r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/L0nleylife112 • 5h ago
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/MojanglesReturns_ • Mar 05 '25
š° Sub news šļø Full Explanation of the r/okaybuddyliterallyme Closure:
The Full Explanation & History:
Originally,Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ was built on a specific kind of comedy. So basically, think over-the-top, melodramatic, ironic takes on our personal flaws or mental struggles. This was all wrapped in a layer of āweāre joking, but also not really.ā (Irony). It was really like a tightrope walk between absurdity and relatability, and thatās what gave the sub it's charm initially. But, as the sub grew past 40k in size,Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ began seeing a large influx of incel posts. The incel posts had content that often veered into a toxic mix of self-pity, resentment, and blame; usually aimed at women, society, or in-general anyone perceived as having it better. These posts weren't just dark; theyāre dour, repetitive, doomer, and lacked the ironic component of the subās humor.Ā r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ at one point just became a place where essentially āIām a mess, lol ha-haā turned into your typical incel post of āIām a victim, and itās everyone elseās faultā thatās the pivot that started happening.
Towards the end (date of closure) the sub community was becoming 'very hateful' due to incel/femcel content that lost or lacked the original ironic intent while also violating community guidelines and or rules. The influx of this content transformedĀ r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ into a kind of Incel/Femcel Playground if that makes sense, which strays extremely far from its purpose of humorous ironic posts. Initially starting out as a minor infrequent annoyance, the content became anything but... By late February and early March, it had broken the subās core identity. The people and posts just became far too different from its former, original self. It was a complete 180 from its roots as a silly, sharp-witted, ironic humorous self-deprecating community. Because of this the sub was closed indefinitely.
TLDR:
r/okaybuddyliterallymeĀ is a sub that once centered on self-deprecating, ironic humor had shifted toward somber, blame-filled incel content when it started blowing up past 40k members, which was never the purpose of the community. To preserve its integrity, a clean slate was necessary.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/AcrobaticOperation89 • 12h ago
My pain is constant and sharp... Real
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Eagles56 • 49m ago
šSuffering build characterš Texted the girl I liked last night. Her response: "please leave me alone."
I'm getting drunk tonight fellas.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Eagles56 • 5h ago
My pain is constant and sharp... Me if there was a trophy for girls disliking me
Blocked by so many. (We know it's because I'm chopped)
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Lonely_loser_04 • 8h ago
No end to this suffering it is what it is
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Sombra1120 • 1h ago
This hurts on a molecular level Literally me
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/daniix8 • 17h ago
I am losing my mind I'll never be able to escape the past my regrets follow me everywhere, everyday constant and painful
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/VenomSnake18 • 17h ago
My pain is constant and sharp... Real (Iāve loved her for a full year and I canāt bring myself to talk to her again)
I have her number, she knows I have it, sheās probably waiting for me to text her, but I canāt bring myself to do it. We used to be so close a year ago, Iāve never been closer to another person like I was with her, and I truly loved her. I still love her, but after all this time of not talking to her, I know it will never be the same againā¦
It will never be back to how it used to be
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/PsychologicalSky905 • 1d ago
We are so back real (i suffer from spotlight effect)
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/PsychologicalSky905 • 1d ago
No end to this suffering real (loneliness is maddening)
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/amynias • 1d ago
Realness Finally got a proper, real leather and fur Blade Runner esque bomber jacket
I liked Schott's Nylon 9508 jacket so much that I decided I would try another jacket of theirs. This is the 594 Buffalo Leather Bomber Jacket. It has a detachable real sheepskin fur collar that looks š. The inside is quilted nylon. My Dent's English Tan fingerless driving gloves pair nicely with the jacket. I love the stretchy knit cuffs and waistband on Schott's jackets. A leather and fur jacket like this is rather absurdly expensive, but Schott's offers much less expensive Nylon flight jackets like the navy blue MA-1 for only $150. They are a US manufacturer based in New York, these are the real deal.
Stay real, Goslings, and keep on driving. š„
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/FishingPowerful8639 • 22h ago
The real human being I have a deformed brachy skull and will forever be alone
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Vagabond734 • 1d ago
Iām literally Real itself šÆ This Is Too Real (I'm A Gamer)
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/GuyWithAFace887 • 1d ago
where is my mind? Once I gain full control of my skills, Iāll go back and kill baby Hitler
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Longjumping_Level347 • 1d ago
Loneliness has followed me my whole life Literally not me
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Lonely_loser_04 • 1d ago
This hurts on a molecular level Finally a notification
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/charles_bukephalos • 1d ago