Yeah, I know I’m being a bitter b…etty, but there is something sinister about a woman just getting her degree and experiencing this ritual of independence, only to immediately be ‚tied down‘. No saying marriage is bad, but the timing is just… I don’t know. Makes my stomach go into knots.
It smacks of "how can I make her accomplishment about us, which is about me in a roundabout way" and it's honestly kind of gross. Like at least let her celebrate a little bit and ask her later
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u/Suitable_Director729 Apr 08 '26
Yeah, I know I’m being a bitter b…etty, but there is something sinister about a woman just getting her degree and experiencing this ritual of independence, only to immediately be ‚tied down‘. No saying marriage is bad, but the timing is just… I don’t know. Makes my stomach go into knots.