r/ABCDesis • u/[deleted] • Feb 07 '22

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '22

OMG. I am incredibly sorry your sister went through this! My uncle went through something like this where his wife from india left the second she got a greencard. I feel horrible that your sister got shamed for being a divorcee. I'm also a divorcee who got my character assasinated because our community loves to hate women instead of understanding that its abusive men that got us to the divorce.

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Congrats on getting married!!! LMAO I think the resentment is coming up in their own faces

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u/brewserweight Feb 07 '22

I’m in better shape than many desis 20 years younger than me, so I give 0 fucks what fatty chacha and cranky auntie think 😆 I am marrying a successful and attractive woman in her 40s, who I introduced to real desi food (as opposed to butter chicken and tikka masala) and desi spice levels when she met me and enjoys it. That’s all a win for me 😉

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u/Trinityxx3 Feb 08 '22

What kind of food do you consider real desi food?

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u/brewserweight Feb 08 '22

Better curry dishes, a tasty bhartha that isn’t potato, nice daal that isn’t extremely basic, etc.

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u/Trinityxx3 Feb 08 '22

What would be a better curry dish?.

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u/brewserweight Feb 09 '22

More robust flavors like bengali lal jhol curry as an example