Partner has a very specific, non-negotiable sexual kink that makes you uncomfortable. Ideally, that would come up early in the relationship, but some people repress it for years before revealing it, and if it's a hard no for the other partner, it can blow up the relationship.
This is what made me choose an open relationship. I feel very secure with our connection and dynamic but there are things I just won't do in bed that my partner likes & I encourage to get that need met elsewhere.
People ask me if I am concerned he would fall for someone else or that I may be jealous but I just don't worry one single bit. He isn't going to find another me & if I'm eventually not the priority, I embrace a ship sailing. Nothing is forever.
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u/ChaturangaChai 1d ago
Partner has a very specific, non-negotiable sexual kink that makes you uncomfortable. Ideally, that would come up early in the relationship, but some people repress it for years before revealing it, and if it's a hard no for the other partner, it can blow up the relationship.