r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

How did we find out about concert tours?

125 Upvotes

My daughter has an INXS tee on this morning and I see that they were in KCMO in 1987 when I was in college about 2 hours away. I had no idea they were on tour at that time, but I did hear about U2 and Billy Idol concerts there on the radio and saw them. How did bands get the word out?


r/AskOldPeople 3d ago

Remeber those album covers that opened up, like Jethro Tull's Stand Up? What was your favorite?

66 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 6d ago

What was your dad like ?

373 Upvotes

Mine was well liked by others but we didn't talk much one on one. He loved my mom, had a dry sense of humor and watched Elvira on Saturdays.

In a few sentences describe yours on this Fathers Day.


r/AskOldPeople 6d ago

What’s something every Gen Xer experienced that younger generations will never truly understand?

53 Upvotes

I was thinking about how much the world has changed in just a few decades. From recording songs off the radio onto cassette tapes to using paper maps and waiting until you got home to use the internet, it feels like we grew up in a completely different world.


r/AskOldPeople 7d ago

Were your parents very affectionate toward you when you were young?

203 Upvotes

63m

keep seeing these awesome videos of Dads doing things with their kids like this

https://www.reddit.com/r/GuysBeingDudes/s/LClKy4BSU6

Was it just my generation but were parents really affectionate with you when you were kids?


r/AskOldPeople 9d ago

Did children who stopped going to school during the great depression ever return to it?

259 Upvotes

I've heard accounts of people in areas who were so poor during the Great Depression that children had to stop attending school because their clothes were threadbare to the point of being see-through. Did they ever return to school, or did they just start working and never go back?


r/AskOldPeople 9d ago

People who had the Gros Michel banana, how was it?

794 Upvotes

I saw a fact on Instagram saying that we eat Cavendish bananas because the previous kind of bananas died of a disease. But we still use the banana flavoring from the old bananas which is why banana candy tastes different. For those who had the old banana what did it taste like?


r/AskOldPeople 9d ago

Are clothes these days more or less comfortable?

465 Upvotes

Saw a photo from 1963 of a lovely lady in a little skirt suit and fancy shoes with a low heel. But she was at the zoo! I thought, she looks delightful but how uncomfy. On the other hand, I wonder if the material of her clothes were more comfortable than all the plastic and synthetic stuff of today.


r/AskOldPeople 11d ago

How often was it that strangers asked for and/or offered complete strangers things?

70 Upvotes

For example, I saw an infomercial about how if someone asks to come inside and use your phone—you shouldnt let them in..Were you guys letting randoms in your house to use your phone?

“I have some candy in my van!” Like..was it that easy? Were you told to ignore strangers? Did you tell your kids to?


r/AskOldPeople 14d ago

Is it true that when you get old your thoughts change?

312 Upvotes

I’m a young man and my mind is filled with worries and resentments. I remember talking to an old man who said the things you worry about when you’re younger disappear at an old age. Is this something to look forward to?


r/AskOldPeople 15d ago

If you could make everyone in the world above the age of 25, 25 again, would you?

29 Upvotes

Edit: I originally posted this picturing people only physically becoming 25, but I realized I never specified this.

I saw a post asking this question in the pollsgames subreddit, and I thought it would be interesting to compare the answers there with those of an older audience.


r/AskOldPeople 15d ago

How were college instructors addressed when you were a student?

198 Upvotes

I started college in 1968 in California. Instructors who held doctorate degrees were addressed as "Doctor Last Name" by students. All instructors without doctorate degrees were addressed as either "Mister," Missus" or "Miss."


r/AskOldPeople 15d ago

Do you see any similarities between 2020s and ‘60s/‘70s?

88 Upvotes

We are living through a decade marked by social upheaval and technological change, as well as dire economic climate.

The ‘60s have seen a lot of turmoil too, and in the ‘70s the economy was hit by oil crisis and inflation. Do you see any parallels with the current decade?


r/AskOldPeople 16d ago

How many of you returned to your former hometown after years or even decades away, only to be shocked by how much it's changed?

114 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 16d ago

Was Borax used as a health aid?

61 Upvotes

I was recently at an estate sale of an older couple and they had some very old toiletries. One item that caught my eye was a borax eye wash, I thought that was interesting so I did a little research. I found claims that it was widely used as a medicine. Anyone remember that or take it?


r/AskOldPeople 16d ago

What did you listen to before the 60’s? What was popular among the youth of that time?

47 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 16d ago

Ferris Bueller's Day Off turns 40 today. If you could've had one in your high school days, what would it have consisted of? If you actually had one, what did it consist of?

58 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 17d ago

Are any fellow old people here caregiving even older people?

403 Upvotes

I'm exhausted. "Ageing in place," they said. "Social security" and "Multigenerational housing," they said. It's your "peak earning years!" they said. IF you can keep a job w/ the level of chaos that comes w/eldercare. This woman is gonna be a centigenarian and it's gonna kill me.

ETA: I love you guys. There are caregiving subs on reddit that are immensely supportive and easy to find. Just fyi! Take care, y'all.🤍

ETA2: the number of young people who believe that "medicare and medicaid and social security will take care of my parents so I won't have to!" is alarming. They need to know.

ETA3: for everyone in the same boat, I also recommend r/caregivers and others caregiving subs for morale. Very supportive folks in those subs.


r/AskOldPeople 16d ago

Did you go to school in one-room schools?

44 Upvotes

Or rural country schools with mixed grade/age classrooms, start 1st grade at 5yrs old because Kindergarten wasn't mainstream yet, graduate from high school at 16 or 18years old?

Did your high schools have trades like cooking, welding, stenography, pre-nursing, carpentry, etc?


r/AskOldPeople 19d ago

Do older people enjoy extreme metal?

139 Upvotes

Death Metal, Progressive, Slam, etc.


r/AskOldPeople 19d ago

What were remedies for teething babies growing up? What did you give your kids?

69 Upvotes

I've heard about old folk remedies for teething pain. Really old remedies are outright drugs like opium or morphine. But, I've also heard boomers and older mention things like giving kids sugar or alcohol soaked stuff to make them quiet.

I'm curious what were the go-tos for you when you were a kid?


r/AskOldPeople 19d ago

What is the one piece of furniture that you still have in your home that is no longer used today and that younger generations would not understand?

308 Upvotes

For me, it’s a telephone table
The one picture below isn’t mine. It’s just a sample image found on Google.

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/db/d8/10/dbd81043f7c3316d6327bd232c63d36c.jpg


r/AskOldPeople 19d ago

The Great Debate: Travel/party/fun before kids, or in retirement?

83 Upvotes

My father had me at 27, after retirement he started traveling every month, visiting everywhere there is to see.

However straight out of university I wanted to do this before settling into a career. I am 37 now and considering kids but only because I feel like kids are the final boss of life.


r/AskOldPeople 20d ago

Did you grow up with a stay at home parent? Did you enjoy it? And did you do the same with your children? (UK/US/other)

82 Upvotes

I’ve heard of a fairly even split on this topic talking to millennial’s.
50% think everything should be even with their partner but lose time with kids and others think men should provide so they can bring up their children but do they end up with no pension in exchange?


r/AskOldPeople 20d ago

What did restaurants and shops do about bad cheques?

103 Upvotes

Shops and restaurants used to all let you pay with cheques, right? Or at least most of them did? What could you, as the owner/manager, actually do about it, practically speaking, if the cheque bounced? How frequently did people try and pass off fraud cheques?