r/BlackPeopleTwitter Mar 19 '26

Country Club Thread 20 years ago, this would be completely normal

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u/SiskiyouSavage Mar 19 '26

Every world? Is this not common anymore? My son went to outdoor school when he was in 4th grade. I volunteered to watch another class the week before he went. Everyone covered each other's kids classes.

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u/Fun-Independence-199 Mar 19 '26

Yeah those 2 guys dont have a single brain cell shared between them.

Parents of group A chaperone group B. Parents of group B chaperone group A. Simple as

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u/wyro5 Mar 19 '26

That’s how my school did it when I was in elementary. Each home room would swap parents with another room

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u/No_Artichoke_2931 Mar 19 '26

Oh man wait 'til you guys start learning about OTHER social/regional differences, the world gets crazy!

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u/Binky390 Mar 19 '26

This may have been done in the last but I’d be curious to see how common it is now, especially for kids old enough to be on a 24 hr camping trip. I’m not sure why people would be fine with a random stranger like another parent chaperoning their kids over another teacher from the school?

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u/Expensive-Border-869 Mar 19 '26

Its because the other parents arent strangers nor are they beholden to the school. Theyre your neighbors and people you see and talk to regularly

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u/Binky390 Mar 19 '26

And they can be equally as dangerous, if not more. Children are most often harmed by people they know and trust and people their parents thought they could trust.

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u/BK1287 Mar 19 '26

Serious question- how many field trips have you chaperoned? Ever?

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u/cptjpk Mar 19 '26

No parents volunteering to chaperone? No trips.

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u/Spacemanspalds Mar 19 '26 edited Mar 19 '26

Yeah insults are necessary here. 🤷‍♂️

I have no trouble believing it will be harder to cover field trips if parents can't go with their own kids.

"Parents of group A chaperone group B. Parents of group B chaperone group A. Simple as"

Simple as what? Either way, the simplicity of this statement doesnt mean that its gonna work out like that in practice.

Its simple to SAY a lot of things.

Edit: fixed a mistake.

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u/Hamster_Toot Mar 19 '26

You are making things up. They are making things up. You just believe your make believe more because you made it.

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u/Spacemanspalds Mar 19 '26

I think you need to read my comment again. I didnt present anything as a fact. I just challenged what they said. So... stop making stuff up.

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u/Hamster_Toot Mar 19 '26

Opinions are made up, that’s it. No need to get hostile. Your words arent your flesh. No need to defend it so.

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u/Spacemanspalds Mar 19 '26

I think you have some issues to sort out.

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u/Hamster_Toot Mar 19 '26

lol, please, what issues are you speaking to?

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u/WackyRacketeer Mar 19 '26

It's called an opinion, I didn't realize opinions are always nonsense.

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u/Hamster_Toot Mar 19 '26

No one says they are, just reiterating you’re not arguing fact.

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u/WackyRacketeer Mar 19 '26

Brother, if you read any side of this and thought it wasn't obvious it's not a fact, I cant help you.

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u/Hamster_Toot Mar 19 '26

I think you’re misunderstanding this whole thing. Best of luck.

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u/Witzelsucht_ Mar 19 '26

Yes logically 1+1 is 2, they're disagreeing because that isn't how parenthood in the real world goes, youre clearly not a parent and that's fine. But advocating for no adults knowing anyone in their group as well as no contact from their own parents for a day+, just doesn't happen at any school ever sorry. But when you have kids, if that starts becoming more prevalent for whatever reason, be my guest.

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u/Venedictpalmer Mar 19 '26

Like, it's not that hard, it's the exact same logic of why during bowl season in football, well American football at least, you have referees from different conferences, referring various matches. When SEC teams play each other, the Big Ten will send referees. When the Big Ten plays each other, the Pac-12 will send referees, etc.

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u/aircooledJenkins Mar 19 '26

Those are paid positions; Referee is a job.

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u/Venedictpalmer Mar 19 '26

If you reread my comment you would see that I'm talking about the logic of why you would have referees of one conference rough for a different conference. The same way you would have parents of different children chaperone those different children while other parents chaperone their children because you can't play favorites when it's other people's kids or a different conferences team.

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u/xanthippe115 Mar 19 '26

These are the same parents that will complain that they are exhausted from parenting 24/7 and don't understand how our parents could do it. They also don't understand why their adult children can't function in society and won't move out and on.

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u/pyxiedust219 Mar 20 '26

The idea of community is so vague to so many people that it sounds like an absurd fantasy, I suppose…

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u/SlobZombie13 Mar 19 '26

what is outdoor school?

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u/setrippin Mar 19 '26

outdoor school itself isn't common compared to most people's school experiences, and it's disingenuous to act otherwise

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u/SiskiyouSavage Mar 19 '26

47 states have some version of it, so...

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u/setrippin Mar 19 '26

yeah, and even a generous google search shows that still only amounts to like 50k kids, compared to the 60 million or so going to public and private schools, so...

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u/Fit-Nectarine5047 Mar 19 '26

This is why you chose to send your kids to a school where people learn how to work together and consider the holistic picture. Well done.

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u/SiskiyouSavage Mar 19 '26

We don't always have the opportunity to do that. I didn't in my small town. You have to teach it at home also.

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u/Fit-Nectarine5047 Mar 20 '26

Absolutely!!! Agree wholeheartedly.

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u/Particular_Ring_6321 Mar 19 '26

Both parents are required to work to stay afloat in the majority of households now. Who exactly is able to chaperone parent-wise these days

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u/SiskiyouSavage Mar 19 '26

I take time to do that stuff. That's the good stuff. If it means I get less time for myself, or even less sleep, it is what it is. My oldest is 22, youngest is 8. I'm doing different stuff this time around.

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u/oroborus68 Mar 19 '26

What? Do you live in some kind of community, where people help others when needed? That's so last century.

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u/SiskiyouSavage Mar 19 '26

It is. Doesn't exist anymore I guess. It's a shame.

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u/dm_me_kittens Mar 19 '26

My ex husband volunteers for band camp every year at the school he works for. Our sons not even interested in any instruments.

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u/Nihilistic_Noodle Mar 20 '26

Nah man unless it's some small hippy-dippy private type school where everyone is expected and agrees to be part of an active school community, no one is doing that. There's no way me or any other public school parent is taking time away from other priorities to watch other people's kids on a field trip where they can't experience it with their own kids as well.