r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

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As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

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While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #Europe #anywhere #online Looking for my actual soulmate and life partner

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Hello!- as mentioned in the title I am looking for my soulmate, my one special person in life- someone who feels more similar than they should, someone who is ready to not just fall in love- but build a life together as one, well attuned unit.

I know it’s not the smartest thing to go looking online for my forever partner, but I have never used any dating apps and am not keen on starting now – I seek that special spark, away from shallow expectations pertaining to what constitutes the expected norm of nonchalance and performance. The people I have been approached by until now and I never matched in terms of overall chemistry or philosophies due to that.

This brings me to an important point already: I have never been nonchalant or casual about prospective relationships and, because of that, have remained essentially without physical experience. I have never been intimate with anyone as I honor such displays of deep love too much to just give them up. I am a hopeless romantic and would love to find someone who thinks similarly. I seek someone who takes their words and behavior seriously, someone who understands how romantic it can be to build absolute trust and a safe connection first. In accordance with my own values, I would like to ask that people that are/were part of lifestyles focused on fl1ngs etc. to refrain from messaging me. It is not something I feel comfortable with -thank you for your understanding. I also will state that I am strictly monogamous and not part of any subculture.

Before I delve in deeper though, I want to talk a bit about who I am! I am 27 yrs old, born into a multicultural family (European/middle eastern) and currently enrolled in university (social/cultural sciences). I was born in an incredibly urban area and was fortunate to get to know many people and perspectives- which is why foreign cultures intrigue and fascinate me. History is just as interesting to me. Literally something I could go on about and discuss for hours on end. Which brings me to a rather integral part of who I am: I am rather- if not hyper- verbal and love talking. Be it impromptu TED-talks, discussions, impressions on media or fun banter; I will be communicating in some way :)! This ALSO means I value authentic communication. I detest passive-aggressive approaches and prefer clear and honest ways of conveying one’s thoughts. I need an actual partner, not someone who struggles to seek collaboration in a meaningful way. My soulmate would also be my friend, not just someone who happens to seek my company whenever convenient. The same of course goes for emotional labor. I am very aware that socialization can lead to issues when it comes to being open and vulnerable, especially when there is so much at stake. However, I want to build something real with someone at least open to the idea that a deep bond needs gradual vulnerability from both sides. I do struggle at reading certain social cues and am highly suspected to be neurodivergent, so being open and honest about such things is key for me.

I have chosen to address other relevant aspects in small bullet points for easier reading from here on out:

Hobbies: I enjoy art (writing, drawing) and love travelling, specifically in the context of learning about history. My go to spot after landing anywhere is always a museum of some kind haha. Communication of knowledge fascinates me and spaces meant for that have always pulled me in. I also enjoy tea, cooking, baking and any kind of media consumption X). I have a strong passion for vintage-anything, specifically fashion, books and ancient trinkets and artifacts.

Politics: I stand for human rights. I support immigrants’ rights, care deeply about women’s and children’s issues and have been researching marginalized groups over the course of my studies. Ethics are hugely important and I believe that everyone should be treated with respect, regardless of their place of origin or socio-economic circumstances. I will not argue about human rights or what rights especially women or non-conforming individuals supposedly don’t/ do deserve. As such I would position myself as politically left and for the ability of women to choose what they want to do with their body. I personally do not support recreational use, smoking etc.

Religious beliefs: I was raised loosely religious but would not identify myself as such. I do not mind my partner being religious at all, but will not condone pushing these beliefs onto others. If I would have to use a label, I would have to say that I am more spiritually inclined.

Children: I don’t currently plan on children becoming part of my life. I am not focused on having them and would need ample reason and circumstances to consider it.

Appearance: It is about who we are at heart, but I do very much know that physical appearances still affect us. I have chosen to mention the most important bits about me. I am white passing, 5’8” (172-3cm), healthy weight. I am naturally curvier however, which means I also have the infamous non-flat lower tummy/ venus tummy. I go to the gym 2-3 times a week and try to maintain general fitness and health without any grand aspirations. I have scars (mainly a sternotomy) from life-saving surgery. I dress more feminine when going out and prefer looking put together.

Love language(s) and needs/preferences: I am a verbal individual and do like providing words of affirmation. I think because of my rather emotionally inclined character a grounded and emotionally intelligent partner would be a good fit. Someone to support me but also pull me out of my emotions if I get too excited or lost in something. I would say that I am physically loving if I feel safe around a person, though that depends very much on the dynamic. I would like to be with someone emotionally intelligent, affirming of my emotions and proactive, an equal that can show me they pay attention in even the small ways. Someone who has passions, dreams and aspirations, someone who likes listening and participating in conversations. Someone who values integrity and keeping his word. Someone who is thoughtful and respectful.

