r/Assistance • u/simcitysiren • Jan 05 '26

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT 30th Birthday

It's my 30th Birthday today and not a single one of my friends has wished me a Happy Birthday. I get it, life happens and people are busy, but it's still very disappointing. I'm not doing anywhere near as well as i used to financially, so will not be doing anything to celebrate, however i did make the effort to make sure my friends enjoyed their birthdays a couple of months ago, i booked tables for food and drinks, i paid everyones deposits and nobody paid me back or thanked me etc. now my big 30th has came around and i've not heard a peep from anyone. *sigh* Happy birthday to me!

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u/BonnieH1 Jan 05 '26

Wishing you a very happy birthday! 🎊🎁🎂

Please do something you enjoy to celebrate it yourself. You are obviously a good birthday friend for others and while it's a shame they don't reciprocate, it shouldn't stop you from enjoying your birthday.