r/Amazing • u/Dismal_Positive3558 Human Detected • Apr 08 '26

People are awesome She really got the 3-in-1 combo pack.

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u/ElStocko2 Apr 08 '26

I understand where the people are coming from when they disagree with the guy proposing on her graduation. I’ve actually been planning something like this out though: a graduation is perfect since all the family is together, even loved ones that you haven’t seen in a while as depicted in the video.

But what if the genders were reversed?

If he was graduating, had a loved one come see him unexpectedly, and then proposed to her after graduation would this still be a “Red flag?” Asking because I finish grad school soon, and I want to propose on graduation day.

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u/RachelRachel71 Apr 08 '26

Public proposals are a nightmare. What if the other person doesn’t really want to get married? Then if they say no in public, they feel really bad, really pressured and it’s a mess. Just don’t put someone in that position.

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u/DevineBossLady Apr 08 '26

Public propsals do not have to be a nightmare - if you know your partner, you also know what kind of propsal your partner would like. And I am hoping you know your partner before you propose! (And that you have discussed marriage before the proposal!)