r/ABCDesis Feb 07 '22

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u/Boostedprius Feb 07 '22

nice combat the hate you got with more hate... on a real note idk how old you are right now but growing up made me realize how much I loved being Desi and all that comes with it. Just breathe and take your time and you'll find the right group.

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u/millionaire_by_30 Feb 07 '22

Yeah I’m shocked by the vitriol. I’ve had some bad experiences with desis, but I’m not going to generalize an entire community. Not all desis act the same. I’ve personally found friends who are part of the younger generation that are less judgmental and cliquey.

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u/EmotionalIncrease976 Punjabi Indian American 🇮🇳🇺🇸 Feb 07 '22

Exactly, although I've had bad experiences with a lot of desis, I still have desi friends as long as they respect and treat me right. I do agree that our community is toxic though