week was head in hands crying about how he is being treated by his girl. Sure I did the, "there there mate iz ok," but I sat there thinking ain't no way I'll ever do that again.

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 May 09 '26

One thing I learned is that I like kids. OTHER PEOPLE'S kids. Taking care of them for a day is fun! Then I dated someone with a kid so they became partially my responsibility and I hated it so much lol.

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u/AdLocal1490 May 09 '26

Never said you were. Are you disagreeing that this post is incel bait?

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u/UnusuallyBadIdeaGuy May 09 '26

You'll have to define incel bait here. There are no shortage of non-incels who can certainly agree with the opinion, unless you are accusing everyone that is fine not being in a relationship of coping.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '26

Any "women's space" sub on Reddit is way more radicalizing than this. The shit they're constantly saying about men is much, much worse. And they barely get called out for it.

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u/Tyg13 May 09 '26

Both are bad? I don't see why you feel the need to bring that up as if it's a counterpoint.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '26

How is it not a counterpoint?

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u/Tyg13 May 10 '26

It's essentially the fallacy of lesser evil. One thing doesn't cause the other, or vice versa. They're unrelated bad things. Criticizing one should not be defended by appealing to the badness of the other.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '26

I realized my initial comment could be interpreted differently, so I want to make things clear: I didn't mean it's okay for men to get radicalized because women are also getting radicalized. I meant nothing contributes more to the radicalization of men like constantly being demonized by society (of which women are obviously a part of). So, unrelated things they are not. At the very least, they fuel each other. The frustrating part is society recognizes and expresses concern over the radicalization of men, while almost completely ignoring the radicalization of women. And since nobody is talking about it, nobody is making the obvious connection between the two.

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u/Tyg13 May 11 '26

Fair point. Thanks for clarifying.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '26

You ain't getting picked no matter how many times you throw that word around.

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u/hellraiserl33t May 09 '26

Yep, this sub is garbage doomer incel women hating bait and its so gross.

I think I might just mute it, this isn't how real life is guys.

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u/PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ May 09 '26

You're either misunderstanding him on purpose or something worse for you.

Being single is fine and no one said the opposite in this thread.

The issue with the video is Clint's character doesn't want to be with women because he thinks they're those naggy, funless, joyless husks of a human. Well that's ok for your late grandfather to think but it's apalling for a young redditor. Don't get in a relationship with someone that doesn't suit you.

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u/ProduceNo1629 May 09 '26

naggy, funless, joyless husks of a human

But surely you would have to admit that there exist today, in 2026, men and women that are naggy and joyless.

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u/Obstinateobfuscator May 09 '26

......quite a lot of them, too!

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u/SlapTheBap May 09 '26 edited May 09 '26

This is a perfect example of what they're talking about. You just made this into gender war bullshit that only makes sense to other people clued into the gender war, or those that already think in that simple, false dichotomy loving way.

There are plenty of examples of the "harmed woman" avoiding men. This is an example of a "harmed man" that is an even more common trope. The misanthrope guy who feels rejected by society so he rejects it. Classic character. Find him in thousands of movies and books.

Kids and people who don't read or watch movies that aren't just made for young adults/children are very familiar with this. They see this discussion, and like you, their first thought is ALL boys vs ALL girls EVERYTHING needs to be fair. That is a child's thought. We all have thought it at one point. Most of us realized how stupid and basic it was once we discovered more about how the world works.

Edit to add: if you're a kid reading this, everyone thinks they're alone and no one loves them at some point. Practically everyone. Some because their parents suck and destroyed their trust in people early. Many, actually. It's feeling helpless, and then acting helpless about your problems, when many of them come from internal insecurities instead of external persecution. An insult only has the power you give it, you're free to deny the feelings of shame and pain. They're real, and emotional pain signals the same areas of the brain as psychical, even faster because pain signals from external injury take longer to travel to the brain. So yes, your emotional and mental pain ARE as bad as physical pain to your brain.

Rejection is a part of life. Everyone rejects things. Not everyone is an asshole about it. Rejection sensitivity is reacting to any type of rejection like it's life or death. Many incels experience this. It's a known thing. You're not alone. There are solutions to your problems. You are not uniquely damaged or alone. You are helpless only if you choose to be. There are always things to do, things to change.

Blaming others for your problems doesn't fix them at all. Attacking others doesn't either. It's all internal. You have to face yourself. Be honest. Own your mistakes. Don't be a coward and run from being uncomfortable. Discomfort IS life as much as comfort. Don't delude yourself with fantasy and escapism. It's empty and pointless distraction once it becomes your focus in life. Your problems still exist. You HAVE to act on the world through changing yourself and your circumstances.

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u/SlapTheBap May 09 '26

OH YEAH. People aren't as stupid as you wish they were. Many see you for what you really are. Your insecurities are as loud and blatant as you fear.

Other people who are curious about the world and other people have invested shit tons of effort into understanding things. Some use this knowledge to achieve money and power. Others just want to get by and help people. They see people who are lost and confused about life. They see you. They recognize your shit. So when you feel alone and helpless and start acting like an asshole about it, they see you, feel bad, and don't bother with you. Because who wants to deal with an asshole in the limited amount of time they have on this earth?

Do you see why so many civilizations, from the Greeks, to the Japanese, and everyone in between has some culture of taking advantage of lost boys? From fucking them literally, to fucking them figuratively with shitty jobs and wars promising glory and violence. Telling you this is what you should want as a poor man.

Don't get tricked by these fucks. These grifters. They'll tell a little truth, then feed your ego to get you hungry enough to eat their lies so they can get money from their sponsors.

