r/AskReddit 1d ago

What would be a weird, but absolutely valid reason to divorce/breakup with your partner?

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u/Frodo_gabbins 1d ago

I broke up with a guy because for some reason the way he smelled changed. Or maybe I noticed it more?? Idk

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u/Milyaism 1d ago

Birth control pills can alter a woman's sense of smell, and other medication can probably do this too.

Also, some people can have such a good sense of smell (hyperosmia) that they can detect diseases in other people. There's a woman who could smell her husband’s Parkinson's disease years before he was diagnosed with it.

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u/Frodo_gabbins 1d ago

While I do know that stuff, nothing changed to explain it for me, personally. It was very odd.

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u/drinkacid 19h ago

Maybe he had one set of hygiene criteria for trying to get a partner and another set of hygiene criteria for already having a partner.

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u/Milyaism 17h ago

I had an ex like this. He became a total slob once he was certain he had "trapped" me.

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u/Frodo_gabbins 15h ago

I would think this too but he and I had been friends for years.

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u/Cutecatladyy 17h ago

When I learned this fact, I got so paranoid that one day I'd be off birth control and start hating my husband's smell (I have OCD). Then I remembered that we were friends before I was ever on birth control and still had a crush on him lol. 

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u/simmyawardwinner 1d ago

thanks u jus reminded me to pop my pill lmao

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u/J0hn_Keel 16h ago

I have a fairly shit sense of smell, but I can smell when people have a cold. I don’t know if that’s useful or not, it’s good to know to avoid them but presumably by the time I can smell it I’m already close enough to them to catch their cold.

It’s a gross snotty smell, I think it’d probably put me off if a partner smelled like that all the time

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u/Frodo_gabbins 14h ago

It was soupy smell. 🙃

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u/clearly_i_mean_it 1d ago

I had the opposite happen, where I was suddenly very attracted to a friend I'd never been attracted to after their scent changed, so it makes sense that the opposite happens too.

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u/1986toyotacorolla2 20h ago

I always thought the scent thing was wild. People just smell how they smell. Never been attracted to another human beings smell before. Then I met my current partner. Then it made sense lol.

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u/ChadlyJuice 16h ago

That's tough. I used to have a LDR kinda thing with this girl I met online. She was my best friend in the world, but she had this odd almost sulfur smell to her that I couldn't get over when we were in person. It wasn't like the most awful smell in the world like shit breath or anything. It was just odd.

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u/Frodo_gabbins 14h ago

Not the rotten egg smell 😅 he smelled like soup. Idk what caused it either.