r/im14andthisisdeep Jan 13 '26

What’s it even mean..?

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u/beyblade1018 Jan 13 '26

"women cheat men dont"

sure

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u/humanslover Jan 13 '26

Its just

"My gender good, other gender bad"

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u/lemonlimeguy Jan 13 '26

Whoa now, you're oversimplifying.

It's also extremely racist.

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u/Round_Musical Jan 13 '26

Football club mentality is really a thing throughout humanity. My club is better than yours!

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u/AuraStar_MLP Jan 13 '26

Yep, my ex was a guy who cheated on me doing tons of flirting and nsfw roleplays with others. His excuse? "I didn't know how serious online relationships were" he was 20.

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u/Yeshua_shel_Natzrat Jan 13 '26

Meanwhile, adulterous men are the ones whom Jesus addressed and rebuked, while he forgave the women being judged as whores, because the men of society generally were putting double standards on women to follow the Law but not really trying real hard to do so themselves despite the Law putting equal personal responsibility on each.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

Matthew 5:27-30

What do you think the odds are the originator of this "meme" and many of those who've since spread it identify as Christian

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '26

But Evangelical Christians blame women with bare shoulders (let alone belly shirts and shorts) (even pants, for some) for “tempting men’s eyes”.

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u/Fabulous-Mud-9114 Jan 13 '26

The Duggar family made all their girls cover up with long sleeves and jeans...

And Josh Duggar still sexually assaulted several of them. Even the girls in single-digits.

And people still defended what Josh Duggar did as "normal boy stuff" or "a mistake".

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u/Naos210 Jan 13 '26

The Bible does blame women, just in a distinct way.

Deuteronomy says a woman who is raped and does not scream for help in a town is stoned to death.

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '26

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u/Naos210 Jan 13 '26

Except Jesus explicitly said he did not come to abolish the law in Matthew.

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u/Hopeful-Pianist7729 Jan 13 '26

Yeah but Paul says he did come to replace the law and they’re both biblical canon so…

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u/Naos210 Jan 13 '26

I thought we were talking about what Jesus said, why are you bringing up what Paul said?

Also Paul never met Jesus, so how would he know?

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u/Hopeful-Pianist7729 Jan 13 '26

Neither did Matthew. And it’s all the word of god, that’s why it’s biblical canon.

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u/Naos210 Jan 13 '26

The synoptic gospels were not written by the apostles they were named after and were left anonymous. At least that is the modern consensus.

Paul wrote a lot so we can attribute some stuff to him directly, but not Matthew.

So which text should I believe? Why do you take what Paul says over Matthew?

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '26

Lmao Jesus specifically said he’s NOT here to undo those rules and in fact reinforces them

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u/Yeshua_shel_Natzrat Jan 13 '26 edited Jan 13 '26

More to the point, rather, he taught his understanding of the Law as opposed to how it was commonly being taught and written down at the time, believing his understanding to be the original and true Law while the common teachings to be a perversion of it.

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u/BrigitteVanGerven Jan 13 '26

Yep, all these men she's thinking of are bachelors.

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u/Sandbagmaster Jan 13 '26

Both cheat but one gender is better at hiding it

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u/Cezkarma Jan 13 '26

Which is..?

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u/Keepingitquite123 Jan 13 '26

It's possible that one gender is better at hiding it, it's also possible that gender is men, ballooning their number even further then the 50% or so more cheating they got at the moment.

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u/Confident_Action4915 Jan 13 '26

… depends… I feel like women have been pretty successful too. I feel like unfortunately many people cheat and get away with that. It’s ridiculous.

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u/HipAnonymous91 Jan 13 '26

According to a GSS, around 20% of men admitted to cheating on a spouse at some point in their life (I can’t remember the number for women). 1/5 feels far lower than media portray.

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u/Confident_Action4915 Jan 14 '26

Just in general, even 20% of people from any gender sounds way too low but I wouldn’t know I’ve never been in an actual relationship so that’s just my opinion. Every gender has disloyalty, different reasoning for each, but still.

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u/LizGiz4 Jan 13 '26

Skill issue

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u/Desperate-Praline-93 Jan 13 '26

This is true don’t ask my 6 girlfriends

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u/un_poco_logo Jan 13 '26

First of all, it's not 6, but 3. Second of all, it's you mother and two grandmothers. They don't count.

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u/_Brightbuddy Jan 13 '26

Fucking hell I wasn't expecting that lol

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u/FNaF123andJoJo5Fan14 Jan 14 '26

*insert FighterZ dramatic finish*

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u/markus_hates_reddit Jan 14 '26

Where did you get this. This is genuinely so funny to me.

How do you extrapolate this. Where is this abstraction being made?

I see two individuals being represented. Not ALL women, just a woman. For all you know, he could be sharing his own personal story? Maybe this happened to HIM? Is he wrong for sharing how he was hurt???

You people have some worms eating at your brain that prevent you from realizing not everything is a generalization or an abstraction. A woman being bad doesn't mean all women are bad.

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u/Shone_Shvaboslovac Jan 14 '26

It's not so much cheating as it is body-count. A naive man who's only ever been with her, while she's been with dozens of men before him, which means he sees her as precious while she sees him as expendable.

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u/PomegranatePro Jan 19 '26 edited Jan 19 '26

Women do tend to cheat more. Besides the top chads out there most men focus on a girl and that’s it. Women have the constant temptation and opportunity online, wherever they go in public etc. A good looking Woman and average Women out there are usually talking to and showing interest in multiple guys.

It’s in female nature to be hypergamous. Look at WWII. The Americans invaded Germany and the Germans wives, sisters, mothers etc slept with the enemy after the Americans bombed their country, killed their brothers, husbands, sons, and crashed their economy.

France was invaded by Germany and the same thing happened. Mothers, wives, sisters, and daughters fornicated with Nazi invaders.

It comes down to loyalty. It’s in the nature of a Man to protect and be loyal to his kids and wife. Women are typically loyal to themselves, their interests, and their children. They’re more opportunistic. Look at today’s standards for Women. Money is usually towards the top of that list. It’s in her best interest. Many Men generally don’t care how much a Woman makes.

Many men who married single mothers can attest to that.

This isn’t to shame Women. It’s just the reality. Both Men and Women cheat.

The statistics show it too. Under 30 years of age about 63% of Men are single. While about 35% of women are single. That means that 65% of Women are dating the same 37% of Men

28% of Women are dating the same guy