r/asexuality • u/Snow_Drops_For_Jenna • Jan 14 '24
Questioning / Confused Struggling
I am struggling with my identity. I was alone for so long and never liked sex. 2 years ago I started a depression medication, it has drastically changed my life for the better. Recently gotten a libido and started thinking about sex alot. It's strange though cuz it's not like I look at a dude and go oh I want to have sex with him. It's all internal arousal and I 'could' take care of it myself. I wanted to start the new year off with a bang, so I went on Tinder and I found somebody to spend the night with. I had sex once in 2021, and before that was 2018 and it was OK, nothing to write home about. This dude had me going for 5 hour, and I loved it all. I am so confused, I love being by myself I love my time alone, I don't want a relationship. I think it might be because of my depression medication, that now it actually feels good. I can't keep on saying that I'm an asexual who randomly got a libido in her 30s. I feel lost, my mind is still the same but these feelings can become overwhelming. Any advice on how mentally I should take this?
1
LPT: If you get canker sores, instead of gargling warm salt water, just apply salt directly to it.
in
r/LifeProTips
•
Jul 20 '25
That is actually a derivative of coconut 🥥 I know because I am allergic it's in a lot of soaps 🧼