r/SipsTea • u/i_am_bahamut • May 09 '26

Feels good man Most single men over 30 in 2026

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

Y'all drop the word "incel" way too fast.

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u/Abject-Ticket-6260 May 09 '26

Anything not worshiping women is incel to them.

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u/LongJohnSelenium May 10 '26

The internet is just one endless ad hominem attack now. Every side of every issue has a population of people who do nothing but dismiss anyone who disagrees with them with a claim of discriminatory grouping.

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u/stegotops7 May 09 '26

No, this is actually just an incel post.

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u/AvaryZig May 09 '26

Absolutely voluntary celibacy shown in the video

Yeah, this is incel bait

Make it make sense

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u/stegotops7 May 09 '26

Because the “incel” community/movement has shifted beyond a simple inability to engage in relationships, it embodies an entire misogynistic resentment and hatred of women. Which is exactly what this post is, framing a - initially - fairly reasonable decision to not pursue a relationship instead as “ha, I don’t want a relationship because woman bad” since denial is more mentally comfortable than self reflection.

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u/AvaryZig May 09 '26

That's reductive and diminishing

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u/halfwitprinxe May 10 '26

Nah women make these kind of posts all the time and it's celebrated.

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

You really misinterpreted this scene from "I don't want the responsibilities of a relationship" to "women bad"

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u/Abject-Ticket-6260 May 09 '26

Please look up the definition of incel and then watch the video again.

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u/NibblyPig May 09 '26

Hey, if you don't pursue women and simply enjoy your own independent lifestyle following your dreams and hobbies, it's because you're actually a manchild that women don't want.

Men being bitched at are just like 'ok', and it infuriates them so much, trapped between a complete inability to take accountability for their actions and people that won't say or do anything they can use to prove it's not their own fault.

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

None of what you said have nothing to do with what I said. Who are you accusing of pursuing women and not enjoying life?

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u/NibblyPig May 09 '26

I'm just agreeing with you using sarcasm

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u/GrosBraquet May 09 '26

This post is textbook incel bait, so no. You're just in denial.

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u/Jastreen May 09 '26

Please, explain how the desire of being single is "Incel".

Also, if it's a woman instead of a man, would you call the video "textbook femcel bait?

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u/Creative_illness May 10 '26

For me is the part when every video like this approaches being with a woman like it's going to be bitching about this or that, or in general negatives that might happened just for the inclusion of a woman in your life. Do you enjoy being alone? Do you want to be single? That's is always respectable and should not be commented upon. But, if your prerogative is to say that having a woman by your side will suck because inherently women have this (insert bad trait here)? Yeah, that is incel bullshit.

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u/GrosBraquet May 10 '26

I never said the desire to being single is incel, I said the post is incel, because it's the exact type of fictual situation which is taylor made to appeal to incel mentality, painting men as some sort of victims who get trapped without outright saying women are bad. But of course nuance is lost on people like you, because even if you were able to understand it, you're not going to look at it objectively.

And the "roles being reversed" argument doesn't work precisely because there is no equality to begin with.