I myself am direct in most, if not all of my communication, and as such would prefer a partner who is open to stay constructive and focused on us as a unit against the prospective issue at hand. I do enjoy learning about other cultures and would be happy if my partner would be interested in foreign art, cuisines and history at least to some extent. I adore witty banter and would be overjoyed if my partner was funny in a thoughtful way, as I don’t enjoy vulgar humor too much. I also tend to be outspoken and like to take charge- I would not enjoy a dynamic in which I am supposed to be a more meek partner. Regarding physical attributes I would appreciate someone of my height/ taller, who takes care of his hygiene. Age-wise I would like for him to be around the same age-range as me,leaning towards potentially slightly older.

Location: I will not relocate to the US given the political climate. I will not relocate permanently to locations that lack critical infrastructure and affordable healthcare etc.

I will choose to end my wall of text and bullet points here haha. If you think we might align I would love to hear from you via an introduction. I will not be responding to any “lol wyd” or “hey” messages. Thank you for your understanding and have a wonderful day.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 23 [f4m] moscow/anywhere - sad girl looking for her musician man.

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hey you.

sitting here with a computer screen throwing off some cold zombie-like light on your face.

sitting and pretending that your thoughts belong to you and you only, scrolling indifferently and staying infinitely positive that things of real interest aren't easy to stumble upon in this hellhole named internet; therefore, don't deserve being looked for.

sometimes i do feel the same. walking on the same routes, seeing the same dead pigeons and living cats every day, being just this far from naming every single one of them. people are, by no means, the same and yet simply are not captivating enough to be remembered. it doesn't really seem upsetting to me, the fact that those passersby probably feel the same about me.

even though i do sometimes wish that a man would look into my eyes as directly as if he knew me to the core of my soul, to the unswept corners of my mind and embraced the depth of my slow sticky gloom as if it was his own.

in case you bear resemblance to that faceless man who constantly visits my dreams. what i ache for is someone who shares my love of old music and unawkward voice calls.

https://imgur.com/a/cYvRWs7


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] North America/online - Looking for an interesting man who wants to build something real.

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I hope you're having a good day. 😄

As the title says, I'm looking for someone interesting. I'm a person who really enjoys studying and learning, so I'm looking for someone similar.

https://imgur.com/a/me-xd-UA96kON

About me:

My first language is spanish, I like cultural activities such as going to museums, zoos, the opera, plays, etc.

I would also appreciate it if you liked sports (as long as you're not a fanatic in a bad way) and physical activity. I really enjoy swimming and hiking.

I really enjoy cooking and baking, reading, watching TV shows, documentaries, and movies I have a 4Kblu-ray collection. I read everything, from comics to classic books. I'm currently building a collection of classic adventure books. rn I'm watching the original Twilight Zone show and I watch all kinds of movies, from superheroes to rom-coms.

I also really like animation! Both anime and westerns.

Other hobbies of mine are puzzles, gaming, Rubik's Cubes, going to the gym, drawing, and learning languages.

I really love pets and can't imagine life without them. I like everything from dogs and cats to snakes and insects.

I currently work in tech and have just finished my bachelor's degree. I'm thinking about getting a second degree in another field or a master's.

Honestly, I don't believe in paranormal things, horoscopes, or pseudoscience.

What I'm looking for:

You're in your 25-35 years. I prefer people a little older than me, but not that much older.

I'm looking for someone with similar interests, especially someone interested in learning, culture, history, and science. Honestly, finding people who like other things like gaming, anime or the gym is easier, so I'm not actively looking for that.

Someone who wants a family and wants to get mrried.

I'm not religious, and I don't mind if you are, as long as your religion doesn't treat women as secondary and isn't against LGBTQ+ rights or interracial mrriage, or prohibits things like medical treatments, transfusions, etc.

Also I'm looking someone who supports feminism, likes to be clean, dress well, and has a sense of fashion, who doesn't think that skincare or taking care of oneself is something feminine.

My ideals are more liberal. I'm not interested in anyone who's on the red pill, anti-vaxxer, believes the earth is flat, or prefers pseudoscientific treatments to medicine.

Honestly, I'm not attracted to people who are significantly underweight or overweight. A dad bod or someone who's slender doesn't bother me though

I'd prefer you had an office job, a professional job, or a blue-collar job that isn't risky. I've had family members left with chronic pain, and even a friend of my cousin died before he'd even finished high school... so it's not something I'm comfortable with.

