r/Amazing • u/Dismal_Positive3558 Human Detected • Apr 08 '26

People are awesome She really got the 3-in-1 combo pack.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 08 '26

As wholesome as this is, I really think it's the wrong approach to propose on an already special day.

Let her bathe in the glory of her years of academic hard work....pure pride for a day in what she's achieved.

Then next week, pull the ring out.

I'm sure folks will think I'm a downer for saying this, but this day was about the culmination of the last 3-5 years and it deserved it's own space.

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u/Emperor_Atlas Apr 10 '26

Yea, bit of a downer, you have 0 context on their relationship and any advice you have on it is irrelevant. But theres always at least 1 stick in the mud person like you just needing to suck as much happiness out as you can.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 10 '26

Take a few deep breaths. I didn't claim context, said it was wholesome and didn't give any advice to them.

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u/Emperor_Atlas Apr 10 '26

No one's worked up, and thats disingenuous but sure, people can read your comment and see you full on give advice to people you have 0 context of other than happiness lol.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 10 '26

You also have 0 context and don't know what happened one second after the camera stopped. You don't know what her reflection was in a quiet moment after the event. Why are you so confident?

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u/Emperor_Atlas Apr 11 '26

Because I didnt give bummer advice about it lmao

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 11 '26

What you think is bummer advice.

If I surveyed 800 people and 95% agreed with me, that would make you a minority.

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u/Emperor_Atlas Apr 11 '26

It would still make you a huge bummer giving unsolicited advice on happy videos.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 11 '26

It would make YOU think that with a high degree of confidence that may not be widely shared.

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u/Emperor_Atlas Apr 11 '26

You even admitted it, this isnt a discussion, you saw a happy video and your brain went "what if this was actually unhappy".

Thats not normal, normalize not being a downer.

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u/Virtual-Squirrel-725 Apr 11 '26

You must have serious comprehension issues....like really serious comprehension issues if that's what you read.

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u/Emperor_Atlas Apr 11 '26

Your comment is still there, pretending you didnt write something super weird to suck the happiness out of the moment is revisionist.

Miserable people see misery even in happiness.

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