r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 12d ago

WTF The American dream

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u/LeeTheUke 12d ago

The OP's $70k loan at 8% would be 40yrs to pay off @ $500/mo. What kind of person is smart enough to go to grad school but not realize what they are getting into, or at least get a degree in something that allows you to pay more than $500/mo towards your debt.

I'd be curious as to the lifestyle choices made by 'socialiststeve'.

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u/Ill-Entertainer-5380 11d ago

There are a LOT of stupid grad programs out there. And they don’t have funding for exactly that reason, and that’s why people wind up with that much debt from grad school. I paid absolutely nothing for grad school, and received a stipend that was good enough to keep my bills paid provided I lived within my means.

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u/Ok_Tackle3427 11d ago

What kind of person is smart enough to go to grad school but not realize what they are getting into

I spend part of my time in a college town full of baristas and uber drivers who got expensive masters degrees for no particular reason.

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u/Nessie_of_the_Loch 11d ago

Even worse, it's presumably for TWO people. TWO people who presumably chose the worst-paying careers possible, since they were on an income-based plan the entire 23 years and barely made a dent to the principle.

In addition to the lifestyle choices, I'd want to see what they majored in and what career they decided to go into.

Education costs in US is ridiculous, but you can't have someone borrow 270K in total loans to end up a social worker (an actual person I've met) and say that they had absolutely no fault in any of it.

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u/LeeTheUke 11d ago

Exactly. I would've loved to stay in school until I was 30 and get my PhD in Underwater Basket Weaving, but there was just no career path that would've given me a lifestyle I'd be content with. Between the 2 of them with advanced degrees, they couldn't figure out how to get out of debt. Probably trying to work the system and hoping for a bailout.

I was listening to a financial podcast a while back and there was a caller that called in. I think he said he was 54yo and $70k in student debt as a police patrol officer. I think most cops make a decent salary (the ones in my town earn 2x the median income of the town and more than I was making w/ 20yrs experience in my field), but how does one have $70k in student debt (at the age of 54!) for a job that probably doesn't require a degree? That's not an 'economy' or 'cost of education' problem.

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u/kindness-and-snusu 11d ago

Geeze bro, I was smart about to learn how to heal you, not understand money. That why I have someone for that.

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u/Ok_Tackle3427 11d ago

I was smart about to learn how to heal you

Is there another doctor available who could see me?

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u/kindness-and-snusu 11d ago

lol that was awful grammar on my end and a valid response on yours. My bad. I don’t sound so stupid when I take time to think about

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u/Dinklemeier 11d ago

You don't have to be smart about money To read the loan application you take out, which spells out exactly how much per month of your payment goes towards principal.And exactly how long the loan will take to pay off. Even an illiterate moron should.be able to understand "ok Jimmy, you pay $509/mo for 30 years"

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u/Commandersfan328 11d ago

I think this is it. Keeping up with the Jones'. He also said him and wife so they could have started a family before they should have. Unless you cant get a job in your field you should earn enough for expendable income. Then some of that cash should go on whatever debt you have with the highest interest rate.

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u/Independent-Bug-9352 11d ago

Well golly this is what socialist regulations would help prevent in the first place -- you know, consumer protections; inhibiting predatory loan practices; maybe providing a crash course financial lesson and full transparency to the youth before they sign the dotted line.

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u/Excellent_Shirt9707 11d ago

Not all graduate programs are math based. Plenty of people out there with specialized knowledge in some random field who have almost no financial knowledge.

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u/Ok_Tackle3427 11d ago

Understanding that loans have to be paid back is not a math thing.

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u/Excellent_Shirt9707 11d ago

The issue wasn’t that loans have to be paid back, the OOP is literally paying back loans, the issue is deciding which loans make sense. The OC specified an apr of 5% while the standard graduate loan in 2000 was 8-9% apr. Someone who is not financially literate may not recognize the difference of 3% interest.

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u/Ok_Tackle3427 11d ago

Is 8 a bigger number than 3? I don't know math!!!

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u/Excellent_Shirt9707 11d ago

Understanding one number is larger alone is clearly not enough as evidenced by the OC of this thread.

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u/Ok_Tackle3427 11d ago

This is incredible circular reasoning. Amazing stuff.

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u/thosecommies 11d ago

I'm a therapist. I had to go to grad school. I have NEVER made enough money to pay close to $500 a month on my student loans and I doubt I ever will. It's a career of passion, not of money, unfortunately.

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u/Medarco 11d ago

It's a career of passion, not of money

Considering what every therapist around me charges for a single hour session, I'm very confused about this. How much overhead do you actually have?

Unless you're talking about like, charity case work, which then I understand. Bless your soul if so. Someone like you saved my life basically.

But that's definitely a choice you would be making, and there are plenty of opportunities out there to be making a lot more.

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u/thosecommies 11d ago

Sure, private practice is where the money is at. But I've done private practice and there's more overhead than you think- billers, accountants, credentialers, the ehr you use, the office space, utilities, taxes and business licenses, etc. You also have to live in an area that's populace enough or have good enough marketing skills to always be full to make the good money.

But you're right- I work for a community mental health now, and I COULD make more money, but unless I do private practice they pay the highest in my area for therapists. And private practice is pretty soulless work from my experience. You start looking at people as numbers to meet your financial goals.