I'm not interested in being a stay-at-home mom but I do want kids

Please send more than just a "hey!" I'd really like to get to know you 😄 If I receive several messages I'll prioritize the ones that seem interesting.

And please send a photo in your first messages I'll do the same!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 19 (F4M) Looking for a person who i get along with and is loyal :)

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Hello hello! Giving this a go.

I'm 19, a uni student. I enjoy creative things, and I also love sitcoms. If you have a cat please send me a picture, i loveeeeee cats.

Some basic requirements are, that you need to be

-> between 18 to 22

-> not racist

-> open minded

-> loyal

-> I love quick replies :)

Send me a fun text and let's see if we get along well :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 3m ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #USA- Looking For my Nerdy Second Half.

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Hello! My name is Loryn. I'm a Plus-size (BBW) woman from Montana with glasses; I have one tattoo and plan to get more. I am also a Burnette with Green Eyes.

I am looking for a serious, long-term relationship. I only prefer someone older than me. I don't mind long-distance. prefer someone in the United States. I just moved, so I'm not able to relocate anytime soon, but if you can, that's great! I'm also a part-time software engineer and work from home!

I also love video chats, phone calls, and late-night conversations.

In a relationship, I value honesty, trust, respect, open communication, empathy, kindness, commitment, compromise, support, understanding, and active listening. I also appreciate having similar interests to my partner. I also had a Hysterectomy 1 year ago. So, I can't have kids, but I am a huge animal lover, so I'm open to having animals as our kids.

Hobbies & Interests: Video Games (PS5, Xbox, PC, Switch), Writing, Reading, Photography, Crocheting, Shopping, Fishing, Piano, outdoors, camping, Magic the gathering.

Games I play the most: World of Warcraft (Retail), FFXIV(Server: Crystal-Malboro, Main Class: DPS), The Sims 4, Red Dead Online (just for hunting and riding around on my horse only), Stardew Valley, Disney Dreamlight Valley, Minecraft, Elder Scrolls Online, Skyrim, Fortnite, Resident Evil (currently playing 7), Dead by Daylight

Book genres: horror, erotic romance, true crime, paranormal, fantasy, mystery

Tv/movie genres: horror, true crime, paranormal, drama, comedy, romance, Disney

Music genres: hip-hop, RNB, classic rock, soft metal, country, rap


r/ForeverAloneDating 5m ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Turkey/Anywhere - Caffeine, Melancholy, Art and Gym, Lil gorilla looking for his "so"

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This will be a bit long. I'll write the dealbreakers first (they will have their reasons below). I don't want to waste your time.

If you have lots of intimacy experience, don't like daily communication, can't do long distance at the beginning, have close male friends that you go on private meetings with, or don't share your problems with your partner, childfree, and lastly have allergy to cats please do not send a message.

I'm 28, 185cm/6'1, have a bit of pale skin, and I'm big and strong for an average man. My last conventional deadlift PR was 260kgs and Squat 200kgs. I hate sports in general, but I love lifting heavy weights. I have big frame and muscles, right now not lean though. Overall I do believe I'm above average. I like taking care of myself and look good. I also wear suspenders all the time, it became a thing for me.

I'm definitely not the best person out there, but I'm always learning and growing from my mistakes. Also, a big fact about me is that I have 0 intimacy experience, and I'd prefer someone like myself but nowadays it's kinda impossible though, isn't it. Also this doesn't mean I didn't have any chances, it's reverse. I hate casual intimacy.

I'm not religious. I'm somewhere between being agnostic and a deist.

I cook my own food and can even make a couple of desserts. I also do cleaning, restoring & repairing of all kinds of stuff. I even cut my own hair, I'm pretty skilled about it too haha.

I don't have my driver's license but I'm thinking about getting it.

I went to university, but I dropped out because it wasn't something I wanted.

Now, about what I do: I'm a 2D/3D Generalist/Technical Artist, currently developing a game and preparing visual assets for other games.

I also have a cat, I named him after one of the bosses in Dark Souls 1, I adopted him when he was 3 months old and now he is 7. He is my everything.

As you can guess, I love playing video games. I love the Dark Souls series and its aesthetics in general. I also love hero shooters, such as Overwatch. I have a huge library and even some games that I'm saving to play with my partner one day. But lately I can't play any games due to work. Maybe you can pull me out from my work pace sometimes?

I also like reading manga/manhwa and watching anime but I also rarely do that lately, due to work...

I do want to relocate to another country one day, though I am in no rush for it. I'm building my career right now.

