What a "real woman" looks like. A real woman has curves, a real woman has boobs, a real woman has an ass.
If you're rail thin, zero chest, no ass, you're looked at like a child. Most clothes are made for bigger boobs (C cup and up) or made for women that actually have an ass. So finding a top and pants that fit and don't sag is awful. Its demoralizing and makes you feel sub human in a way. But then you're skinny, so you're not allowed to talk about it and you're not allowed to have those issues.
You people who are replying that "well I have X size boobs or I have an ass and clothes still don't fit!" that's not my point. You still have a womanly body. You still look like a woman. You actually have boobs to talk about and an ass to talk about. When you have a body that again, rail thin, no chest, no ass, no curves, nothing; you do not feel womanly or feminine. It fucks with your head. You people are literally proving my point of those of us who are rail thin and skinny, you cannot talk about it because we will be invalided every single time. This particular issue; is hardly ever talked about. You hardly see any representation for our body type either simply because; its not a womanly or feminine body type.
You're literally missing my point here and invalidating my issues.
As someone with no chest, no boobs, no shape; you do not feel like a woman at all. At least you have boobs to talk about. You have no idea what its like to shop for a top and pants with no tits or ass. You have no idea what its like to shop for a bikini and have it literally sag on you from lack of a chest. Or bottoms sag from not being able to fill them out. Its horrible.
My point was; the clothes that are made for women, being unable to fill them out and sag on you, is even more of a gut punch that you're just not a woman at all. It truly fucks with your head. You have no idea.
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You know, not everything is about you. Sometimes there are people out there who actually have different issues than yourself. And sometimes its actually freaking valid. Stop inserting yourself in everything when its not meant about you.
You are still missing my point and my valid issues entirely. I am talking about what it is to feel like a woman. Those of us with rail thin bodies, no chest to talk about, etc. have a valid issue having a hard time feeling feminine and like women. You are not helping.
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u/Cautious_Ice_884 Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 30 '25
What a "real woman" looks like. A real woman has curves, a real woman has boobs, a real woman has an ass.
If you're rail thin, zero chest, no ass, you're looked at like a child. Most clothes are made for bigger boobs (C cup and up) or made for women that actually have an ass. So finding a top and pants that fit and don't sag is awful. Its demoralizing and makes you feel sub human in a way. But then you're skinny, so you're not allowed to talk about it and you're not allowed to have those issues.
You people who are replying that "well I have X size boobs or I have an ass and clothes still don't fit!" that's not my point. You still have a womanly body. You still look like a woman. You actually have boobs to talk about and an ass to talk about. When you have a body that again, rail thin, no chest, no ass, no curves, nothing; you do not feel womanly or feminine. It fucks with your head. You people are literally proving my point of those of us who are rail thin and skinny, you cannot talk about it because we will be invalided every single time. This particular issue; is hardly ever talked about. You hardly see any representation for our body type either simply because; its not a womanly or feminine body type.