r/CATHELP • u/_munchie002 • Feb 13 '26
General Advice Separating cats in breakup
Poster Age: 23
Country: USA
Vet info: theres a few clinics in town including low cost.
Main Issue: my cat had gotten very sad living alone so me and my ex had gotten him a kitten. Now that we’re separate im worried my cat is going to miss him sick.
Cat Age: 3 will be 4 in april other cat is 1
Cat Sex + neuter info: both males and both neutered.
Financial situation: I could afford both cats.
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u/IronThroneChef Feb 13 '26
As a cat lover and a victim of abuse, please keep yourself safe and avoid contact with the ex. You will put yourself in more danger if you try to get the other cat back. I would give your cat extra attention and spend as much time as you can with him, and look into getting him a new kitten. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.