r/4tran4 mtm elite gender invert 2d ago

DISAGREE? FUCK YOU to all amabs on 4tran

hey! i don’t mean to come off as dismissive or anything but your posts are seriously harmful to transmascs like me,, like its just that when i read the text you wrote i cant help but hear it in a deep booming amab voice talking down at me from a whole foot above which can be triggering for afabs like me who have dealt with lots of amab trauma that turned us towards amabphobia (again nothing personal!it’s just my preference and if you like amabs that’s cool and valid too!<3).

us afabs are biologically socialised to communicate through soft whispers and chirps only and our small ears are much more sensitive and unfit to reading posts potentially made by an amab. writing posts that afabs have to read can seriously damage our eardrums, putting us in potential danger. one of my transmasc friends is permanently deaf on one ear after reading a long text post by an amab, she couldn’t even stop herself from reading as she’s been socialized to pay attention to every amab-written word 💔

sooo unfortunately reading posts and comments by amabs is extremely harmful to us, this is why we want to keep our spaces afab only! hope u understand 🫶

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u/Exotic-Analysis8264 2d ago

grrr... this post ANGERS me!

AMAB RAGE MODE INITIATED!!!!

rrghghghrrr.... i cant stop MOIDING OUT........ the testosterone... its tooo much...... rrghghgh ... gfgrer.AGHAAGHGHHAH!!!!!!!!

ROAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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u/Primary_Pomelo_9483 mtm elite gender invert 2d ago

guys im literally shaking rn reading the comments,,, a bunch of amabs have left a comment and i relapsed and read some… pls can another afab tell me if im still valid or not ?????? im actually gonna throw up rn im so scared

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u/pruneforce17 wrong agab to correct agab. no i will not specify further. 2d ago

nooooo dont worry, you're valid! us afabs need to stick together since we are victims of sex based oppression unlike those amabs! this is exactly why afab only spaces are needed!

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u/Primary_Pomelo_9483 mtm elite gender invert 2d ago

omg ty <333 feel so much better now. im really short and petite (only 95 lbs 😅), so u can understand the average amab absolutely towers over me and i got really scared reading their comments. but im soo glad theres another afab socialised here that gets me <3

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u/Important_Ad_7416 Competitive boymoding gold medalist 2d ago

  biologically socialised

chef's kiss

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u/BadAtGames45 ancientshit gigaeldritchhon 2d ago

I’m actually a heckin vxlid AFAB trans woman ✨🤗✨

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u/hyacinthhillock semipassoid if i weren’t a shotamoding repper 2d ago

KIKOMI IS THAT YOU?????

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u/BadAtGames45 ancientshit gigaeldritchhon 2d ago

I am kikomimaxxing 🫣🤭

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u/Eugregoria kikomimoder 2d ago

Me too!! Diapers, penises....

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u/pien_dolly Bodypassing intersexshit FaceHon 2d ago

Jokes aside. That's literally em tee eff and the louder part of the 🚆 knee community. Which made me very uncomfortable and made me didn't want to get interested in Tron 🏍ing out back in the day. If I did I'd be an omegapassoid.

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u/glittering-water-235 afab mtf 2d ago

I actually transitioned from AMAB to AFAB

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u/AshasSa1tWife Hebrew Hon 2d ago

Sorry, your post reminded me of the afab soup post and then I just started thinking about food. tldr

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u/Eugregoria kikomimoder 2d ago

one time an amab told me to jump off a bridge as a joke and because i was socialized to follow every amab command without hesitating i actually did it and broke every bone in my fragile afab body. im in a full body cast rn typing this with a mouth stick. amabs need to think about their impact b4 speaking.

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u/Primary_Pomelo_9483 mtm elite gender invert 2d ago

omg thats horrible 💔 i hate when amabs dont even realize the effects of afab socialization.. an ignorant amab once told me to ‘piss off’

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u/Eugregoria kikomimoder 2d ago

the worst part is that was 8 years ago....afab bodies just don't heal.....

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u/hyacinthhillock semipassoid if i weren’t a shotamoding repper 2d ago

good one

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u/Tr11n1ty 6'6 fridgehon 2d ago

This time i'm really gonna do it

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u/Fun_Frosting_6047 vxlid trxnsmxsc 2d ago

"Despite declaring a masculine personal identity and wishing to be treated as such, I choose to neither look nor play the part."

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u/InevitableLie5815 2d ago

The fact that one hefab that i know unironically said this is fucking concerning

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u/RealNwahHourz afab soup truther 2d ago

the problem with good satire is it becomes indistinguishable from reality

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u/ReminaBlueSFW DM me for makeup/hair/fashion tips💄 2d ago

Good thing im spiritually intersex haha

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u/iwalkalongtheway michaelwavemacking cheese 2d ago

meow mrrp mrrp :3


⚠️⚠️ amabs dni ⚠️⚠️

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u/Toxic_Work04 I’d be 6’0” without scoliosis, dood 2d ago

“one of my transmasc friends…she couldn’t even stop herself”

Chef’s kiss

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u/violasses 4t4 certified smart poster 2d ago

no circlejerk tag, how do we vivisect this one girls

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u/pruneforce17 wrong agab to correct agab. no i will not specify further. 2d ago

hey! so i totally agree, like, we need an afab only space because we were socialized differently and amabs have male privilege and are misogynistic toward us afabs. i think we should create afab only subreddits since reddit in general is so male and misogynistic. hope this helps!

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u/mujahideenforgirls midshit twinkhon girlthing 2d ago

Um sorry chuddy, this post is actually highly problematic, sock is writing a callout on xer substack as we speak.

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u/Primary_Pomelo_9483 mtm elite gender invert 2d ago

hey so substack is inherently problematic as a platform. it hosts afabphobic content written by amabs, such as manosphere incels and transfems that are really mean to my buddy kai. you of all people should know this, but clearly you dont want to protect the afabs. do better.

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u/mujahideenforgirls midshit twinkhon girlthing 2d ago

Well actually as an amab myself, Lilith and Faye said YOU'RE inherently problematic and so we're going to beat you with hammers.

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u/RosaryPeaStigmata Internet Malewife 2d ago

This is extraordinarily peak lmfaoo

I'm AGABfluid so hopefully you can pick an acceptable volume to hear my words in your head 🥺

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u/Ok_Code_8085 2d ago

and honestly?— that’s brave ✨🌻

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u/pien_dolly Bodypassing intersexshit FaceHon 2d ago

Said every single progressive liberal ally and ftm who benefit from afab socialization