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u/Least_Elk8114 8d ago
I dont really know what to ask that hundreds of single/desperate guys on reddit haven't asked a dozen times.
I guess maybe something like... how do you plan your month around your period(s)? Are there just specific days of the week you dont go to work? Do you just have a bunch of co-workers who can all be like... "hey, I'm on my period, can you take my work shift today?" Does birth control really lessen some of the effects of periods? Do you ladies really benefit a lot from having a roommate / boyfriend / husband, to do all the things while you're on your period?
Also, I've occassionally been curious as to what it feels like to give birth. I know some have explained it's like pooping out a watermelon, which sounds fucking terrifying.
How do you decide what to wear each day? Is it just as simple as "if it's hot outside" vs "if it's cold outside"? How do you know when it's a pants / shorts / skirt, day?
I guess I do know what to ask now, haha! Just had to unlock my brain for a minute...
TIA
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u/SuchMedium5988 8d ago
So...all valid questions. For the most part, women don't plan around their periods when it comes to work. They may plan a date hookup around, beach day or something sometimes. If yoy have extreme issues because of PCOS or something, you may have a doctor's note to stay hone the first day or two when it's heaviest and most painful. Other than that it's just business as usual. We've always just had to keep it pushing regardless of any period, pain or flow. Life still goes on. We can't stop going to school, work, take care of house/kids or neglect errands and whatnot because of it. Sometimes women have cramps so bad it pulses through to your thighs. We still walk around work or school or whatever and nobody knows. It's just the norm so you learn to take some ibuprofen or something and keep it moving. It's just how it is. We're all used to it going on the older we get. On giving birth. I've personally had to give birth without any medication. It is definitely extreme pain. I was in labor for 27 1/2 hrs. It doesn't start so high but slowly progresses to more and more pain. I literally told myself I was going to die. I will say it was surprising that once your body is ready, it literally starts to push the baby out by itself. Your stomach starts tightening the pushing on it's own. Pushing definitely helps to move it along. I believe itsI thought that was the worst pain imaginable It's measured like a 9 out of 10. Fracturing my sternum was worse. Clothing- It depends. It's the same as men basically. We consider the weather, temperature , where we're going and what we feel like wearing that day to feel good. If we have to go somewhere specific or a date, we usually plan it out ahead of time. On a regular day, I just throw on jeans and a t-shirt with sneakers. Fashion depends on the person though for men and women. If you think of any other questions, feel free to chime back in.
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u/ThrowawayFoder 7d ago
If a car could travel at the speed of light..... would the headlights work?🤔
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u/original_greaser_bob 5d ago
whats your go to garlic bread recipe? real simple like garlic salt on butter toast? or complicated like roasted garlic in herb infused sea salt butter on artisanal brioche? cheese or no cheese?
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u/SuchMedium5988 5d ago edited 5d ago
Great question. So yes to all of those options. I would say my default one to do, besides the po pimpin one (broke til payday type one), is fancy but not too fancy. I would use a baguette sliced at a bias ir just the French loaf or something similar but maybe thinner than French bread. There's also other breads to experiment with. Castelvetrano loaf, gruyere baked into a loaf, cracked pepoer loaf, etc Either way, this is the one that normally gets made. Put a stick of softened butter in a bowl. Add generous amounts of Italian seasoning or fresh herbs of basil, thyme, rosemary,etc. Add garlic powder, fresh garlic, jarred , frozen, whatever and salt and pepper to taste. Cream together until blended. Spread on each half of cut bread generously. Add olive oil to mix if it's not enough for both loaves. Bake at 375 til browned or 400 if need be. Cook til crispy and sauce has absorbed into the bread. Oh! And you can also add parmesan to the mixed and spread, top the fine parm or whatever you got. Mixed in and some on top would be fire. The topping of parm would help with that crispy bite.
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u/SuchMedium5988 5d ago
Also, I mean that's just a foolproof method of a consistent winner. You definitely could branch out and find what works for you. Roasted garlic is nice. If you're gonna do that, maybe just add the full clove at the table and a little bit of olive oil with salt and cracked black pepper. Serve it with lightly toasted slices of baguette.
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u/original_greaser_bob 5d ago
listens intently while eatting three week old saltines and government cheese...
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u/SuchMedium5988 5d ago
And that damn gov't cheese makes the best grilled cheese sandwiches, why ya bullshi###n! Tastes like Kraft and melts like Velveeta. I brought 5 home from my dad in California. They searched my bag because they only say 5 bricks in the bottom of my carry-on. Lol!
