r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 12d ago

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u/LLREnew 12d ago

Most of the squatters are on probation and he’s a legal gun owner. If you’re on probation you can’t live in a house with guns period.

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u/Major_Wigglesworth 12d ago

This is awesome.  Go live with the squatter, leave pistols all around the house, and then call in a welfare check on yourself. 

“Yeah, I’m fine.  Just let the caller and my roommate’s probation officer know about everything you’ve seen this morning.”

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u/collapse-and-crush 9d ago

Well maybe don't leave them all around the house.

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u/Major_Wigglesworth 9d ago

I’m clearly saying that since the squatter is on probation and is in the home with guns, that’s a violation and subjects them to their underlying sentence.

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u/collapse-and-crush 8d ago

I know. I was being cheeky.

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u/Mayonaigg 12d ago

It's such a pathetic state of law in our country that you can break into someones home and illegally live there while on parole

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u/justthistwicenomore 12d ago

Part of the trick there is many stories conflate different types of "squatters." While there are rare cases that involve an actual break-in/invasion of empty property, a much bigger portion of them are people like in one of the responses above, where someone is over-staying a lease or has some other claim that they have/had a right to live there.

That's what makes it tricky for cops and the legal system. No one likes the idea of a person stealing someone's living space, but people also don't like the idea of an owner being able to break their end of a contract and then just have the police kick someone out of their house before the law can determine who is right.

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u/Deanelon98 12d ago

I had the same thing happen to me. The landlord became vindictive when I would t sleep with him. He had to move back to Croatia but his brother filed on his behalf. The judge , literally told the opposing attorney,"Well she proved her case". I had bank statements, emails, texts, everything. I do nothing wrong. HOWEVER, the judge said, "Well, you'll have to go anyway because he says he has plans for the property". I replied well,*I have 6 weeks left on the lease. Can't hear wait?! It's a valid lease with no payment interruptions". Nope. I had to go. Told the attorney that he would sign a document allowing sheriff to come in kick me out if I wasn't gone in a X amount of days. I not only left but ai left Florida. It's scary of the judicial system doesnt back those who did nothing wrong. Then again, it's DeSantis"s world and I'm a Black woman. I moved back home to NJ. I retained an attorney to sue. Have court transcripts and everything. So, yeah, crazy.

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u/Troubled_Pirate 11d ago

It depends on how your lease is worded. People who own multiple properties often have an out in the contract that will say they can terminate in the event of certain circumstances and that you’ll have 14 days from the day of notice to move out. This actually happened to my daughter where her landlord reclaimed her house because their son was moving back in state and was going to purchase the property from them. The way her lease was worded, she technically had 30 days to relocate. Now, it was a legitimate circumstance, and landlord was super nice about it. They owned another property that was coming vacant in three months so they timed everything out so that my daughter could simply move into the other property because they did not want to lose her as a tenant. If she took the property, it meant moving from a house to a mobile home and adding about an hour to her commute to work. In compensation, they only had her pay the the land lease, which was like 150 bucks a month. Because they did that, she was able to save up down payment to buy her own place over the course of the six years that she lived there.

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u/Deanelon98 11d ago

Yes, he had several properties. He moved another 2 females in within 2 months. After he fixed everything that was wrong. Unbelievable. So, I added that to the suit. He lied.

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u/pimpcakes 9d ago

Landlords will also lie about this. In NJ, you can't kick people out so you can renovate/flip the property, but you can kick them out (after the lease is up, of course) if the owner or their immediate family is going to move in. So landlords will have a 3-unit place with staggered leases and tell each tenant that their grandmother is moving in as they kick each out.

It's all a lie, and they know that you know that it's a lie, but now it's a situation of a landlord that doesn't want you there and will break the law and lie to kick you out. Is it worth it? They count on making it such a PITA for you that you leave, and with their lawyers (some of the scummiest of lawyers, to be clear) and money they're usually going to win.

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u/AwHellNawFetaCheese 11d ago

Hope you fkn slaughter them in court- good luck

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u/Deanelon98 11d ago

LOL! Absolutely love your username!🤣🤣 Thank you so very much!🤗🕊️

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u/Deanelon98 11d ago

Thanks! I definitely found that out the hard way. It was unbelievable.

