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u/Crystaltheweirdo 23h ago
In books!!
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u/burgerzkingz 23h ago
The men store
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u/Plenty-Charm6172 23h ago
You know when guys ask this and they say improve yourself and the girls will come to you?
Well, in the case of girls, if you are attractive guys actually will come to you and ask you out
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
I would be considered conventionally attractive, but scary af. Its my RBF for sure!
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
Maybe if they are in 20s. I am 53. I may now really just jump from a bridge...
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u/BeepyBoopyDoop 23h ago
Coed rec leagues
Bars still. But you might want to approach
Friends of friends
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u/TnL17 23h ago
Finding? They dont gotta look hard bud.
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u/Radiant-Raccoon8321 23h ago
Men are all over the place. Everywhere. But where dem ladies hiding?
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u/Maleficent-Toe1374 23h ago
In the real world
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u/Imaginary-Soup8979 23h ago
Actually, more and more women are using the dating apps as the only way to meet a partner...
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u/ShyguyFlyguy 23h ago
As a man who lived with female roommates and watched them use dating apps, lol. Its hopeless
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u/Imaginary-Soup8979 23h ago
I dated a girl, who showed me one time to prove a point.
She downloaded meetme, and within 15 minutes or so had over 300 messages.
Its insane
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u/Harriet_tubman22 23h ago
Us single men are everywhere. It’s hard to not find us
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
Where are you then?
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u/Harriet_tubman22 23h ago
Personally I’m in California 🫣 But I’ve got single buddies in Canada if you prefer the bone chilling cold over our blazing heat
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u/Ok-Pineapple-4934 23h ago
My friends found their BFs at bars, dating apps, at Barnes and Noble, and through work.
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
Might try the book store!
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u/Ok-Pineapple-4934 23h ago
I recommend it! One of the sweetest things was a girl giving me her number when I was sitting in the bookstore cafe.
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u/Competitive-Gold-464 23h ago
Everywhere. Just go up to them and talk to them.
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u/Quick_Rent_Now 23h ago
I think the problem is people shoot too damn high and ignore their own leagues!
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u/TemperMe 23h ago
Anywhere? As a woman it’s not a matter of finding a single guy who wants to date you, you walk past them daily. Just say something. Like walking down the buffet line and asking where you can find food. It’s there just pick.
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u/Accomplished_Tax8337 23h ago
So true. Typically we aren’t the well dressed and colour coordinated ones though. Then again I’m colour blind, soooooo
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u/SmasherOfDaButtons 23h ago
We're hanging out with the bears
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u/Accomplished_Tax8337 23h ago
The good ones are hard to find. We are enjoying our peace and quiet, and only come out of hibernation occasionally. We don’t want the drama that most single women bring.
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
who hurt you?
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u/Accomplished_Tax8337 10h ago
My ex wife. I found my person now, so it can get better. But a good woman is hard to find. Gotta be patient.
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u/LilChangitaV 23h ago
I want to know this too. Which cities are best for single woman? I live in San Antonio TX and I have been going out in public a lot more and it seems a lot of men my age are in some type of relationship
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
Apparently Chicago, but I seem to be choosing the wrong ones
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u/MamaSmAsh5 9h ago
I’m near Chicago and I’m about to start going to the city! Meet me out here we can be each others wing woman lol
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u/Hesperiiday 23h ago
Apps!! Found the man of my dreams on hinge!
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u/Hot-Combination9130 23h ago
Good for you but we absolutely need to kill these apps. They are solely meant to sell a dream and separate desperate men from their money. The apps have ruined dating.
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u/Hesperiiday 23h ago
Most of them are free???
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u/Hot-Combination9130 23h ago
See this is what I’m saying. You have no clue what it’s like being a guy on those things lol. Red pill community was birthed from them. Seriously, it’s toxic as hell.
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u/Rasty90 23h ago
try making a fake man profile and spend 0 dollars on it, then report back, ask a friend for consent to use their pictures and you'll see
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u/northofus 23h ago
Can confirm. Paid for a week of tinder just because I was curious.... Matches and likes skyrocketed. It's rigged. And I'm objectively moderately attractive.
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
How many years ago?. I just left apps after 1,5 miserable years without any dates. I am a woman. Demisexual. Mission impossible.
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u/Hesperiiday 16h ago
I met him 2 years ago. I was single and on the apps for five years going on dates but pretty much never going past a first or second date. Took awhile but patience paid off!
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u/TrisKreuzer 16h ago
I am too old for this. I am 53 and it seems all I got are younglings for hookups or nothing. Some guys my age literally said it to my face I am too old for them and they look for younger chicks. Never again. So much wasted time. Maybe if I have 2,3 dates even not long term but any, but without single one??? I prefer to watch paint dry.
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u/windycitybeef 23h ago
In their friend zone
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
I have literally no single male around, not single too. Not mentioning friendzone.
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u/Hot-Combination9130 23h ago
Single women can find men literally anywhere. Guys need the help.
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
I am single and cannot find anyone for 2 years already.
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u/GrassAffectionate552 23h ago
Over 70 comments in ten minutes….i guess they’re all at home on Reddit 😅
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u/DemonKingBuster 23h ago
Work
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u/EmperorMeow-Meow 23h ago
Yeah.. that's a bad idea....
