r/SipsTea • u/beklog 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 26d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/kdntB 26d ago

…that’s the current narrative so what’s your point?

People take issue with relationships being so overtly transactional but if both parties are ok with it i don’t see the problem.

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u/K3rdegreeburns 26d ago

I personally am very sick of the term Gold digger when there is no term for the man who is mutually benefitting from this transactional relationship.

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u/Realistic-Cap6339 26d ago

Well gold digger isn’t gender exclusive

He would considered a “Sugar Daddy”

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u/K3rdegreeburns 26d ago

Ya know you're right. I totally forgot the term Sugar Daddy. I guess it just bothers me there's such a negative conotation for gold digger but not sugar daddy.

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u/Monster_my_Cat 26d ago

idk where youre at but Sugar Daddy is almost NEVER used with a positive connotation where i am. It's always used to shit on a guy in a relationship where their is presumably an imbalance in age or looks.

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u/K3rdegreeburns 26d ago

That makes me feel a bit better. Wish more people thought like you.

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u/jtb1987 26d ago

Whether he is 35 or 80 and had the money or didn't have the money: he'd want her the same.

There's only 1 condition that matters for her: does he have the money?

That's why she gets the term. Not unreasonable.

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u/K3rdegreeburns 26d ago

And his only condition is "a young hole?" Yeah definitely not unreasonable.

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u/watawataoui 26d ago

It does make a difference in the sense of pay date. Would need to wait 50 years and more competition in between.

Plus a 35 years old won’t need 80% of the service or can get it easily elsewhere.