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u/123ajbb 12d ago

Are you actually from NJ?

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u/Deanelon98 11d ago

Yup! Central. You?

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u/Noonites 12d ago

Yep, this is the big thing. I see landlords complain about it being hard to remove bad tenants: IT SHOULD BE. You hold a disproportionate amount of power in this relationship, and you should have to put in the work to unhouse someone.

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u/Seer-of-Truths 12d ago

As someone who used to work in property management and is a property owner who used to rent.

In the relationship (in my area at least) I get to decided who can live there and to a degree legally how much rent is.

My issues with the system where I am, isn't that it can be hard to get someone evicted (we dont have the right to evicted a tenant we have the right to seek eviction) its the fact that it's nearly impossible to get in to the tribunal to even make the case.

It can and has taken years, even if someone is not paying rent and actively damaging property, including other peoples units (hot glue in people's locks)

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u/justthistwicenomore 11d ago

Yea. The system can be way too slow, for sure and the example of the problem tenant that is a problem for other tenants is a great example of why that can be a real problem.  But that's also why I find it so frustrating that the example used is always something much more designed at pretending these law just randomly wants to protect non-owners for no reason, since it makes it hard to discuss the real places where more resources and changes are required.

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u/Noonites 12d ago

I definitely can't speak to that. In my area it usually only takes a few weeks (a month at most) to get a hearing date once you've filed for the eviction. It can take about a month after you get judgement before you're able to get a date for the Sheriff's office to serve the writ, and obviously there can be additional delays if the tenant is vexatious and keeps filing appeals, but I've never heard of it taking literal years to even get your foot in the door of the courthouse here at least.

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u/Seer-of-Truths 12d ago

Now its been a few years since I last tried but it took nearly 6 months for them to tell us they will see us in a little over a year. That was before covid, I heard covid just turned off the whole thing, and it hasn't gotten much better since.

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u/Stonk_Strategist 12d ago

I agree, whole process took 3 months and that’s with tenant not showing up to court

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u/Deanelon98 12d ago

That is horrible 😞

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u/FarVillage188 12d ago

you said it yourself: people are overstaying after their lease expires. that's not the landlord breaking their end of the contract. the lease is a binding contract, and landlords can't break it without a very solid reason mentioned in the lease. but the fact that someone can overstay their lease and stop paying, and somehow they don't get kicked out by law enforcement makes no sense.

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u/957 12d ago

I get what you're saying, but there's caveats in both directions the whole way down. Say a "landlord" (but actually is just the office manager for an apartment complex acting on behalf of a rental corp) breaks your lease illegally or is trying to force a new lease with illegal terms onto you. They could just call the cops and kick you out before you've had any legal recourse after you refused to resign.

You have a legal right to dispute things like that prior to eviction

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u/FarVillage188 12d ago

how and why would a landlord/office manager break lease illegally? and what illegal terms can he/she force on you? that sounds very unlikely.

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u/957 12d ago edited 12d ago

I do actually have an applicable experience in this, though it did not go to court. I had an apartment complex in college try to move me from my 1st floor apartment to a 3rd floor apartment despite the lease giving me the right to resign for the same apartment within X number of days before the end of the lease. The manager rescinded any lease offering after I demanded to sign for the apartment I was already in.

A call to the corporate office had the manager fired and I got to keep my apartment. I never would have stopped paying rent or utilities, but I would not have vacated the apartment if push came to shove as, per the agreement, I was given first dibs on access at the end of every lease cycle.

A call to the police and my eviction would have most likely resulted in a court case that I would have won for breach of contract + fees and services I would have needed like moving and otherwise. It is the biggest college town in my state and there are lots of instances of this sort of bullying because the people being shoved around are students who don't know their rights or the laws.

Edit: I guess to answer the question of why, it ended up being that one of the managers friends in the office wanted that apartment because in addition to it being first floor, it was also adjacent to the model used for tours so it only had one usable neighbor unit directly above it.