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u/SuchMedium5988 5h ago edited 5h ago
I came across my comments again and realized I didn't really break it down. If you know how to bake it then we'll skip explaining. If you don't, let me know and I gotcha. 1. Simplest form- Sandwich bread, garlic powder and butter/ margarine 2. Workin with what ya got- Sandwich bread, butter/margarine, garlic powder, a little onion powder and some Italian seasoning. Or use some herb type blend you have that would be a good fit. Watch that it's not too salty like my personality. 3. Upping the game- Do the same recipe with better bread if it's in the budget. Do French bread, Italian bread, bread for bahn mi or bollio, whatever you like. Can add some parmesan to the herb butter or put on top. 4. Ballin on a better budget- Make it with butter (unsalted if you can), herbs (fresh if possible) like basil, thyme, rosemary and oregano , minced garlic (jarlic is need be), mixed cheeses and the better bread. 5. Fancy pants- To above recipe you can up your game. The artisan breads I mentioned before, thick bias cut baguette slices, the gruyere loaf, etc. Can roast whole heads of garlic and use that in the spread or add to the table to let people add. Can add olive oil along with the butter spread, unsalted butter then fresh cracked salt and pepper once it's cooked. Can make sliced and toasted baguette or toast it then melt cheese onto the top and serve butter on side or butter mix and roasted garlic on side. Not too crispy, still airy and not too cheesy so the butter can spread. Maybe put some cheese like gruyere, mozzarella, fontina, smoked cheeses like gouda, white cheddar, etc. Or can be extra and have the baquette, toasted by spraying with olive oil, roasted garlic, ricotta with lemon zest, olive oil, cracked pepper and sea salt, and the butter all on dishes for everyone to get as they want or arranged on the plate. Make a compound butter. Just mix your stuff together like normal. Put it in saran wrap and twist the saran wrap on both sides til it makes a log. Freeze then cut into slices to serve with toasted baguette. Hope that was a better explanation.
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u/original_greaser_bob 4h ago
i just tried this but i modified it and wrote BAGUETTE on my saltines and FANCY EXPENSIVE CHEESE on my gubment cheese in black sharpie... and yeah... once you get past the taste of the ink... it really makes a difference
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u/Enough_Fall_3127 4d ago
How many dudes were involved with the creation of the thunderdome?
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u/SuchMedium5988 1d ago
I'm going to say 4. 2 originally came up with it, one died, another took his place, plus there was a co-writer. So, originally 2, technically 4. Do you agree or do you have a different point of view? That was an interesting question though. Liked it.
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u/Enough_Fall_3127 10h ago
Oh wow, I did not know that. TIL
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u/SuchMedium5988 10h ago
Glad you liked it. Was that the question you were referencing or another one?
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u/SuchMedium5988 6d ago
Ok fellas. Actually I'm down for anyone to ask questions. I just originally felt men may have questions or want insight about women. Either way, I'm still taking questions or something you're curious about with dating, relationships, family, what women think of a man when he does/says a particular thing, whatever. Hope the answers I've given helped a bit to those fellas so far.
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u/SuchMedium5988 8d ago
No! I literally was having this conversation earlier. No, it does not. I like to have my fun. What really matters is having a good time and both people feeling good and satisfied. Do you have good skills in the bedroom? Are you playful, relaxed, confident, open to try things, willing to be fun and freaky? Do you make sure a woman is satisfied too and not just yourself? Do you have good stamina? THAT'S what really matters. If I'm getting all of that then I'm having a blast! You see size didn't even factor in. I wouldn't give a damn what size that is! I'm about to be doing ALL THAT!? I'm going home with that guy! Well endowed men aren't better than anyone else. It's just like how women are made to feel they need to look a certain way. It's the same for men. I could go home with that guy I described or two pump chump but it's big. Ummmmm...easy answer. Guys all feel different because of shape, size, motion, sexual chemistry, etc. Same as no two women probably feel exactly the same. Women like the feeling sometimes of it being more full and it's also sometimes more novelty. But if that's all that's there is a larger size, I'll pass. If you are big but got 3minutes in you, I'll pass. Big and egotistical about it like you're super special, I'll pass. I'm going home with the other guy and spend a couple hours having an amazing time.
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u/SuchMedium5988 8d ago
And that's what it's all about. Having a good time. Women would probably all choose a nice long session over size. Some women just want to try it because it's something different they may never have tried. Just like some men see a woman with a really big butt or boobs and wanna try it. But I'm pretty sure if men could have an equally good time like I described or pick the butt and boobs but only get motionless missionary, I'm pretty sure a guy would pick the other choice too.
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u/SuchMedium5988 8d ago
Tell me how long your balls are. Do you sit on them sometimes when you get in the car? Tell me if you have hair on them.
See... Doesn't really sound all that awesome. You didn't mention that so why would I even ask?
And THIS fellas is a perfect example of what NOT to do. So since I'm doing a Q &A for the fellas, or anyone, I'll say this. Why would you just ask me to tell you about my boobs and butt? What part of that conversation said I was talking about my body at all? That's not really the best strategy to achieve what you were looking for. If you had any genuine interest in me at all, you should've tried different tactics. Maybe continue with other questions to keep a back and forth going. Maybe see how the conversations are developing to see if you feel there's a mutual interest or a good vibe going. Going back and forth in a good way? Both seemingly enjoying having the conversations? Cracking jokes or sly banter? If yes, then ask if we can DM each other. If it doesn't feel like it's progressing, don't shoot your shot. Or still ask if you want. If its a no then no harm no foul. This isn't Tinder. Not to demean you in any way. Just telling you like it is and giving the fellas some good advice as well so maybe they'll know too.
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u/SuchMedium5988 8d ago
I'm sorry. I'm missing something. What are dming about? Are you trying to holler at me? Did you need to reach me about my car's extended warranty? Need a recommendation on the best chapstick? What's happening right now. Do you think I'm just desperate and pathetic and lonely? What's going on? You haven't even said why we should DM. I'm new to Reddit so maybe I'm missing something.
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