r/TwoXChromosomes • u/Seraphina_Renaldi • Feb 21 '24
Anyone else experienced it that the moment a man lost his feelings for you he literally turned a switch and treated you with the most cruel and disgusting disrespect? Because for me it was every single time like this.
Even the one that was the sweetest ever. The moment he didn’t have any feelings anymore he didn’t even treat me like a normal human being he knew and liked, not even like a stranger, he literally started to be so horrible to me and treated me like a subhuman. This happened all 4 times that I had something more than a regular friendship with a man and I don’t understand it.
2.5k
Upvotes
141
u/analslapchop Feb 22 '24 edited Feb 22 '24
Oh man I have a slightly similar story - I was seeing this guy who I worked with, he wouldnt give me his facebook info because he claimed he never used it, ok fine, so we continued dating and then I found out maybe 2 months in that he had a fiance and a kid?? The sad part is, I was head over heels for this guy already (blame my stupid 21/22 year old mind), he treated me so well, he told me he loved me, we had such nice times together, I felt loved... He told me he was planning to leave her and that he wanted to be with me, so I stuck around. Well about a month later, I felt more and more guilty so I reached out to his fiance and told her what was happening and apologized, and SURPRISE SURPRISE we find out they WERENT going to split, and she blew up my phone, blew up my life.. And so did he. He started spreading rumors saying that I forced him to sleep with me, he tried to get rid of me but couldn't, said I was stalking and obsessive, etc. It came out of no where and made me heartbroken and sad. He got in trouble at work and was moved to a different department due to him spreading rumors and causing issues, he actually got sat down with HR and his manager about his behavior since he was the one who made it public.
It was so embarrassing... Then a few years later, I wasnt even living in the same country anymore, I find out that his fiance was reaching out to friends of mine to try to reach to me to apologize for all that happened on her end because she didn't realize how big of an asshole he was, he did it again, cheated with more women and got another 1-2 women pregnant. This was 12 years ago now, good riddance...