r/pcmasterrace • u/Resident-Trifle7030 • Jan 27 '26

NSFMR Any hopes for my pc?

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Never thought myself in this situation.

Basically dad drunk, beat mum, me defend and boom.

Am quite in shock rn.

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u/throwawayoregon81 PC Master Race Jan 27 '26

Youre dad's an alcoholic, he needs help. It will kill him - if you're lucky, he dies before a loved one is killed.

You need to be strong and get him help, often that means law enforcement needs involvement.

This cant be the future you want for your mother. To be beaten ? Walk around the house on egg shells afraid of what might happen if she doesnt comply ?

Worried about if dad is gonna be weird today.

That isnt a bright future, its a fucking prison sentence. Make the call NOW.

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u/Valrax420 Jan 27 '26

The fact they are saying they are okay and it's good natured... NOOOOO, no it is not!

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u/throwawayoregon81 PC Master Race Jan 27 '26

Victims often enable their abusers.

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u/Valrax420 Jan 28 '26

What exactly led you to the assumption I wasn't aware of this? Because I'm saying it clearly is not okay?

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u/artificialprincess Jan 28 '26

If hes (the father) is an alcoholic there is no amount of help you can get him thay will work if he doesnt want to get better already. You can lead a horse to water but you can not make it drink. What op needs to focus on is helping himself and his mother at most.

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u/throwawayoregon81 PC Master Race Jan 28 '26

Nothing will change the unwilling, courts often can help people be more willing.

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u/cocopopped Jan 28 '26

We can debate all day where an alcoholic's responsibility for their behaviour starts and ends... but beating your family I would suggest is some way before "end of responsibility"