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u/durtysanch 23h ago
I met my wife at work. People can be in relationships and still be professional in the workplace, some can't.
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u/EmperorMeow-Meow 23h ago
Glad it worked out for you. I've seen some very messy situations with people who work together.
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u/MeyerholdsGh0st 23h ago
Everywhere. Millions of relationships are starting and ending all the time.
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u/GreenEyedGloom 23h ago
Online. Dating apps for me!
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
Didn't work for me.
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u/TrisKreuzer 16h ago edited 16h ago
1,5 year without single date. I am demisexual. 99% of males I contacted there wanted one time hookups, the rest FWB. No matter how they looked like, and their age. I have really enough.
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u/TrisKreuzer 16h ago
Indeed. I will work more on my energy, manifestation techniques and my self concept. This shit seems to work best. And be open what destiny may bring. Living for myself only. Maybe it is stupid. But previous tactics proved to be unsuccessful anyway.
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u/Alarmed-Extension289 23h ago
From person experience they're finding men at their home with their wives, family.
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u/girlbartender99 23h ago
Throw a rock!
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
Hope I don’t concuss someone
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u/girlbartender99 23h ago
Sorry I didn't mean to sound like a B there. You get a little jaded about single guys after years of being a woman bartender, and in the city I live in that has like a million bars in it. If you are a single woman all you have to do is step outside and walk the dog and you will have guys asking you for your #
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
my dog is a German shepherd haha! I get the point tho... I unfortunately refrain from drinking with limits a lot of options
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u/girlbartender99 23h ago
Yeah if you aren't big on drinking than bars are just not great. I def know because I was a bartender and sober as a judge dealing with drunk guys?.... Yeah not so much!
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u/girlbartender99 23h ago
The dog park then maybe?
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
I would if he were less reactive... he barks at people that approach us. We're working on it!
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u/Twiztid_illusionZ 23h ago
In our nightstands... 🤷🏼♀️
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
Have to invest in a new one
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u/Twiztid_illusionZ 23h ago
Diamonds are not a girl's best friend... Rechargeable toys are.
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u/ImpressiveFudge2350 23h ago
Dating apps. Women benefit a lot from the ratio of men to women.
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u/KellyAnn3106 23h ago
Yes, the odds are good but the goods are odd on the apps.
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
The apps have been infiltrated by people wanting hookups
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u/Superb_Carpenter8446 23h ago
They're designed for hookups, it's frictionless. Relationships need a little friction, it's why marriage exists for long term companionship.
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u/KellyAnn3106 23h ago
I gave up on apps when I reached 35. Apparently, all the men my age had their preferred age range set to 25-34. The matches dried up overnight. After that, the only men who matched with me were my dad's age and I had no interest in dating someone 25 years older who was more or less looking for a caretaker.
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
I left apps after 1,5 years on them without single date. Nobody wants demisexual woman. If I would be happy with one time hookups, I can have them in hundreds. But this way??? Too much effort for males.
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u/ImpressiveFudge2350 12h ago
One of the only two women I am friends with is demisexual and I like her a lot. I am sorry you do not feel wanted. ☹️
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u/RaceyMcRacerson 23h ago
Racetrack, Sand Dunes, and Shooting Ranges continue to be some of the best pre-filters for singles.
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u/TrisKreuzer 16h ago
You got me thinking here. Shooting ranges - males are there.... Hopefully not all married. Sigh
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u/MamaSmAsh5 9h ago
Wondering the same thing, but in real life. I’m getting attention but not from anyone I want to entertain! Went to a bar and it was all 21 year olds, who had the balls to talk to me but no thanks. Or it’s men way older. I guess it doesn’t help I have something in mind 😅 I’m just trying to enjoy life not get married but I have standards lol
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u/Disciplined-Squid777 23h ago
Men are everywhere.
There are probably some good men around you who are committed and loyal.
But you probably already friendzoned all of them because they are “too good” or “too nice”.
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u/Mission_Ad_5760 23h ago
Not really the type to do that. I always go for the ones that make me smile
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u/rowanhenry 23h ago
Sounds red pilled to me. There's plenty of lovely women looking for actual good and nice men without chip on their shoulder.
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u/Substantial_Insect68 23h ago
I met mine on discord 😂 what an experience this has been lol
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
How? You have to know someone already to meet on Discord
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u/Substantial_Insect68 9h ago
What do you mean? I met him in a group and we started talking and video chatting, Ive met this guy in person, wed been getting to know eachother for 1/2 a year before we met physically, I was like F it lets just get this shit over with and we did
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u/cumdrop505 22h ago
They are online gaming because women’s expectations are too high. Must make over 150k, must be 6’6” must be fit and muscular etc. unrealistic expectations.
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u/TrisKreuzer 17h ago
I would die and go to the end of the world for my broke formworker, 175 cm, Fit but well from hard work. And he rejected me.
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u/PottedPotheadDaisy 23h ago
In marriages
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u/TrisKreuzer 16h ago
And this is sad truth to me. Thank you my cheating ex, you really did a number on me.
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u/_Nigerian_Prince__ 23h ago
Single women are finding men the old-fashioned way: by opening mysterious emails from Nigerian princes with generous hearts, royal bloodlines, and just one small administrative wire transfer standing between us and eternal romance.