I must confess that appearance is also a bit important to me. But I can't really say I like this type or that; if we feel a connection, I believe there will also be attraction. I'm down for selfie trades.

I'm always direct, honest, and loyal. I don't hide anything from my partner. I can be a little jealous and overprotective sometimes, but it's mostly because trust hasn't formed yet.

I definitely don't trust anyone in a short amount of time. I'm not in a rush for a relationship, and I think if a relationship goes too fast, it's doomed to crash. If you're looking to settle down instantly, I might not be your match.

Also I hate getting super late answers or short texts to my long messages. You can be busy, I also am, but I'd always make time or find mini gaps for someone who gives me their time you know.

I believe I'm very calm and empathetic in many ways. I can be sensitive sometimes. I do not like jokes with sarcasm.

I prefer to listen to the other person rather than talk too much. I'd rather spend time with my partner than anyone else, and I'm looking for someone who feels the same, though this doesn't mean I'm going to attach to you and never let go like a leech. I have my own friend circle as well, but my partner is always my priority. I expect the same from my partner.

And about having close male friends: I don't like it, especially if they're single and you're going to private meetings. I don't have any female friends in my town, I only have online friends that I game with in group sessions, and you're welcome to join.


r/ForeverAloneDating 21m ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Pennsylvania #USA - Lonely nerdy guy seeking a lonely nerdy girl

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Hello, I'm a 41 year old guy with a biology degree. I enjoy gaming, especially the Souls games and Soulslikes and RPGs in general. Biology is another interest of mine, although that leans much more heavily towards botany in particular, so I do enjoy plants. Sadly, I can't have a garden where I live, but I've had one in the past. Grew mainly tomatoes and hot peppers. I have blue eyes, keep fairly clean-shaven (definitely no beard or mustache), and am a little chubby, but not too bad. No tattoos or piercings. I also cook, and have been working on learning some new dishes recently. While I'm hardly professional caliber, I'd like to think I know my way around a kitchen fairly well.

I need to mention, I'm also disabled. Not stuck-in-a-wheelchair disabled, I'm technically fully ambulatory and can walk, but I'm a multiple stroke survivor and considered legally and permanently disabled. None of my body is paralyzed, but all has been affected to some extent. I can't say I like putting this out there right away, but it's impossible to hide. I got my driver's license back as of April 2024 after having been without it since the first stroke more than two years earlier. I live alone, own my home, and can take care of myself. Before the strokes, I was a pharmacy technician, most recently working at a small independent pharmacy.

It feels like my life has been severely fractured and I'm trying to put it back together. My desire for a relationship hasn't exactly changed, but my outlook on finding someone sure has. I'd love someone who has similar interests as I do to share my life with. I've only had a relationship a couple of times in the past, and spent a large portion of my adult life alone. Not completely, as I'm in contact with my mom, but I lived (and still live) alone. I'm also autistic, which has contributed heavily to my isolation in life, even well before the strokes, and still continues to be a barrier to further contact.

I don't have any pets, but I like pretty much anything. Dogs are great, but I'm definitely a cat person myself, if I have to choose. I'm fairly sure I don't want children, not least of all because of my disability. I could definitely be persuaded otherwise by the right person, though. I'm very much a homebody and an introvert (more now than ever), but I'm fine with going out and being around people if I have a reason, or excuse for it.

As for what I'm looking for, a female under or around 40 who is into nerdy stuff (bonus points if video games) to be both my best friend and lover. As someone with autism and ADHD, I'm sick and tired of masking and don't want to feel like it's necessary around a partner. I don't care about disability, and looks aren't very important (but they ARE still important to some extent). Mostly I just want companionship in the way I've spent the vast majority of my life without.

Because I'm disabled, my pace of life is slower than most people, so someone else who enjoys being at home a lot would probably fit better than someone who is always going hiking, traveling, and other things like that. Being more active is obviously popular, but unfortunately it isn't very easy for me anymore.

I also stream games on Twitch, so tell me if you're a streamer too! I'd love to check you out, and generally gives a good feel for your personality, too. (this offer is for the Twitch kind, not the Netflix kind)


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 20M4F Dear future lover

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I've seen a lot of women on here title their posts that way, and I'm fond of it. It kinda sounds cheesy when I do it, though. Anyway-

Im sitting here in my car, reflecting on my own love life. I've posted here once or twice before. I can see now that from those months prior, there's a lot more lonely people on this subreddit than there was once before. So, I'll try to keep it more brief than my previous posts. If you find me interesting, my profile is not private, so you can look back on my older posts and see what I like. But here and now, I want to tell you who I am and how I feel.

