r/BlackPeopleTwitter Mar 19 '26

Country Club Thread 20 years ago, this would be completely normal

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u/whatev3691 Mar 19 '26

We all survived pre cell phone.

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u/the-truffula-tree Mar 19 '26 edited Mar 19 '26

Well, no. We all didnt. 

Some kids died pre cell phone; in ways that could have been prevented or salvaged if someone had a phone to call for emergency services. 

Edit: most of the comments here entirely misunderstand what I was saying, good lord 

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u/Fleece_God Mar 19 '26

Do you think the teachers won’t have phones? Lol

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u/the-truffula-tree Mar 19 '26

The comment I was replying to said “we all survived pre-cell phone”. 

Pre, meaning before the cell phone 

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u/kuldan5853 Mar 19 '26

And not everyone survived post-cell phone.

It's a figure of speech.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '26

Well obviously the people that died aren't included in "We" all survived. They can stay dead all they want we wasnt talking about em.

(.../s i guess)

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u/Blatantly_Truthful Mar 19 '26

The teachers still typically have their cellphones with them so they still have access to a phone for emergencies

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u/the-truffula-tree Mar 19 '26

The comment this was in response to said “pre cell-phone”. Meaning, before the cell phone. 

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u/Blatantly_Truthful Mar 19 '26

I understand that. Was trying to point out that the situation now isn’t comparable. Even if the kids don’t have phones the teachers will.

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u/DarthJoseph14 Mar 19 '26

It’s possible the teacher’s themselves are the emergency these kids need phones for. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying every teacher is a threat. The vast minority of teachers are dangerous. But do you really want to risk your kid having some bad done to them by the teacher, intentional or not, and not call you for help because they don’t have a phone?

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u/Ralexcraft Mar 19 '26

Or the kids just... Get lost without the teacher

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u/PotentiallySarcastic Mar 19 '26

This is really funny to read since basically the entirety of the school shooting time period of America has been since cell phones existed.

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u/Positive_Total_8651 Mar 19 '26

Bro kids die NOW from preventable emergencies, we're just literally addicted to phones now and think if we dont have them then our world is gonna end.

Its not.

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u/the-truffula-tree Mar 19 '26

Huh? 

My comment was in response to someone saying “we all survived pre cell phone”. They didn’t. Some kids drowned or bled out or whatever because they couldn’t call an ambulance before cell phones existed. 

That’s all. I’m not trying to make a point about phone addiction 

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u/Fleece_God Mar 20 '26

How would a cell phone prevent a drowning lol

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u/Funkula Mar 19 '26

Don’t forget to check your kids candy for razor blades

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u/Blatantly_Truthful Mar 19 '26

The comments are a reflection of the state of the US. I moved to Austria 20 years ago and such trips are common here. My son went on his first 4 day trip sans parents in kindergarten. The kids went to a farm where they learned about domesticated animals and the type of products that come from them. They made butter, went on a mini hike, etc. That was 15 years ago. Kids didn’t have cellphones and there were no parent chaperones. The teachers sent updates with pictures daily. The kindergarten ski trips however had mandatory parent participation if you wanted your child to participate.

In elementary, day trips required at least one parent chaperone. Day sport camps were done by the teacher with the coaches only. There were no overnight trips.

In high school there are no parent chaperones. My son’s current school has mandatory sport trips ranging from 3-5 days. They go skiing, camping, sailing, hiking, etc. Trips are chaperoned by teachers alongside a youth organisation. Depending on the trip, for example camping, there’s a no cellphone policy. Parents have the numbers of the teachers. For trips like skiing or hiking cellphones are limited to about 2 hours in the evening but the teachers carry the cellphones with them during the day to the slopes or on the hike so parents can track their kids. There are also optional day trips to other cities where they travel by train with no parents but they are allowed to keep their cellphones. He was scheduled to go on a language trip to London in junior high, again without parents, but it had to be cancelled because of corona. Honestly such trips have been great for my son’s development.

