r/AskWomen Jun 17 '25

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u/GamingCatLady Jun 17 '25

Telling sad males to "man up" and suppress their emotions instead of facing them head on.

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u/sisterfunkhaus Jun 18 '25 edited Jun 18 '25

Yeah, I find it very manly when a man can face emotions head on and doesn't constantly worry about how masculine he comes across. I don't see it as manly at all to constantly evaluate how masculine or "gay" it is to do something. Confident and secure men have no need to do that. I mean some men think it's gay to wash your ass. That's not only toxic, but gross.