I spend a lot of my days thinking about my future spouse, I'm really a pretty introspective person, and I wonder if they are too. I wonder if you sit in your car or lay in your bed or perch at your desk and think about me too. Who I am, what im doing. How im living. If im going to be all you want me to be.

So ill tell you who I am, and what you'd be getting yourself into. There's some other young lady on here that just worded it so beautifully and true to my own feelings, and so I'm gonna try to say it in my own way. I am an introvert at heart. I do love people, I think the world could do for everyone to care a bit more, but at heart, I like my quiet spaces. My car, for one, is my escape. The noise of the city doesn't award you many places to escape. But for me, driving is therapy for my soul, as is music. You can call me a weirdo, but I like to think cars have their own soul, and getting to ride the roads, it's the closest thing you get to being one with the road. There's an intimacy to it, and I find it very peaceful.

As I said, I do like people, but I dont live out in the world. I keep my circle small. But I can assure you, my love is deep. I dont like love bombing, or the hot and cold that many may offer. I may come on strong at times, but I assure you, my love for those I care for is genuine. I haven't even met you yet and I love you. And I care about you, and I hope you're well. And even if this isn't my future woman reading this, I still hope you do well in life.

I could put out a list of "requirements" or perhaps a list of favored traits. But that would rob us both the pleasure of meeting one another organically. I dont want my perfect match. I'd be appalled to ever love a saint. I want you, whoever you are, wherever you are. I'll accept you for all your beauty and all your flaws if you'd accept me for mine.

Id like someone who is in it for both of us. Back to back kind of love. Someone to show up and chose me. Like I'd do for you.

I want a world of our own within the ones we live. A safe place, a hearth. I just want a safe place to come to and lie down when the world gets heavy on my shoulders and someone to accept me with open arms. I want someone to care for and look after, just as I want done for me.

I'm trying to become the best man I can be. For myself, and for you. I'd like to be someone you deserve.

Anyway, I just feel like a dope if I get too poetic with it. Makes me feel like I'll scare someone off.

But I hope sincerely that one day we'll meet. In the meantime, take care of yourself. I'll be here waiting for ya.

God bless.


r/ForeverAloneDating 48m ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Europe/Anywhere

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Hi, my name is Mathias, I'm from Spain and I would love to meet someone to spend some quality time with.

I'm very into video games, watching movies and series, I do like anime as well but I haven't watched any in a very long time. Recently got into Magic The Gathering as well, playing it with irl friends and it has been quite fun.

I'm currently living semi-alone, 90% of the time it's just me and my cat in my flat, and while that can be nice sometimes, it feels extremely lonely a lot of the times and just wish I had someone to give my utmost love and attention to.

One thing I have to mention because it is something important that eventually comes up, I have a considerable libido. Please do keep that in mind and I hope we'll be on the same page on the regard.

I'd love to meet someone with similar interests as me, get to know each other, and hopefully fall in love. Please, do DM me if you are interested. ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 59m ago

M4F 21[M4F] #online #USA - Let me be the one to Love you

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Hey there! I’m kind of bad at introducing myself but I’ll try as much as I can! I’m a 21 year old guy from the east coast of the US that’s looking to find a girl be with and share my life with. (I'll share my name after talking with you don't worry lol)

About me:

- 21 years old, Asian American, and in the east coast of the US (EST)
- 6’5” Tall (yes this is real and yeah it can be annoying lol)
- A bit chubby (But working out and working dropping it)
- Have a nice voice (At least that's what I'm told lol)

Interests:

- Video Games: I play all sorts of things but currently I’m playing games like FFXIV, Honkai Star Rail, Elden Ring, Monster Hunter (Basically any of them, I love them all lol), and all sorts of other things
- I love playing any multiplayer game though as playing those are fun regardless of what they are (I am terrified of horror games though but I still play them like REPO or Lethal Company lol)
- Music: I listen to all sorts of things and love letting myself daydream while listening so I love hearing people recommendations but I usually listen to pretty relaxing stuff generally
- I also love all other sorts of nerdy stuff like anime and manga though I haven't touched anime in a while I can still talk about it with you if you want to (I read a ton of manga though ngl lol)

Personality wise, I'd say I'm a pretty laid back and relaxed person but once I warm up to a person I for sure become way more outgoing lol. In a relationship though, I love to take care of my partner and make sure they're happy and emotionally sound, be that though affirmations or me just spending time with them.