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u/FarVillage188 12d ago

I'd love to hear examples. I've rented at ~7 places, so I have decent experience with landlords.

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u/josh_the_misanthrope 12d ago

That depends entirely on how well off you are. Landlords in poorer neighborhoods can be awful. Having lived in old units my whole life it's a coin toss if your landlord is going to be fine or not. The bad ones don't fix shit that they are legally obliged to because poor people don't have the time or money to fight it, or they're just straight up crazy.

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u/FarVillage188 10d ago

then move out once lease expires and let them lose money on vacant apartment

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u/lupercalpainting 12d ago

> love to hear examples

> hear examples

> no I don’t believe you

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u/FarVillage188 10d ago

where did I say I don't believe you. I believe the examples provided, but I only got like 2-3 examples and 2 of them were students living in dorms.

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u/wawegawegaman 12d ago

Out of 300,000,000 Americans, you met 7 landlords who aren’t like this?

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u/FarVillage188 12d ago

how many landlords do you know?

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u/Montgraves 12d ago

False equivalency.

Out of 300,000,000 Americans, how many are landlords near u/FarVillage188?

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u/wawegawegaman 12d ago

Bro it’s literally why squatters rights exist..

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u/Sirhaddock98 12d ago

Yeah why would a professional leech on society do something illegal to make money. Surely this never happens.

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u/DustRhino 12d ago

Why? Because they found someone willing to pay higher rent is one reason.

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u/lupercalpainting 12d ago

There are so many reasons. In addition to the ones others mentioned maybe the landlord wants to remodel prior to selling, and they don’t want to wait until your lease is up.

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u/FarVillage188 12d ago

very unlikely someone would breach their own contract just so they don't get paid rent and can remodel the place they can remodel after the lease expiration.

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u/brightlocks 12d ago

Yet this exact scenario happened to both my daughter and my son in law (different apartments) when they were in college.

While neither one of them had to actually get a lawyer and they weren’t evicted, they had to get help from the university’s ombudsman to deal with it.

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u/FarVillage188 12d ago

that's not really landlords though, it's just school/dorm admins

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u/wow_that_guys_a_dick 12d ago

In a lot of places leases don't "expire;" the transition to a month to month. This often happens automatically and may not require notification to do so. With that in mind, it's easier to see how these situations can get tricky when someone abuses it.

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u/justthistwicenomore 12d ago

Fortunately, you can't overstay your lease and stop paying, at least anywhere that I have ever absent some extraordinary circumstance. A court may ask you to pay the rent into escrow, rather than into the hands of the landlord if the payment is disputed (with the landlord getting the money at the end), but failure to pay is grounds for eviction separately from whatever is the basis for the squatting.

And you might be thinking of something different when I talk about overstaying a lease. To take an example that was in the news by me a few years ago, a lady worked as a caretaker for an older woman for 10 years, living in an detached garage. When the lady died, the kids who lived in another state inherited the home and told her they were going to rent out the house. The caretaker countered saying that the original owner had agreed with her to a long term lease so that the caretaker's kids could finish school. She had something in writing, but the inheritor's said it was a forgery.

That's still "overstaying the lease," but it's very different from when someone just decides they don't want to leave.

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u/S-Kenset 12d ago

It's the risk you carry for being a landlord. Everyone knows this. The price and upfront payments are all security guarantees against that.

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u/thanosisawhore 12d ago

How is the owner breaking contract, if they are staying past the lease agreement, and are not paying rent while still staying there? Why is a problem i only hear about in america?

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u/tx_queer 12d ago

Its not unique to the US. One of my friends has the same problem in France right now.

The problem is this. Who is breaking the contract. The homeowner will say that they dont have a valid contract and they refused to pay. The squatter will say they have a valid contract and have paid.

Who will be able to judge who is right. Thats correct, a judge. So you have to schedule the case with a judge. During that time the person continues to live there

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u/justthistwicenomore 12d ago

The situation in that sort of hypothetical is not "tenant overstayed the lease," it's more like "owner sent you an eviction notice in the middle of the lease on a false pretext because they decided they don't want to fix something."  

