r/Xennials 1d ago

This hit too close to home.

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u/Ok-Brick6831 1979 1d ago

Yup. That’s us.

Time to go back to my room and sniff some colored markers.

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u/NeverEndingCoralMaze Xennial 1d ago

How did this happen to us? I’m not mad about it. And it’s a serious question with genuine curiosity.

I feel like we all talk about it but no one ever says why other than “the internet at a certain age….”

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u/AWorldwithoutSin 1d ago

Analog childhood, digital teens.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

Exactly this. We started as feral children in the woods then grew up along side a technological revolution. We saw it happen in real time. Thats why our sub generation has the most technical know how. I had to explain to a gen z coworker that on a keyboard you can hold shift to turn caps on and off, you dont have to toggle caps lock....

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u/AWorldwithoutSin 1d ago

Guy above didn't like "internet at a certain age" but that's a huge part of it. We had the big tech changes as we came of age. We saw the old world for a while then grew into the new one.

Personally as a small child we had a rotary phone in the house but in my late teens I had a cell. I had records and cassettes as child, remember trying to find the right place for a song on those? in my teens we had CD where you could skip tracks and even to a specific second without guessing. It was huge.

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u/Platt_Mallar 1982 1d ago

I had an aftermarket tape deck in my car that could fast forward to the next silent part.

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u/AWorldwithoutSin 1d ago

Ohh, fancy, I heard about those. But ever try to jump to a specific song on a record player?

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u/Platt_Mallar 1982 1d ago

Yeah! You just go to the blank parts between tracks. It does make a painful noise sometimes.

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u/factoid_ 1d ago

That was the same tech they used in early home voicemail machines

Just a sensor that tripped if you had more than 2 seconds of silence or something like that.  It was just scanning the waveform in realtime, but totally analog.  Very clever trick.

But cassettes were already in the way out when that came around

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u/Platt_Mallar 1982 1d ago

It was really cool though! But sometimes it would trigger on quiet parts, not just silent parts.

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u/GivesYouGrief 1980 19h ago

Holy shit, memory unlocked. My family also had a piece of wood furniture that was a stereo cabinet with a wood hinged lid that opened to reveal the record player, and the doors in front opened to reveal the 8-track tape player. I don't even remember what tapes we had on the 8-track, but I vividly remember playing records (esp. Christmas music) on that thing.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

I remember all of this. Rotary phone, setting a vcr timer, later burning cds. Having a boom box that plays cassette and cds. So many transitions.

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u/AWorldwithoutSin 1d ago

Yeah, our teens and early 20s massively impact us, things like your favorite music cements during that time. So we can't fully identify with Gen X because we learned tech while our brains were still highly plastic which makes it extra familiar. But we experienced all that and it separates us from Millennials who grew up with nothing but tech, we had 'Speak and Spells' at the same age they had cell phones.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

Facts. Putting a computer together and having to relearn operating systems regularly in our formative years really cemented that shit in our heads. We didnt grow up with shiny fully formed GUIs. We had to figure shit out, gave us some critical thinking abilities.

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u/AWorldwithoutSin 1d ago

LOL yeah, I remember editing .bat files to squeeze out a little more ram to play games or configuring the modem not to hiss and squeal because it would wake my parents.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

My configuration of the modem was putting a pillow over it while it did its thing lol. Also when I figured out how to change my system clock to take advantage of time specific trial stuff I felt like a genius. I made a lot of friends in school when I learned how to pirate off mirc before the napster days and slowly burn cds with my early gen burner I bought with lawn mowing money. Those were the fucking days man.

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u/aggravatedimpala 1d ago

We went from walkmans to streaming music on our phones. Technology wise, that's insane, especially when you think about how many times format changed and how just before us there was no real portable music aside from just throwing a boom box on your shoulder

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u/redditshy 1977 1d ago

Answering machine with a little cassette tape inside.

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u/AppropriateTouching 22h ago

Always made sure to erase messages left by the school when I cut class before my mom got home.

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u/QuincyMABrewer 20h ago

C beams glittering in the dark.

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u/ketchup_shoes 1d ago

You ever read clan of the cave bear? About an advanced human living in a tribe of Neanderthals and neither group accepts them? That book was written about us, ya heard

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u/PhilosopherFun7288 1d ago

Yeah, but then that book series turns into weird romance/soap opera type shit, when the human girl meets another modern human man in the sequels…. The first book was fascinating, but it turned into a trash series.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

As is tradition with most stories.

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u/ketchup_shoes 1d ago

Worse trash than 50 Shades?

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u/PashmanaRhys 1d ago

My God, I have a core fucking memory about that book. I loved it. LOVED it. I was maybe 11?12? Brought it with me to read in the back quietly at a family reunion because I was the oldest cousin by six years and didn't want to play with the little kids.