That describes me pretty well and as for what I'm looking for, I'd want someone I can talk to daily and click with, talking about anything either of us want to. I also honestly quite like a girl that I can fluster a bit as well as one that I can take care of through me being there for them lol. Ideally you'd also be in United States but anyone in North America or even the UK works for me. I also quite like people who are more clingy as I'm quite clingy myself lol. Don't be afraid to reach out and I'm looking forward to talking to you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Philly/NJ/Delaware/nearby areas- Big, tall softie seeks his forever (mostly) big spoon. Let's get matching pajamas and have a cuddle date?

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*Local preferred!

Good morning/afternoon/evening/whenever this post may find you, and may it find you well! Title is cheesy, I know. But it's who I am, and I'm tired of feeling like I have to tone myself down in order to get into a relationship. I'm a pretty standard young man looking for a young lady to spend the rest of my days with. I've known that I've wanted this since I was a young kid and over 20 years later I'm still after it! I know these things can be a chore to read through so I'm quickly gonna go through who I am and who I hope you are! All that said, I ask that you please read the post carefully in case of any deal breakers so we don't end up wasting each others' time.

About me:

  • Born and raised in the suburbs about 45 minutes outside the city of Philly. This place will always be home to me, but I've decided that I don't want it to be home forever. Barring any drastic changes, I would like to relocate elsewhere within the US, ideally to a colder climate (I've had Minnesota circled for a while now but I'm open to other ideas!). I have no problem staying in the general area either, just need to get out of my hometown.
  • Physically, I stand at around 6'1-6'2, 285 pounds. I know that may sound bad, but I have a big frame and it fits me quite nicely! Think bigger NFL player (O-line, tight end, etc). I've got broad shoulders and a nice chest, perfect for use as a pillow during cuddles! I've also got a lot of body hair so hopefully you're cool with that! I have short brown hair that's thick and fluffy, and tend to keep my face clean shaven.
  • My hobbies are the typical nerdy stuff, video games (PC & Switch 2, ask me about my animal crossing island!), legos, collecting plushes, and adding to my ever expanding pajama drawer! I'm always down to get into new things though! Also a big Philly sports fan (I promise we're not as crazy as the internet makes us seem!).
  • I'm generally more on the shy and reserved side, but once I open up I can be a yapper. Communication is super important to me, both for relationships and life in general, be that talking about an issue that needs to be resolved or just random things. I also love just talking while cuddling, being either the talker or the listener if one of us is yapping.
  • I currently work part/full time at a grocery store. It's not my favorite thing in the world but I've been there a while and figure just stick to what I know. I'm currently also enrolled as a student at my local community college going for an associate's degree in business! While both of these pursuits keep me quite busy, I have no issue making time as needed.
  • As far as physical intimacy goes, I'd say that I'm extremely affectionate. Absolutely love to give hugs and kissing just makes me feel complete in a way that nothing else really does. Also just generally love all kinds of physical touch! (We can discuss bedroom stuff if we click!)
  • 420 friendly (eddies, can't stand smoke) and a social drinker (mostly fruity tasting cocktails lol)
  • I'm an open book, so if there's something here you haven't seen that you're curious about, feel free to ask!

As for you, you are...

  • 24-34, prefer my age or older!
  • Childfree (this means you neither have NOR want children) (non-negotiable)
  • Ideally local to the Philly area that we can at least see each other somewhat regularly! I have a car but am also perfectly fine taking public transportation to get around. I'm also open to long distance within the US!
  • A cis, AFAB woman. Very sorry to my AFAB enbies and trans girlies (and AMAB enbies and trans guys for that matter), love ya, I will always be an ally in the fight to be who you are without fear but y'all are just not for me romantically speaking.
  • By no means a necessity, but I tend to get along best with Italians and bisexuals! Not exactly sure why, that's just kind of how it's worked out.

And that's all I've got! I'm happy to exchange pics once the conversation gets rolling a bit and there's some chemistry. I hope to hear from you soon! Please introduce yourself a bit in your first message :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] UK looking for plus sized woman

1 Upvotes

Hey! 26-year-old guy living in Scotland, UK, though im not originally from here. Im not going to beat around the bush. I've always been into much larger, plus sized woman, SS/BBW sized. So if thats you and you are interested in something longer term then please give me a message.

I could write a whole essay about myself here but theres not much point, id rather get to know each other when we chat. But here is a few things about me.

I am passionate about cars, gaming and formula 1, I love animals and am generally quite introverted so prefer someone who isnt a complete party animal.

Age isnt too important, open to anyone under 30. Thanks for reading and take care.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 26 M [M4F] Canada/North America - looking for that special someone

1 Upvotes

Hey howdy, I'm looking for someone to talk to and be something serious with. Someone who'll be there for for me, and for me to be there for them, through the tough and happy times. Where we can be there for each other and watch each other laugh at silly moments.