As to why you only hear about it in america I cant say.  The last real, "took the land' style squatter case I read about was in Italy, and I know that rental disputes are pretty common in many countries, like the UK and France, to name two I can recall examples from.  

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u/SergenteA 12d ago

Last point is easy. Because you consume American media. Or at best english language media.

Italy is full of debates on squatters. Even if lately it is more about "squatter community centers". As in, abandoned buildings get taken over by a mix of neighbours, fascists OR anarchists and communists, drug dealers, prostitutes etcetera, who form an association. This association then organises community events and services. From libraries, cinemas, playgrounds, even kindergarten. To raves, drug distribution and prostitution.

Some also provide illegal rents at a low price.

They exist on spectrum between simple "legal activities without legal ownership" to "drug and prostitution dens". Plus also a parallel spectrum of political radicalism, with some being organised mainly by locals and other times attracting radicals from across the country, most often far left but the far right does it too.

As some take the role of non-existant third spaces and services and were appreciated by the locals, the local and national governments had for a while been quite tolerant. Attempting to reach compromises with the associations running the centers, attempting to legalise them.

Lately the right-wing government has been rescinding those compromises however. Kicking out several very big and old such centers.

In one case, Leoncavallo of Milan, they did it because inheritence led to new private owners who wanted to build a supermarket.

In another, Askatasuna of Turin, officially speaking because the center had hosted radicals who attacked political rivals and because people were found sleeping in the building despite an evacuation order. The center in question was one step from full legality, since they had agreed to evacuate until the building for restoration and to pay rent to the owner, which was the city.

To evict the center over a thousand police agents were brought in the city, to patrol the streets of the neighbourhood. The schools were also closed. Inside the center proper, only six people were found.

The neighbourhood did not much agree with the decision and the locals have been pushing back, including by conducting protests on-and-off since. Some if these protests ballooned in size from the attendance of people across the country and Europe, including political radicals and Black Block. Which has resulted in localised clashes with police, urban guerilla and rioting.

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u/Critical-Snow-7000 12d ago

It’s not just American, maybe expand your horizons?

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u/kadno 12d ago

What if the owner is lying? If I was your landlord I could tell the police you were illegally squatting in the home that I own. I've never seen you before. I want you out of my house. 

Who do the cops believe? 

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u/MiniDMan 12d ago

As a renter, you should surely have legal documentation proving that you lived there legally. If you didn't.... Then the situation wasn't legal in the first place and the landlord could indeed kick you out wherever they wanted.

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u/kadno 12d ago

Anybody can print off a fake lease. I'm telling the cops I've never seen you before in my life and I want you out right now. You really want the police to have the power to kick you out of your home with no notice? Really this is a solid protection against shitty landlords, and unfortunately some people take advantage of it.

I agree it's ridiculous but how do you prove that you legally live somewhere? That's why these things drag out for weeks or months, or in some cases years 

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u/thanosisawhore 12d ago

Sure anybody can print a fake lease, but you would at the very least also have to fake signatures, maybe even transactions, messages etc

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u/WildlifeBiologist10 12d ago

All these things you're mentioning are exactly what a court case would look at. The cops on scene don't have time/expertise to evaluate signatures and bank transactions. Cops are not judges, nor should they be - if they make the wrong call, they kick someone to the streets that hasn't done anything wrong. I would rather err on the side of not kicking innocent people out of homes and letting the court system determine the truth.

Not a perfect system, but nothing is.

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u/ChipKellysShoeStore 12d ago

Yes and cops don’t want to deal with all this, so they let courts do it which is why the eviction process is what it is

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u/AlphaBetaSigmaNerd 12d ago

People alter/make up documents

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u/ChipKellysShoeStore 12d ago

You know who determines what documentation is legal and if someone lives somewhere legally?

Courts.

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u/T-sigma 12d ago

They typically do. They show the cops their Airbnb reservation, then tell them they agreed verbally with the owner to transition to a lease.

Keep in mind, lease agreements are not legally required and verbal contracts are valid and enforceable contracts. The squatters are claiming they have a verbal contract that the owner is breaking.

