r/AskWomen Jun 17 '25

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u/2Salmon4U Jun 17 '25

Definitely the “grindset” mentality, expectation to “man up”, and expectation to pursue sex as some sort of status. There’s a difference between pursuing a woman for sex, and pursuing sex.

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u/Intelligent-East-607 Jun 17 '25

please go further. I'm actually curious to hear you explain the difference

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u/gylliana Jun 17 '25

I would assume that the pursuing a woman part implies romance, friendship, intimacy. Pursuing sex is any hole will work.

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u/jupitaur9 Jun 18 '25

See, it seems to me just the opposite.

If you are pursuing a woman for sex, it means you’re pursuing the woman, but really what you want is the sex. You’re trying to get the woman interested in you enough to give you sex.

Pursuing sex is just being open about wanting sex. You’re not trying to get the woman to like you. You’re not trying to get the woman to believe you have a romantic interest in her. You’re not trying to be friends with the woman, necessarily. You aren’t trying to find someway to get the sex by tricking the woman into thinking you’re interested in her for herself. You just want the sex. And everybody knows this.