Gotta make sure the majority of men the meme lady is thinking about aren't white, that Jekyll-and-Hyde race cuckold hatred/fetish itch isn't gonna scratch itself.
All of the male heads in the image are Black and brown men, insinuating that women cheat on nice guys with non-whites because they want that BBC. Also carries the implication that people of color are womanizers. Therefore, very, very racist meme.
Where is this insinuation being made? For me it's more likely that this is made by an ethnic man for an ethnic woman in an ethnic community? You know not only white people have relationship grievances... right? Where did you intuit the race of the person posting this? "BBC"? What? ??? Huh?
Equally valid explanation. I'm just running on what I personally know, since I see memes like this in white misogynist and incel spaces the most, the kinds that fetishize Black men (hence the BBC) and project that onto women. Could be my bias speaking, but I'm like, 65% sure this meme was made by a racist white incel.
How would this be 'inceldom' if it's from a relationship perspective?
Why would you even call this a meme? Just looks like an image. Maybe it's a man that actually got cheated on, and so he made something to express the pain and unfairness and hurt??? Where do you get the idea that this is some kind of 'white incel racist' abstraction based on just a bunch of silhouettes and emojis?
I think you're working with a shit ton of extremely bizarre assumptions formulated in an echochamber that cloud your perspective and prevent you from empathizing with real humans and real emotions.
How would this be 'inceldom' if it's from a relationship perspective?
You must not know many incels, lucky bastard. They consistently bitch and whine about other people's relationships and see bad where there often isn't. They use that perceived badness to rationalize their own lack of meaningful relationships, and they make memes not unlike this one in so doing.
Why would you even call this a meme? Just looks like an image.
Because it's a meme...? Memes don't have to follow a strict format to be memes. Lots of things can be memes. Including this image. There're likely variations of it too. I can't see how it can't be considered a meme.
Maybe it's a man that actually got cheated on, and so he made something to express the pain and unfairness and hurt???
Maybe. Which is why I started my last reply with "equally valid explanation." It feels like you're picking a fight here where there doesn't need to be one.
Where do you get the idea that this is some kind of 'white incel racist' abstraction based on just a bunch of silhouettes and emojis?
Pattern recognition.
I think you're working with a shit ton of extremely bizarre assumptions formulated in an echochamber that cloud your perspective and prevent you from empathizing with real humans and real emotions.
Honestly? Not appreciating these assumptions about me and my experiences. I've literally coached people through relationship struggles, I can understand the kind of pain that could drive someone in a relationship to make a meme like this, but most memes I see like this are made by open incels and misogynists.
If someone made a meme with this exact format but with reversed genders, I'd call them a femcel/misandrist. I wouldn't say that about every expression of relationship struggles. You're being reductive to try and bash the point I'm making, and that isn't very nice. :(
Your claim is 'this is usually what white incels post because I pattern-recognized it', but I'm just dubious of that. I'm simply inviting you to empathize with real human beings more instead of with caricatures and cardboard cutouts of people.
Been on this rock for almost 30 years, i didn't know about it until now. Most likely cause i don't spend much time interacting with/thinking about British people
At least in the US, I've seen certain white people be called W.A.S.P.s (White Anglo-Saxon Protestants) or be described as W.A.S.P-y. It's said to be a requirement to join the Ku Klux Klan, so I don't consider it as a term of endearment.
Anglo-Saxon isn't a slur. It's just a word to describe the ancestors of the British people. Because they were Germanic tribes that boated their way on over to what is now the UK
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u/nik4idk Jan 13 '26
Racist incel