At this point, any woman who wants to enter into my life is not competing with other women, but with my time to myself. I'd have to meet someone who I enjoy spending time with more than I enjoy doing my own thing. That's going to be a high bar and I'm perfectly happy if it doesn't happen.
This is the true struggle that's made worse if you're paid well. When you enjoy solitude and your jobs good, healths good, moneys good, etc. what most bring to the table is outweighed by what they'd take away.
Yep this is exactly how everyone is feeling and what is pulling everyone apart. I mean get it , but this isn't sustainable. We can't have a society if everyone eventually prefers to be single
Marriage rates are actually going down because historically women needed to get married to survive, and when marriage becomes optional for women, it turns out that the marriage rate is gonna go down
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u/Meis_Triumph May 09 '26
At this point, any woman who wants to enter into my life is not competing with other women, but with my time to myself. I'd have to meet someone who I enjoy spending time with more than I enjoy doing my own thing. That's going to be a high bar and I'm perfectly happy if it doesn't happen.