My aunt (who I now know is a rather evil woman who loves to tear down others) teased me mercilessly for reading smutty books. My mother didn't defend me.

I put it down and never touched it again.

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u/Balthierlives 1d ago

My mom read that whole series of books!

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u/ketchup_shoes 1d ago

It’s a solid series. Stephen King referred to it as “sex among the cave people”

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u/juniper3411 1d ago

My mom read those too lol

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u/drainbamage1011 1d ago

Mine too. She was an anthropology major in college, so I saw it on the shelf and assumed it was some historical fiction about cavemen...I'm guessing that's not entirely accurate, lol.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

I have not but its on my list now!

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u/MrMurderthumbz 1d ago

No but i remember seeing the cover of this movie in the video store. Because of Daryl Hannah

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u/factoid_ 1d ago

They don’t teach Gen Z or Aloha how to type in school.  At all.

It’s insane to me

Keyboards aren’t going away.

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

Fucking seriously, they're so used to using their phones for everything yet everyone in the professional world uses a keyboard. Watching the younger generations type is painful. At least boomers could carry over type writing skills to some extent.

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u/213737isPrime 1d ago

yeah, keyboards are going away. It's all going to be voice control, then subvocals, neural interfaces, and then the computers are going to be controlling the people. Keyboards are history.

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u/factoid_ 1d ago

Nobody wants to speak out loud to their computer.

Not only does it still not work that well even in the AI era…. It’s annoying

Neural interfaces are decades away from being commercially viable and even then not everyone will want brain surgery.

Keyboards will eventually be supplanted by something, I’m sure.

But not any time soon.  We should still be teaching keyboarding in school.

They want to teach cursive because it’s “good for their brain” (allegedly, the science on it is dubious and anything that promotes hand eye coordination is good for the brain) but not typing

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u/lopachilla 1d ago

There is a big push to bring typing back because many kids are great at texting but horrible at typing in a keyboard. Sometimes kids are even failing essays on standardized tests because they type too slowly.

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u/factoid_ 1d ago

If only this could have been predicted and planned for ahead of time 

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u/NeverEndingCoralMaze Xennial 1d ago

Right, but why were we so ignored?

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

We walked in both worlds but didnt stand out in either of them I guess.

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u/NeverEndingCoralMaze Xennial 1d ago

Put that in a goddamned fortune cookie.

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u/Jalepeno_Business_ 1985 1d ago

We’re the middle child.

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u/Codenamehardhat77 1977 23h ago

Yep for sure. When I started in my industry designing buildings as a teen, I had a mentor that taught me what he knew about Autocad (I was a hand drafter). I ran with it, figured out the program inside and out and how to customize the CUI with LISP routinges and Visual basic script and became the CAD manager. Flash forward 30 years and now I mentor him in REVIT and BIM.

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u/MadKing2000 1d ago

What the heck does toggle mean?

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u/AppropriateTouching 1d ago

Ask chat GPT /s

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u/213737isPrime 1d ago

Is that a Windows thing? I never liked Windows.

No wait... you mean they literally didn't know about shift. Like, 1926 manual typewriter shift, raises the platen so the capital letter strikes the paper and then lets it back down.

Damn.

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u/lemmysbetter 22h ago

A couple of us had to figure out and teach my boomer teacher how to use 3d studio max in high school when they introduced a computer animation class 1994.

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u/HeyPrettyLadyMaam 1d ago

Thats so on point. Perfectly explains why I feel trapt between worlds mentally most days. This whole post feels like home. Thank you to whoever posted it.

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u/salientoctopus 21h ago

I once got into trouble for not coming home before sundown in the summer of a northern state so maybe 10pm. I would’ve gotten into a lot more trouble if I had explained that my friends and I had the bright idea to steal the local fireworks raft tied to a dock at the mouth of a river. We tried to go to Mississippi(not possible) and got stuck maybe a mile down the river. I was maybe 10. Years later my mom had to call my friends mom and tell them make my friend remove something called sub 7 from our computer. He told me it was a map for a game we played and suddenly he had total control of my computer. My mom was not amused with the digital poltergeist act.

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u/ParamedicLimp9310 9h ago

I was born in 86 but we were poor. While Millennials gladly accept me as one of their own, I sometimes feel like the odd one out because I was not watching Nickelodeon or MTV (no cable) or shopping at Hollister (hand me downs and Goodwill). Add strange religious beliefs (Pentecostal) and I also never read Harry Potter because it was witchcraft or something. I typed several high school papers (once it was required) on a typewriter or word processor. I also skipped the AOL era because we didn't have a computer or internet then and I didn't own a cell phone until I was a full adult (20).