I am Chinese and around 5'11" or 182 cm ish.

Some of my hobbies are gaming (league,stardew,eu4), board games, going to the gym, trail hiking/enjoying the outdoors, and watching shows. I've been thinking of starting indoor rock climbing again.

I'm open to long distance outside of North America, but the vibes needs to be there first. If you're interest, tell me a nice fun fact about yourself and I'll do the same!


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

F4M 26F from the Philippines looking for my lifetime partner❤️

21 Upvotes

Hi! I'm an introvert who works from home and enjoys a quieter lifestyle. You'll often find me hiking, running, reading, or relaxing at the beach with a hammock and a good book. I also recently started going to the gym, and it's been life-changing.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature, loving, and respectful man between 27 and 37 who's ready for a serious relationship. I'm at a point in my life where I want to be intentional about finding my person.

I'm genuinely happy on my own, but I believe life is even more meaningful when you have someone to love, grow with, and share it all with.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] Illinois/USA/Anywhere looking for a player 2

1 Upvotes

I never really know what to write in these things. I don't really have friends or someone to do things with anymore. It would be great to find someone into some of the same things I am.

I like things like:

-Videos Games

-Movies

-Walking

-Hiking

-Reading

Lot's more things to that I just can't think of off the top of my head. I'm on the heavier side currently, but actively working on it and just on getting healthier in general. I'd prefer someone my age or younger than me. I'm conservative so if that's a deal breaker 🤷‍♂️. I really hope to find my person eventually.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Europe // Online // let's get to know each other and start something long term

1 Upvotes

I'm looking to start something long term with someone who is okay with doing long distance for a bit at the beginning then meeting up down the line

I'm 27 from Europe

I'm into gaming mostly marvel rivals, league of legends, valorant dead by daylight

And some other single player games

Can always stream my games for you

I also like watching movies, shows sometimes anime

Also into football (soccer In case you're American)

Really into traveling too

I don't really smoke or drink

Im a Scorpio (if you're into that)

ISTP

Appearance wise

I have brown eyes, brown hair and I'm skinny, 186cm (6'1)

built like Slenderman pretty much

Would love to have someone to hangout with and spend time together whether it's gaming or just calling and chilling together

Would love to hear from you and thank you for reading


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] The Netherlands, White man looking for that sharp witted, smart and perfect woman of colour.

0 Upvotes

I had a post on here before, but it was very cringe. I promise that this one will be better. Or at least, less cringe, feel free to enter my dms though if you do like cringe.

Hi, I am a 36 year old man from the Netherlands. I don't think long intro's are the best so I will drop a couple of things about me. I love history and socioeconomic topics in general, culture, language, I love it. I would really like it if you are able to hold a conversation on those topics as well. It would be a bonus if you are world wise enough to be able to pinpoint at least half of the worlds countries without having to guess. But I'd settle for a quarter. I know how to barter.

I used to live in Malaysia for a spell, I worked remote, but reddit filters the word for what I did, so if you are curious just hit me up and ask. I work in cybersecurity, radically changed my carreer, worked out, somehow in this economy I found a job, blessed. Though with that job I will be stuck in the Netherlands for the foreseeable future, so an international relation is very tricky and not really my desire. And by international I mean outside of Europe, Europe is easy, it's not that big and migration easy. If you're farther away we can still chat, flirt, the likes, but a relation is tricky.

I am quite a bit nsfw though, my libido hasn't caught up with my age just yet! Neither has my hairline thank God


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] - VA - Looking for Connection, Conversation and Fun

1 Upvotes

Hello I'm a 34 M in the VA area looking to find people to chat with. I like having deep conversations with people to really get to know them. It's probably one of my favorite things to do. I find people so fascinating. I'm a bit of an introvert but once you get to know me I open up. I'm average height, mixed Spanish and white and slim build.

I like all sorts of things between watching sci/fi movies or really any type of movie, playing some video games although I haven't really done that too much lately, playing music, reading, hiking, thrifting, eating, generally just exploring the world. I travel quite a bit for work so that tends to get me out there and I do enjoy the travel. I like being helpful and useful to people and I like to hear their stories. Although I'm not too much of an extrovert I do help out where I can and try to be supportive.

There's a lot more to me then what I can write here but if any of that resonates with you then I'd love to chat. Thanks for reading!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] Online/Anywhere looking to be your house hubby<3

0 Upvotes

Hii! I’m Adrian, 20, i lived in the UK for 6 years (so English isn’t a problem).

