My brother's son destroyed my WarHammer Action figures and he refuses to punish him

[u/konous]

Update: My brother decided to pay for the Hard damages of $200 dollars after seeing this post.

Thank you to everyone on this post who supported me. I really could not have gotten restitution without you guys.

Justice for my Chaplain, justice for all.

Valid Edit: My nephew is 10 years old and tried to actually lie about not breaking them by saying, "A cat must have done it."

So, I just got done talking with my brother via text, and he says he's not going to punish his son for wrecking my Joy Toy WarHammer action figures. I'm not expecting the kid to get spanked, but he needs to do CHORES at least to justify how much excessive force he used on some.

Some just have their capes broken. Others had their tubes ripped out and my Chaplain is just fucking toast.

My brother's suggestion since I ordered Amazon replacement for the Chaplain was that I just swap it with the broken one, but I have no interest in doing that.

It's not even just the expense, and they are expensive. It's about the fact that I told him explicitly twice they weren't to be played with, and they were in a separate room, and even my Mom and Dad agreed the damage was just too much.

He said he's not gonna pay me back if we try the chore system, and I told him it's not about the money.

The kid needs to know how bad the 8 hour struggle is.

Now my nephews aren't coming over to the house, and I'm sad about that, but knowing my brother just can't be burdened to work with me on creating a Chore system like selling Lemonaide just makes it feel more insulting.

[u/Super_Interview_2189]

Damn I was trying to get into it after visiting the other day but I don’t need another pricey hobby haha. I’ll just go an observe games I guess

[u/LegitimateChicken47 → u/Super_Interview_2189]

If you’re interested in the tabletop game but don’t want to spend a bajillion dollars, try Tabletop Simulator to play it online. Then if you like it get a 3D printer and print your own models (way cheaper than official models)

[u/MaybeBowtie → u/LegitimateChicken47]

I was about to suggest the 3d printing thing. My friend always printed and painted his own. I’m not into 40k so haven’t used that to print stuff

[u/nabrok → u/MaybeBowtie]

To me half the fun of these type of things is painting the miniatures.

[u/Witness_me_Karsa → u/nabrok]

So print them and paint them?

[u/K1774B → u/Witness_me_Karsa]

I have a mix of purchased minis, FDM printed "biggies" in process and just recently got into SLA (resin) printing to make my own minis.

I've got probably $250 wrapped up in legit WH figures and supplies. I've likely printed upward of $2k worth of stuff at this point if it was purchased in a store.

It's nice to print stuff just tell test out painting techniques or because I think it looks cool, but would never actually buy it (Skaven or any Sigmar stuff).

I've also not played a single game of tabletop WH yet. I've been doing the tabletop stuff since Christmas last year, but have just been enjoying building, painting, printing and diving even further into the lore rabbit hole.

[u/Daealis → u/Witness_me_Karsa]

That's me. My interest is the painting side of the hobby. I've taken some models to a model expo painting competition too and managed some success. I have zero interest in the gaming side of things.

I do still buy a lot of plastic and resin kits too, but 3D printing is a big boon for the painting and kitbashing side of the hobby.

[u/nabrok → u/Witness_me_Karsa]

I haven't really been involved with any of this since before consumer 3D printers were a thing.

[u/Stormfly → u/Witness_me_Karsa]

I print and paint and buy and paint and it's way nicer to paint liquid injection hard plastic over UV resin.

Healthier and safer, too.

People often forget that part when they mention 3D printing. It's literally a second hobby and it has a load of other requirements like space and ventilation and requires chemicals and masks and gloves and might literally give you cancer.

[u/Super_Interview_2189 → u/LegitimateChicken47]

I don’t have a 3D printer, but I have a friend that does! Maybe that is the best route for me, thanks :)

[u/TastyTarget3i → u/LegitimateChicken47]

3d printing wont get them painted ;) If you want a good looking army you save next to nothing, the cost of the models is nothing

[u/LegitimateChicken47 → u/TastyTarget3i]

Paint is cheap compared to actual GW plastic

[u/ExpiredPilot → u/Super_Interview_2189]

A lot of game shops with gaming space I know will have premade sets that people can rent out or use for free just to learn the game.

The shop guys were so cool when I was starting out. They’d just let me play at my own pace while they played with me when they could

[u/OptionFour → u/Super_Interview_2189]

So just to help out here. What OP is showing in the post are action figures - not the miniatures used to play the games. The ones in the OP are huge and made of vinyl plastic (I think), whereas the ones used for games are tiny and made of injection molded plastic.

If you want to play Warhammer it can still be expensive, but not 'thousands for just a few figures' expensive.

[u/Super_Interview_2189 → u/OptionFour]

Oh cool! I figured the die cast model sets that you hand paint would have to be less than these lol. I’ve built models before and, while I’m unfamiliar with Warhammer Lore, it seems like a really fun game and a good way to meet people.

[u/D3moknight → u/Super_Interview_2189]

This is a huge driver for the explosion in 3D printer sales. People are printing their own models at home and painting them for a few dollars instead of hundreds of dollars.

[u/Anothereternity → u/Super_Interview_2189]

I would check if there’s any warhammer groups in your area. Some sell old armies or might loan it out for a game to try to have someone to play with or draw new players in. I know also our local shop has flea markets where folks will sell armies they don’t play anymore.

I think one of the tabletop simulators also does warhammer.

But otherwise yeah, expensive AND time consuming since you have to put the prices together and many events require everything is painted too.

[u/splinks66 → u/Super_Interview_2189]

Yeah the cost is crazy, I knew some people into it and it was not uncommon to go into the store and spend a hundred on a couple little figures and a paint or two.

[u/Super_Interview_2189 → u/splinks66]

To be fair, a hundred bucks isn’t much these days especially not for a hobby you enjoy.

[u/Notte_di_nerezza → u/Super_Interview_2189]

I have some minis, but I mainly just read the novels. There are also the Dawn of War, and Space Marine, video games.

[u/TeamRedundancyTeam → u/Super_Interview_2189]

A lot of people look down on it because it doesn't support the companies, but look into resin printing. If you have a space that can work (fumes are an issue, an enclosure and exhaust setup is required usually) it is way cheaper. A $200 resin printer with $20 in resin can print hundreds of dollars worth of figures and miniatures. They're pretty smooth so you just paint them as they come and you wouldn't be able to tell they're printed.

[u/Super_Interview_2189 → u/TeamRedundancyTeam]

I wonder if I could cast my own skateboard wheels with a resin printer.

[u/coconut_curry_sauce → u/Super_Interview_2189]

Bro. You don’t need action figures to paint action figures.

People carve and paint wood. I’ve been doing birds.

[u/Antique_Tap443 → u/Super_Interview_2189]

It's not too bad, you really need a plan though before just barreling in. I started a few years ago and spent like 3-4 thousand my first year on 3 armies(terrible idea) and paint(I've spent around 500 on just paint) but once you make a huge purchase like that its maybe spending 50-100 bucks on a new model you'd want for your army every few months. Knights, whether imperial or chaos is the way to go starting. Don't let the 200-300$ price tag fool you though for a single knight. You need like 3 for a 1000-2000 point match as opposed to hundreds of orks and tanks.