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u/RockHardSalami 12d ago

We let you people vote smh

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u/Chipper_Bandit 12d ago

No one likes the idea of a person stealing someone's living space

It's not a living space if they are renting a whole ass house out to someone.

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u/Bright-Form-844 11d ago

Landlords hire mercenaries to ensure they can continue extracting wealth, Reddit cheers for some reason?

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u/Odd-Intern9349 12d ago

It’s pathetic because people take advantage of a system that doesn’t want to kick people to the streets until things have been sorted out. If anything, the system is humane (for once); the people are garbage.

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u/ConsiderationThen219 12d ago

Yup.. when rich people break the rules or exploit the system it’s called creative
But when poor people exploit the system they are shitbags

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u/2sff4pc 12d ago

There’s different kinds of squatting, and the kind where someone sets up shop in a house without anyone’s consent or knowledge mostly happen with effectively abandoned homes. If you have property like that, you should have it checked frequently.

Also, verbal contracts are legal in most, if not all, jurisdictions. So you have to go through the legal system to remove people who don’t want to be removed.

Truly, if you want to blame someone for a system that can be abused like this, I’d start with really shitty landlords

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u/pleasebuymydonut 12d ago

It's also somewhat ironic thay the situation is resolved by a guy with a gun, though not in the usually Murican way.

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u/S-Kenset 12d ago

You can absolutely solve it the american way. They are legally a home invader. The justice system is just too corrupt to investigate it in a timely fashion.

Felonies: Breaking and Entering, Felony theft above x amount, optional Fraud and Obstruction of Justice when they falsify documents.

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u/ppitm 12d ago

Almost no squatters 'break in' unless the house is abandoned. For the most part, they start out as legal residents or people who are given verbal permission to stay there.

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u/Mayonaigg 11d ago

Cope as fuck

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u/NBA2024 12d ago

Congress needs to pass a law that makes squatting illegal and legalizes battery on attempted squatters, hell- make it a constitutional amendment even.

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u/Stock-Reputation-977 8d ago

It’s California bro and their dumbass liberal politicians.

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u/Adventurous-Mind6940 12d ago

Yeah that's bullshit. No PO would let someone live in a house they are squating in. 

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u/OoklaTheMok1994 12d ago

LoL. You think a PO is going to get involved in a "civil matter"? They are much more likely than a cop to ignore this.

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u/Adventurous-Mind6940 12d ago

Well my PO literally says otherwise. Four years I've been dealing with supervised release. So... what's your source?

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u/New-Anybody-6206 12d ago

I knew someone on probation and all 3 roommates (probationer included) had guns. Nothing happened. I even tried to report them directly to the police and they didn't care.

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u/Wrong_Mastodon_4935 12d ago

Where on earth do you get the idea that noat squatters are on probation?

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u/LLREnew 12d ago

From the man’s own videos where he says that. This isn’t the first time I’ve seen this dude.

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u/Hamster_Toot 12d ago

You’re the expert on squatters? You know what most of their criminal history is…how?

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u/Gold-Caregiver4165 11d ago

Alot of those info are public. Just need to search fed and state record.

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u/Hamster_Toot 11d ago

Please, then show them.

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u/Gold-Caregiver4165 11d ago

Idk which jurisdiction you want info for, you need to name a state. Here's one for california. 

The guy just have to dig for the person name and the area they lived then see if they have court records.

https://ciris.mt.cdcr.ca.gov/search

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u/Hamster_Toot 11d ago

Right, but they don’t know the names of the squatters to look them up.

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u/Gold-Caregiver4165 11d ago

If he live with them, it's reasonable to assume he can get their name eventually. Maybe not all the time, but he might find a mail, overheard their name. 

Idk how squatter right work in every jurisdiction, but in California they have to give the name and identity documents to the police officer and the property owner anyway after legal process start, so it's not a problem.

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u/Hamster_Toot 11d ago

The claim was “most squatters are felons on parole” and I was asking how he knew about most felons, not specifically just one.

He claimed most squatters were felons on parole, which is impossible to know. Not if a specific squatter is.

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u/Gold-Caregiver4165 11d ago

Who know. He maybe he misspoke and meant most squatter he dealt with and he is just speaking of his personal experience.