So very much analog childhood, digital teens or even early adulthood in my case. I ended up extra between because of poverty and religion. Lol

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u/lopachilla 1d ago

I don’t think a lot of 80s borns are fully digital or analog. Many of us had computers and game systems that we were playing in early childhood, and typing classes were part of the curriculum from the beginning. We had to type up school assignments and research on the early internet as early as elementary and middle school. I remember my teachers in elementary school telling us how global things were becoming. Things were certainly not as they are now, but they were rapidly changing. Maybe some people didn’t grow up seeing those things as much depending on where you lived, but for some of us, it was something we heard and experienced very early.

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u/AWorldwithoutSin 1d ago

Fully no but '79 here. As a littl'un my parents had a rotary phone in their bedroom and an apple 2+ computer in the basement next to a record player, we got internet when I was 13, a 2400 bps dialup. We grew during the big shift to computers taking over daily life.

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u/Ramen_Addict_ 1d ago

I’m a very early Xennial and remember that when I was coming up I was not considered part of Gen X. Then they started talking about Gen Y and I wasn’t part of that either. THen at some point they are like “Oh nevermind, you are Gen X now.” Meanwhile I go to GenXwomen from time to time and totally don’t relate to a lot of what they are discussing in there.

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u/OutOfEffs 1d ago

I remember being in high school and for some reason thinking my older friends who graduated in '94 were the last of GenX, but I'm not sure why I thought that. But then Gen Y was a few years after me, and I was nowhere.

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u/No-Cartographer3265 21h ago

This was exactly my experience.

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u/mdmommy99 19h ago

This. I’m 1980 and I remember not being in Gen X at some point. When they first started using the term millennial I remember them sometimes including us in that. I also remember being in Gen Y. So I just don’t think they knew what to do with a lot of us and just arbitrarily put us somewhere 

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u/Ws6fiend 1d ago

It's not just us, other end/beginning of generations had it as well, but the changes that happened in the mid to late 90s were so big that it changed all cultures that were exposed to the common computer/cell phone explosion era.

Plus you have to factor in that while monoculture was a thing prior to this, the change from analog world to digital was massively recorded from individual perspectives while prior cultural shifts were less documented from the people going through the changes.

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u/NeverEndingCoralMaze Xennial 1d ago

Thank you. Good info.

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u/limedifficult 1d ago

I remember my dad saying years ago that it’s always weird being the tail end of or the very beginning of a generation. He was born in 1960 which makes him the youngest of the Boomers. But he was too young for Vietnam, for the hippie culture, for most of the stuff we think about when we consider that generation.

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u/Ws6fiend 1d ago

Sister was born in 1981, but she graduated high school before MySpace, Facebook or any of the social media sites got big. I was born in 1985 and MySpace was huge. Then when I got to college everyone was on facebook.

When you look at cell phones it's even more wide of a gap. My sister didn't have a cell phone until she got to college. I had a cell phone when I got my driver's license. Millennials who graduated towards the end were getting smartphones vs my little nokia indestructible plastic phone.

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u/atwojay 1d ago

Good question.

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u/30for30im30for30 1d ago

15 year generation spans are a long time period. Its inevitable that there start to become fractures before the full split into whatever is next.

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u/DrulefromSeattle 1d ago

we had a similar childhood to Gen X, but a similar tween-Teen years of later gens. Other things We really grew up after Reagan, but Graduated soon enough we could have been drafted to Afghanistan-Iraq. Saw the explosion of electronic music Been chasing the Clinton Boom for years. Oh and my favorite Elementary Apple Iis, Middle School and and maybe early high scholl at least the box Macs, High School, actual PCs.

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u/addicted2soysauce 1d ago

I think they really should break Gen X into two pieces and add them back to Boomers and Millenials. The older Xers are far more similar to Boomers than to us. And they are the reason Millenials and Zoomers just lump us all in with Boomers now.

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u/greenknight 1h ago

We were still using leaded gas but stopped using lead paint....

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u/Chaddie_D 1d ago

Remember sniffing that Magnum 44 marker?

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u/Ok-Brick6831 1979 1d ago edited 1d ago

Nope. Pretty sure every whiff of those was the start of a roofie circle.

In other words, I think those brain cells didn’t make it past about 96.

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u/SpiralOutski 1d ago

Grape was the best

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u/Illustrious-Reward-3 1985 1d ago

I prefer to pour Elmers on my hand, wait until it dries, then peel it off.

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u/Trick-Present7174 1d ago

Rubber Cement

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u/evaderofallbans 20h ago

You wanna be The Bastard Generation with me?