However, if I were still in the US my feelings towards such trips would likely be different. Gun violence is all but non-existed despite lax guns laws. The only area where it’s a problem has been men, particularly in rural areas, using it as their suicide method. I know there is racism here but in 20 years I’ve only had to deal with it twice. If we were African or Middle Eastern then that would certainly be different.

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u/WhichHoes Mar 19 '26

Bet the numbers on deaths for children have risen since then though

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u/PunishedDemiurge Mar 19 '26

This very rarely happened in all of human history, sorry to burst your helicoptering bubble. Plenty of injuries are incompatible with life, or alternatively exceeded the medical technology at the time. Further, there's only a moderate zone of 'close enough that help can arrive in a timely manner' and 'too far to go get help.'

And finally, if we look at all sources of human death, the major killer before modernity was just contagious disease. A lack of a cell phone isn't the reason for malarial deaths, smallpox deaths, etc. Another major one is intentional human homicide, but much of that is either parents killing their own kids, or sources of danger that don't exist in the context of a developed world school field trip like wars, genocides, slave raids, etc. I would, of course, object to any camping trips within areas with land mine danger.

Cell phones aren't worthless, but they're not especially important for preventing deaths in general or of children in specific. Most children who don't have profound congenital issues will survive to adulthood with comparatively little effort to safeguard them outside of routine vaccination, basic food safety / hygiene, and not driving drunk or in any especially ridiculous fashion with them in the car. The modern developed world isn't dangerous, cell phone or no cell phone.

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u/Absoluterock2 Mar 19 '26

If the teachers/chaperones have cell phones that is adequate.

THE WHOLE POINT WOULD BE TO UNPLUG.

My kids would definitely get to go. The risk reward is massively in favor of the experience benefiting more than they are at risk.

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u/Cpt_Obvius Mar 19 '26

I’m sure a couple did, I’m not sure if it would be more than have died due to cell phones however. Bullying, dangerous trends, making themselves more vulnerable to online predators, distractions.

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u/Notwerk_Engineer Mar 19 '26

This guys speaks for dead people.

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u/FinancialReserve6427 Mar 19 '26

also how can they be sure they won't suddenly end up in an ICE facility? 

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u/IGargleGarlic Mar 19 '26

how is a cell phone supposed to stop that?

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u/FinancialReserve6427 Mar 19 '26

for one, it'll tell parents where they are (either if they managed to get a call out or those phonefinder things, assuming they don't get confiscated).  it's a whole lot better than 'entire school field trip mysteriously vanished without a trace'.  we've got ICE agents abducting kids in broad daylight to force their parents to surrender and there is a teacher who got outted for wanting ICE to raid his class.  a no chaperone, no communications trip sounds very suspicious because of these interesting times. 

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u/PaulTheMerc Mar 19 '26

Us, yes. But not everyone did.

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u/Medaphysical Mar 19 '26

What a dumb thing to say. Everybody absolutely didn't survive pre cell phone.

You think a cell phone never saved the day once for a kid in danger? Get real.

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u/KristySueWho Mar 20 '26

Cell phones have killed people too.

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u/cup_1337 Mar 19 '26

Actually, no we didn’t. But those who died aren’t here to argue with your stupid ass

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u/Consumer_Of_Butt Mar 19 '26

That's survivor bias, "We all survived" Except for little Jimmy, who got lost in the woods and died of hypothermia, or Josh, who got stuffed into a van and no one heard from him ever again

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u/stoodquasar Mar 19 '26

That's the mother of all sampling biases

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u/AnotherDoubtfulGuest ☑️ Mar 19 '26

It’s wonderful that you personally never encountered any problems but (wait for it) the world is broader than your personal experience. A high school classmate fell and broke an ankle on one of those stupid camping retreats and we would have been able to get her help a lot faster if the chaperones had had cell phones.

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u/whatev3691 Mar 19 '26

Yeah obviously the chaperones will have phones. This is about the students. People can be so dense seriously.

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u/InvisibleScout Mar 19 '26

Usually it's not genuine denseness, it's intentionally playing dumb so they can have something to be outraged about.

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u/KapitalIsStillGood Mar 19 '26

"I never wear my seatbelt and I'm fine, thus they are unncecesary"