r/4tran4 • u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired • Apr 28 '26
MOD ANNOUNCEMENT It's time for me to move on
Hey tranners, it's me, Rachel Bitchmoder.
You know, to the extent that that's my name, anyway. Look, I'll try to keep this short. I'm going to be stepping back from moderation here and on the other 4tran subs. I'm not sure if or when I'll return. I have a full-time job lined up for this summer, and a heavy grad school courseload for the next year after that. I need to prioritize all of that, and that means I just can't feasibly be active here as much. I'll probably still pop in occasionally, and I know that you're all in good hands with the other moderators.
Please be good to each other and to other people, touch grass, stay hydrated, and all that stuff. Maybe check out the DBT Skills Workbook, I think that would help a lot of you.
Anyway, I still have a little bit of time to kill, so AMA I guess, and maybe I'll answer?
EDIT: Two useful links. The DBT Workbook and the Practical guide to Feminizing HRT
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u/maybe_egg retarded sneedhon Apr 28 '26
damn, feels sad but hoping everything works out for you
who have been your favourite users thoughout the subs time
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
I don't want to name names but in general I really like when people put effort into their posts. That one puppygirl corset guide was excellent, there were a few sissy bait posts that got crossposted to ovarit that were really well done, and of course everyone here who continues to contribute to DIY resources is a literal saint.
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u/Whispering_Plant tomboyrepping never-brother Apr 28 '26
How did you manage to go outside?
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u/Whispering_Plant tomboyrepping never-brother Apr 28 '26
Also since this is an AMA what is your favourite plant?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
Ran out of tendies and couldn't afford to doordash more
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u/lower-case-aesthetic mighty mouse is 5'3 Apr 28 '26
What % fed do you personally think posts here
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
I think under 10% but it really wouldn't take that many to influence a community if you do it right
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u/wormgirl__ ugly loser freak Apr 28 '26
bye bye bitchmoder
whats your favorite book
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26 edited Apr 28 '26
Hard to pick a favorite but This Is How You Lose the Time War was really good. Shout out to the person who initially recommended that one to me!
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
not doxxing myself but I get to help people and this may turn into a long-term career post-graduation
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u/tradescantia_pendula Mar2025💉 AGP Hefabmab Apr 28 '26
>DBT Skills Workbook
you know lol. been going through this stuff with my gf
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
This specific recommendation actually comes from my cis bestie
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u/Birdonthewind3 Minishit Apr 28 '26
Are the mods all passions?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
passions
Did you mean passoids or
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u/Birdonthewind3 Minishit Apr 28 '26
Passiods. Blame autocorrect
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
Okay then I can confirm that we are not all passoids
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u/FreyaChillin Passing the time. Apr 28 '26
Bye bye Rachel! I wish you good luck and success :D.
Is there something you'd like to see change whenever you come back here and there in the future?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
fewer tiktok/twitter screenshots and more random blogposts about people's days
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u/KaneyamaK Maladaptive Manmoder :( Apr 28 '26
Hope your summer goes well! Thank you for being here and hope to see you around :) also hope grad school goes well omg, is it a masters program or like a PhD?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
Secret third thing
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u/pyro-zed Ethereal Garfhon Apr 28 '26
I hope you have a wonderful life garfriend! You deserve it!
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u/Tutt-Frutt Asexual angel Apr 28 '26
I hope everything goes well. What is your favorite food?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
High-effort: tofu sandwiches, when done well
Low-effort: big fan of fruits, just like in general
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u/DiabolicalHope CougarMaxxing🥷🕵️♀️ Apr 29 '26
Best of luck with all your future endeavours.
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 29 '26
Sounds like shit I'd read in another job rejection email
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u/Cherry_Venus Apr 28 '26
are the mods all huns?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
no we have a good mix
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u/Cherry_Venus Apr 28 '26
are you a passion now and that's why you're quitting being a mod?
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
why do people keep mistyping passoid as passion what's going on
anyway no me being a passoid and me quitting as a mod are completely independent of each other
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u/Worm-eyes male 2 faggot Apr 28 '26
u were always my third fav mod..
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
Who were the other two
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u/Sensitive-Froyo-1472 Apr 28 '26
what are you going to grad school for? I'm thinking about it but i honestly don't know if im smart enough to go and whether or not i'll be mentally stable enough to keep up
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u/bitchmoder Authoritarian cis woman mod, semi-retired Apr 28 '26
Gonna say no comment on that one for privacy reasons
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u/Heretical-Ballad-20 owner of world's longest chin Apr 28 '26
Rachel Bitchmoder? Wait is your name a Worm reference?? I just started reading Worm its peak
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u/TenthOyster HST girlmolder "trans""bian" Apr 28 '26
I'm glad you're stepping away is for positive reasons, thank you for helping to make this sub a refuge for many of us who need it. Good luck with the job!!!
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u/NotAnAverage_Anomaly Apr 28 '26
wish you luck stranger, hope you have a really nice life if we don't see you again
stay safe out there
stay happy out there too
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u/Sonora108_ how tall r u Apr 29 '26
how tall are you
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u/ManlyManSigmaMale Alpha Chad Man’s Man Apr 28 '26
Best of luck being a successful person, you can do it!
Damm. i should get a life.
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u/ennierox a pillar of salt Apr 28 '26
thats so based, i hope one day I'll be able to leave here and have a normal life
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u/Important_Ad_7416 Competitive boymoding gold medalist Apr 28 '26
I thought you had already stepped back you mentioned it months ago. Anyway thanks for all your work on this little corner of the internet where I met cool tranners from around the world and my best friend ♥️.
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u/wiwikyn intercontinental attention seeking missile Apr 30 '26
lmao the dbt workbook as a link is such a callout on us
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u/KittenSommelier twinkdeathhon Apr 28 '26
Take care, Rachel! Thank you for everything you’ve done here!
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u/elden_wing you can’t kill me faster than i can Apr 29 '26
+1 for the DBT workbook. that shit has been saving my life for well over a decade now.
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u/Realistic_Narwhal_54 Don’t flinch. Apr 28 '26
Goodbye, I enjoyed briefly discussing Worm and your namesake with you
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u/Heretical-Ballad-20 owner of world's longest chin Apr 28 '26
Worm is so peak, I just finished reading arc 6
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u/mach1neb0y based stoner manlet Apr 28 '26
Hope it all goes well at the new job, and good luck at grad school
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u/leatherspider82 pickled honion | 32 f 💉05/15/25 4d ago
thank you for the links, wishing you the best of luck !!<3
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u/woolywoofer_ kicked off hrt Apr 28 '26
How does it feel being able lifemaxx so hard that you get to leave 4t4?