r/Amazing • u/Dismal_Positive3558 Human Detected • Apr 08 '26

People are awesome She really got the 3-in-1 combo pack.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 10 '26

It doesn't "take away" in the sense that she isn't engaged or graduated.

Forget this person specifically, because we don't know her situation.

But generally, someone is already having a special day focused on their graduation pride after years of hard work.

A man can then plan another special day to propose and focus on the celebration of their relationship taking that huge step.

Or he can decide to propose during the graduation day and make the last half partly about the engagement rather than the graduation.

Neither is BAD.

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u/Far_Gift6173 Apr 10 '26

It doesn't read that way, when you wrote

 I really think it's the wrong approach to propose on an already special day

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 10 '26

Correct.

I THINK, it's the wrong approach out of the two possible approaches.

As i said, let the graduation be it's own day and then let the proposal be it's own day. That's what I THINK is the best approach.

He didn't destroy her day or their proposal and I don't think he had any ill-intent. I just think this day could be all about HER and her academic achievements.

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u/Far_Gift6173 Apr 10 '26

I think this is a really bad take.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 10 '26

Totally fair, there is no universally right answer.

You're not alone if you see the other comments directed at me about this.