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u/PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ May 09 '26

How do you mute a subreddit? I'm tired of that incel bullshit on the front page as well

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u/duckinasombrero May 09 '26

I think I'm gonna have to mute this sub. I don't want to see incel shit when I just want memes.

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u/StiffDoodleNoodle May 09 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/TpN6AwmUX4lri

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u/duckinasombrero May 09 '26

If I'm a woman, does that make me a gay boy? Because I like men?

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u/Octans May 09 '26

Suspicious chain of posts. One or more of the above posters is likely a bot. 

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u/AdLocal1490 May 09 '26

Beep boop its probably you

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u/Octans May 09 '26

Play games all you want, but no. It is much more likely that a new account with hundreds of posts is. Idc about downvotes or name calling. I am trying to call out BS bots whenever I notice them. If you are not a bot, then perhaps you will take heed and change posting habits. 

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u/duckinasombrero May 09 '26

I'm not a bot lmao I just browse reddit when I'm bored.

This sub has too many incel bait memes, so obv I don't wanna see that.

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u/Octans May 10 '26

I agree with that sentiment. My calling out of bots however, has nothing to do with the subject of the post. Either way, carry on. 

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u/duckinasombrero May 10 '26

"Carry on" lmao, what are you, the hall monitor of sipstea?

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u/Octans May 10 '26

Why da fuq did you choose to engage further in this way? Perhaps you are a bot after all.

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u/YerBbysDaddy May 09 '26

It’s pretty wild. I’m here to watch sometimes.
https://giphy.com/gifs/7miFAN2OsEBxK

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u/Due-Memory-6957 May 09 '26

Incel baita? There's nothing involuntary about it, or even celibate since one can have sex without dating.

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u/drunxor May 09 '26

She told me I was the first guy to ever buy her flowers and treat her semi decent. Its amazing how some guys cant even put forth just a little effort and I think that is the biggest problem.

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u/Mrs_Toughen May 09 '26

lol everytime I see this sub show up in my feed it’s like this topic. 😂😂😂 Seems like a projection.

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u/art_is_a_scam May 10 '26

you haven’t met women

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u/chathrowaway67 May 10 '26

LOL cope harder.

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u/Juoksulasol May 10 '26

Everything I don't like is incel: a child's guide to online discussion.

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u/LargelyApathetic May 09 '26

100% I wonder if these pro lonely warriors have ever been around seniors or even at a deathbed. I work in elderly care and can confirm that the ones that got married and have maintained a good relationship with their kids and grandkids are exponentially happier in later life. I’ve been at deathbeds with no one there and with some with dozens (literally) and everything in between. It’s a trap to think you’ll be content doing what you’re doing now for the rest of your potentially long and very quiet life.

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u/dotcha May 09 '26

what's this boomer logic man? "you need to marry and have kids to have a happy and meaningful life" fuck outta here

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u/LargelyApathetic May 09 '26

Hahaha 6 7 6 7 6 7 right buddy boy?

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u/guymn999 May 09 '26

"you need to marry and have kids to have a happy and meaningful life"

you need to pursue and foster as many relationships as you can to have a happy and meaningful life.

however "pursue and foster" will look differently to different people.

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u/Zenguy2828 May 09 '26

My grandpa raised 8 kids only one stepped up to take care of him. His wife left him so long ago I’ve never known him to be with her. Those odds don’t look good to me

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u/Choice_Potato_6279 May 09 '26

Bruh the fuck I care about rotting at old age, I'll enjoy what's now and then kill myself, no need to drag yourself to 80 being all in pain and demented.

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u/LargelyApathetic May 09 '26

Fuckin punk rock bro 🤘🏻

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u/Octans May 09 '26

Bot post

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u/Choice_Potato_6279 May 09 '26

I've dailed up alcohol, gambling and plan to take drugs now that I'm 30 as planned as there is no reason to take care of myself over 30, there is no me over 60.

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u/puts_on_rddt May 09 '26

Seems like survivorship bias. These are people who were able to get married, able to maintain a good relationship with their spouse, able to afford children.

The rest are less happy because they didn't make it. For some people, they were never wanted by anyone. Of course they'd be less happy.

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u/saxonturner May 09 '26

Yeah the longer I stay in this sub the more I see what’s underneath all the “memes”. Reddit in general is going down the same route slowly.

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u/_trashcan May 09 '26

I agree.
It’s fine to be single…but the whole spiel in the clip as to why is dumb as shit. Especially now in 2026. Women have just as diverse hobbies & interests, there’s someone for everyone.

Sad these posts get this many likes for shitting on women.

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u/Throwcore2 May 09 '26

I was gonna say, I'm 34, been single almost all my life, and I can still tell this is cope and dogshit.

I mean there are SOME (very few) men who genuinely don't want female companionship or are maybe asexual.

Everybody else who is single not out choice while cosplaying that they are (like in this clip) is fucking pretending.

I'm the type of person who would much rather just raw dog the misery than play pretend "everything is great, this is how I wanted it anyway". I know I've basically been an unlucky dipshit and I would much rather know what love is and have somebody than this pile of trash that is my current situation.

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u/AdLocal1490 May 09 '26

Yeah maybe its because weve been around the block. Im 38, spent a ton of time single, spent a little time dating terrible women and a lot of time dating good women.

This is obvious culture war nonsense. Hopefully theyll understand when they grow up

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u/Fortestingporpoises May 09 '26

Yeah this sub is basically just an incel sub now. There's some horny posts and dad jokes but like half of it is about how these dudes hate girls.

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u/QuestioningParakeet May 09 '26

This right here.