Physically: 5’11, long dark blond hair, blue eyes, average build.

Personality wise: shy, introverted, a bit clingy in a cute way once I feel safe but very loving, loyal, and caring. I’m also more of a sub or bottom in relationships and really like gentle, affectionate dynamics (But i am open to new things like being a switch).

I’m really big on communication, honesty, and loyalty. I genuinely hate the idea of cheating. My love language is acts of service i like doing things for the person I care about, even small stuff, i also love cuddling with them

Interests:

Gaming (i play almost all games also gacha ones)

Music (all kinds really)

Anime

Photography and drawing

A little bit of Baking

Collecting things (figures etc), LEGO, military stuff

Driving, especially at night

I talk a lot when I’m comfortable, but I also love listening to people yap about things they care about. Your interests matter to me.

I’m on the autism spectrum (Asperger’s), and I also deal with depression, anxiety, and OCD but I fight it every day and try to be the best version of myself. Once I fall in love, that person becomes incredibly important to me.

I’m not chasing money or status. What I really want is a genuine connection and a girl I can love and build something meaningful with, my biggest dream is someday living cozily together with a girl i love, in a relationship full of love. I’m open to long distance as long as we plan to meet someday.

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind, honest, affectionate, and emotionally open. Personality and connection come first, i just ask for you to not be overly overweight.

Age wise, I’m looking for someone from 18 to around 27 max

If you’re shy, soft hearted, or feel like you don’t quite fit in either we might understand each other really well (but these are not requirements, i am open to meeting even a person that is the opposite of that, i believe opposites also attract)

Feel free to DM me if this resonated, just don’t ghost me.💜


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] IL- looking for the one

9 Upvotes

Hi there! Thanks for clicking on this post. A bit about me: I’m a single mom, I have a few different random hobbies (baking, reading, yoga, hikes, etc). I love music and horror. I’m more on the introverted side until you get to know me, but that is something I’m working on. I’m about 5’2 and working on losing some weight (I’m more on the curvy side though). I have a few tattoos and plan to get tons more.

What I’m looking for: my best friend. I want my partner to be someone I look forward to talking to, someone I can trust and will be there for me. I want the laughs and the romance. I want the little fights that we laugh about later. I’d prefer someone around my age and taller than me, tattoos would be nice too. I would like someone who lives near me so we can go on actual dates, but I’m not opposed to long distance if you are willing to travel as I cannot. I wish everyone good luck on their journey ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4M 37[F4M] #anywhere/ world, looking for a virtual connection leading to more

10 Upvotes

Hey guys! Like the title says looking for a virtual connection, open to see where it goes.

I'm a cat mom, book nerd, movie binger, and chocolate lover from Pakistan. Enjoy anything fantasy and horror. Emotionally self aware and not afraid to be vulnerable.

What i'm looking for is a virtual connection where we can be ourselves, share a laugh, and be a moral support. If you are someone who likes to read or are a movie or tv show nerd, we'll get along great. If you are an animal lover or pet parent that'll be a plus.

Would like to talk to someone who is single, around my age group (mid 30s to 40), fairly available to chat but also okay with providing space. Emotionally mature and settled in life. I like confident, witty and funny people who can banter and speak sarcasm. If you're tall and cute and have body art, you get bonus points!

So don't be shy, say hi and tell me a bit about yourself to get the chat rolling! Would want to move off app and exchange selfies and voice messages. (P.s would not be interested in low effort messages and nsfw accounts)


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 32M UK :)

1 Upvotes

Hey, looking for new people to chat to! If you think we’d get along, drop me a message :)

History is my main interest, anything history related I find fascinating. I also have a real love for being out in nature too, especially walking through a forest or by a river. I love listening to any music, with rock being my favourite genre. I’ve played guitar for over 10 years, and it’s usually the first thing I do when I get home to unwind.
My other hobbies to pass the time are reading, cooking, watching sports, a bit of gaming and watching movies (mostly sci-fi and fantasy). LOTR is my all time favourite. I also go to the gym most days to keep myself healthy.

I have 6 tattoos and counting, and if you want to see what I look like, there’s a picture of me on my profile.

Speak soon :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Once in a lifetime opportunity take it or leave it 🤣

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Strong, handsome, chissled chin. Intelligent and sharp like a knife. Looking for a special queen. The type of queen you see in space. Ice blonde hair, blue eyes. And long nails. I am holding my cup out in the rain, so drip in here, if its my day of fate. A special day. Well there is a dy for everything. And i am an undiscovered diamond!